A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Ive been seeing this guy for 8 months. we were friends before that for 9 months. lately i've been getting so attached that i've been getting mad at him. one, because i want to be with him all the time. I told him a few times i didnt want him to go to work, kinda whining like a little girl. I understand he has to work and do things. So do i. He loves me and treats me great. How do i detach my self like i was when i first met him? Before i needed time to myself, now i cant stand being alone. Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, 48years +, writes (1 December 2008):
Honey, there's nothing attractive about clingy. Force yourself to keep busy and not get anxious. Women often need to hear things that make them feel secure-we are wired that way. The right man will understand.
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