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writes:Hi guys, i have an issue!Basically, I don't know why or what it is, but everytime I grow close to a guy that I really like and that really likes me, I start to become weird.For example, I am CRAZY over this guy i know, and he is crazy about me , (well, so he says) :) and we would make a brilliant couple, i can REALLY genuinly see myself with this guy in the future, and it makes me so happy thinking of what we will share. But I get freaked out also, almost UNCOMFORTABLE, and i've always had this problem with guys i've liked in the past; whereby I like them and love the thought of being with them and thinking of our fun and good times but it also makes me somewhat uncomfortable and 'iffy'I genuinly do not think it's a matter of me not being able to see myself with one guy and that's it, that is NOT the case, but what could this be??How can i overcome this?Thanks guys Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your replies guys! In response to the first post, from what I know, my parents had an amazing relationship, obviously ups and downs but up until my father passed away a few years ago, they had an amazing relationship. I really can't think... I mean people have betrayed me in the past in terms of friends and guys maybe that could be it? Because I certainly don't think it's the guy I like because he is just so brilliant to me!
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (1 December 2008):
 I think you are describing anxiety. Its fun to fantasize about the future, but reality never seems to work out the way we dream it should. Just take it day by day and enjoy each encounter. Don't force yourself to do anything you don't want to and try not to rush things to make reality conform to your dreams.
Good luck!
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