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How can I detach myself from my boyfriend?

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Question - (1 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ive been seeing this guy for 8 months. we were friends before that for 9 months. lately i've been getting so attached that i've been getting mad at him. one, because i want to be with him all the time. I told him a few times i didnt want him to go to work, kinda whining like a little girl. I understand he has to work and do things. So do i. He loves me and treats me great. How do i detach my self like i was when i first met him? Before i needed time to myself, now i cant stand being alone.

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A female reader, 48years  +, writes (1 December 2008):

48years agony auntHoney, there's nothing attractive about clingy. Force yourself to keep busy and not get anxious. Women often need to hear things that make them feel secure-we are wired that way. The right man will understand.

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