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writes:ok im 15 and my bf says he wants me to give him a bj but i dont really know how to do it. like i know u suck but i dont know like quite how to suck. i really really want to but i dont know how to please him. can u help me and i also need to know how to make it feel REALLY GOOD 4 him i need to know what i can do before and during to make it worth while. please help me...... PLEASE Reply to this Question
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (2 October 2010):
 You might want to watch one in any of the multitude of porn sites then try to imitate that...they are pros.
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reader, xxxlilskittlesxxx  +, writes (17 April 2009):
Sweetie its all about going with the flow,
If your not sure ask him how he likes it....
He will take you through what you need to know
and you will be fine....
You must remember not to be scared or you could end up bitting him.
Another way is pretend your sucking a lollypop,
You don't use your teeth...Move them out of the way...
Start it the tip of his cock and work your way down....
Don't forget to use some hand action as well....
It always works xxx
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reader, gary c +, writes (2 December 2008):
the best thing to do is pretend it's your dick that your sucking ,,,put your hand around it and pump it while ou lick the head rub your tits over the head of that dick and if it's long enough fuck your tits while you msuck the head the best thing is to suck it until you feel the dick starting to get bigge then put it in your open mouth and let him watch his cum shoot all over you lips then suck the rest of that hot cum if you did it right he will turn you over and grab you dick and suck you and drink all your cum and rud his hard dick all over our
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): a quick note, since your young, and your going to do it anyway, make sure you use a condom.and make sure its because YOU also want to, not because hes pressureing you to.its vary simple really, when you do it you will see that it comes naturally, heres some basic tips and guidlines.tips,*NO TEETH, big stresser, just like when makeing out, you dont want to be biten on your tounge, or on your lip, well, he dosent want to be biten, or scraped, there, so, keep them back.*Use your Tounge, lick the head of it with your tounge, in circles, or a figure 8 for some people, not a straight line, eventually that feels boreing and dull, it will cause him pleasure, as this is the most sensitive area.*dont take to much, as much as he would love it if you put it all the way down your throat, don't, since it will be your first time, you will gag, and no guy likes it when a girl upchucks on his thing, and if they do, fine, then do it.*if you feel your not takeing enough, but dont want to take more, hold the trunk of it with your thumb, index, an middle finger, and move them accordingly with your mouth.Guidlines.Dont stop every 5 seconds and ask how it is, that eventually gets annoying, ask this once to make sure its good.Be romantic about it, dont just be, "hey im sucking your dick Blah haha this is fun blah blah"eh, iv got nothing left to say i hope this helps.
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reader, Ashley245 +, writes (1 December 2008):
Well, my boyfriend LOVES it when you kinda twist your hand up and down while sucking..He loves it ..if he loves you it won't matter cuase there will be other times with him.. He'll see your progress.
Never be rough with your hands, and don't use your teeth.
It should be enjoyable!
good luck ^-^
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): 1Get comfortable, after all it wouldn't be any fun for either of you if you end up with a sore neck.
Step2Show initiative! Make the first move and he'll be like putty in your hands. If you're using condoms, slip it onto him using just your mouth.
Step3Start off slowly and remember to take your time in teasing him. Lick the glans (head), run your tongue up the frenulum (the strip of skin beneath the glans on the underside), tickle his testes (balls), kiss his inner thighs.
Step4Mouth his member squeezing him gently between your lips. Teeth can hurt, so slide your lips over your teeth to avoid pain as that's not many chaps' cup of tea.
Step5While some men might enjoy the feel of teeth against their manhood, the majority do not. Just as no two grains are the same - no two men are. Listen to the sounds your partner is making and let that guide you in guiding him to ecstasy.
Step6As you suck, don't forget to use your tongue for added sensations. Sounding like you're enjoying yourself with humming sounds will not only boost his ego but increase his pleasure as your mouth vibrates on him.
Step7Slippery's good, so make sure there's plenty of saliva flowing. Those with a dry mouth can introduce a tasty lubricant to get the juices flowing. One trick which works with great success is to introduce warm drinks into your oral play. This could get messy but having a bit of warm tea in your mouth when his manhood penetrates your lips can give him an extra-heated experience - but do make sure that it is not too hot! Alternatively, a fizzy champagne can send tingles up his spine in no time.
Step8While your mouth is occupied, don't forget to use your hands. Stroke his thighs, tickle his balls, rub his abdomen. Some men love having their perineum (the area between the balls and anus) stroked. Some like it one step further with a finger being gently inserted in the anus, however I wouldn't recommend this if you have long nails as you may cause pain.
Step9While keeping eye contact can be difficult, occasionally look at his face. Not only will you see his pleasure but he'll have a lovely view of the most beautiful person in the world worshipping his member. It's a real buzz for both of you.
Step10Remember, using your hands isn't cheating. Use your hand as an extension of your mouth if necessary to give your mouth a break.
Step11Increase your speed until you find a rhythm you both like. When it seems he's nearing his peak, whatever you do, don't slow down or change direction suddenly.
Step12As he nears orgasm, the decisions are up to you. Some men will tell you as they're about to, which makes things easier as you're prepared. Whether you spit or swallow or finish him off with your hand, he'll still feel the pleasure.
Step13Once he orgasms, slow down or stop completely as it could be painful for him. Many men are very sensitive at that point.
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