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My little sister is flat chested, and embarrassed, is there anything that can help?

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Question - (1 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi

i'm a lil worried about my young sister, she's 16 and got her period last year but she's still flat chested, i mean really flat!

i was nothing like her when i was her age, but i was chubby while she's sooo skinny!

she's always embarrassed and i really want to help, can anyone tell me what's wrong? and what can i do to help?

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (1 December 2008):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntI would suggest that you help her have fake breasts, but this can backfire, in that she could hook up with a guy, and be worried that he'd find out she has nothing.

Point to her the benefits of not having big breasts (you know females seem to get harrassed more when they have boobies, I could be wrong, but yeah.)

Just encourage her that they will eventually grow. This may sound like a sorry answer compared to the answer above me, but like I've said, why pretend, and then start going out with someone and he finds out they are not there? Surely by then he will love her for who she is neways, but how embarrassing to be found a liar, etc.

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A female reader, BlondeBabe x United Kingdom +, writes (1 December 2008):

BlondeBabe x agony auntChicken fillets are a good idea but then again some people may be worried about wearing them, like scared incase one of them fell out.

So maybe a safe option of good quality well padded bra may just give her and lift and a confidence boost.

Hope i have helped good luck! x

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (1 December 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntAsk your Mom to take her to a real lingerie shop where they know how to "fit" a bra properly. They can show your sis how to use those "chicken fillets" inside her bra to enhance her shape for now. I suspect that she will develop further along when she gains a bit more weight as breast size will increase with body fat. I am not longer a B cup as I was in my mid-teens. After 2 kids and 40 pounds, I am a D cup. Her breasts make change in the future, but a good bra and the "chicken fillets" will help her feel better about how her clothes fit until then. Maybe you, your Mom and your Sis could make the fitting and a girl's day out! You are a nice Sis to be watching out for her this way! XXX

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