Should I find out who made these accusations?
Q. after working for a number of years at a car business. I decided to resign and move onto other things. people were sad to see me go, where others were pleased I was going. someone from work has said, who I don’t know that I’m slagging off their ...
A. 1 February 2022: You have worked at this company, you have done a good job, now you have decided to move on to another job.
I would not even bother getting involved with this, its just one of those who you probably never got on with that well is trying to stir ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I are having difficulty with intercourse
Q. So this might be a little graphic, so I apologise in advance. This is kind of awkward for me, so please be patient… So, my boyfriend and I tried to have intercourse the other day, but it was very unsuccessful. We can’t seem to fit him into me, and ...
A. 1 February 2022: I thought that you received some good advice the first time that you posting this question a few days ago. Did you not find the answer that you were looking for originally?.
He is a a virgin, and you are not very experienced. All you can do is ke... (read in full...)
Dont stay in troubled relationships
Q. Hello, I was engaged, we were together until maybe 3 weeks ago. We were together about 5 years in total. It started out beautifully. He was charismatic, very sweet and loving. The last two years were terrible. Alot of emotional abu...
A. 1 February 2022: Its good that you stepped up and got out of this relationship when you did, i know this can't have been easy, so well done. So many people stay in these relationships in the hope they will change, the situation will change, but things never do.
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What are the perks of moving in together?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 11 months and has invited me to move in with her. I am thinking of it. We are both 26. Perhaps those who have moved in together can give some advice. What are the Perks of Moving in Together? Do most of you ...
A. 31 January 2022: I guess there are many perks, i suppose if your still at your parents this is flying the nest and gaining some independence.
I guess you will he contributing to the household bills, and helping pay the rent/mortgage/.
If there are two of you, ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mom what I seen?
Q. I am 24. My mom is 44 she and divorced. has been happier and dressing more attractively lately. one day when I was looking after her garden I came in to get a drink and I saw her lying nude with some guy. It looked like she was having sex. I reture...
A. 31 January 2022: She knew you were only out in the garden, and knew that you could come in at anytime. I'm suprised that she got naked with some guy knowing you you were in close proximity.
No i would not broach the subject with her, or ask her what was going on... (read in full...)
Do I tell my mom that I am dating her friend?
Q. I’m a 31-year-old guy, single, normal dating history. A few months ago, a friend of my mom’s called me and asked if I’d like to get together for coffee. I had met her at my mom’s house a couple of weeks prior and we had a nice talk. I thought ...
A. 31 January 2022: I think that you should tell your mum the situation, i think that the longer that you leave it the harder it will be for your Mum to deal with.
You are both adults, your in your 30's, and she is in her 50's, your both free and mature enough t... (read in full...)
I like. Him but don't want to date him
Q. I have liked a guy for 7 years but i still don't want to date him. When we don't talk i miss him and i feel happy and good when we do. I don't want him to get too close to me but sometimes i want his attention and time too.What is wrong?...
A. 31 January 2022: There is nothing wrong, you simply enjoy the friendship. It's ok that you value the friendship, and its ok that you want his attention.
You are still only young, plenty of time for love and dating. ... (read in full...)
My husband says I am at fault for not trusting him but is he the one who is really at fault?
Q. Sort of beside myself. My husband of 9 years says I have anxiety and it is my fault that I do not trust him, because I have anxiety. But I think the fault is his. I recently found a number on his phone under Fed Ex and it was a young woman...NO...
A. 31 January 2022: I recall a post very similar to this one some time ago.
I think it is obvious from your post that he is lying to you and trying to cover things up.
He know you are anxious, he is really not doing anything to help this, infact by lying to you,... (read in full...)
No sex in 27 years. Will I be able to have it?
Q. I havent had sex for 27 years due to my husband being unable. Now that I ama widow what if I want sex with another man? will it be possible?...
A. 31 January 2022: I don't see why not. Just take your time and go with the flow, relax and just enjoy it. ... (read in full...)
Wife no longer interested and I need relief
Q. I am 87+ and can no longer get an erection... I try masturbating but dont always ejaculate.. what can I do? still married but wife ot interested anymore......
A. 31 January 2022: Taking into consideration your age, i would think your best bet would be to go along and see your physician, or GP, and see if they can offer you any advice, or prescribe anything to help you. ... (read in full...)
What can I do with my hands when kissing?
Q. The girl I'm dating is great. She has nice hair, smile, and hips. What are some things I can do with my hands that will make her feel when kissing? There may be better things than leaving them at my sides. ...
A. 31 January 2022: I think depending on how long you have been dating her, just what is natural and comfortable at the time.
Maybe one hand on her waist, and one hand on the side of her face brushing her hair back. ... (read in full...)
What do they feel?
Q. what do cheating wives think when they are about to feel strangers cock fo the first time...
A. 31 January 2022: Who knows what a women would think. Maybe this is so wrong, and i hope that my husband does not find out about this. ... (read in full...)
What do these girls want?
Q. Do girls actually want you to touch or flirt with them in the stores? Are there any signs girls give to show they have interest? I seem to run into girls who seem to get very close to me, even bend down in front of me or bump into me at stores but...
A. 31 January 2022: I would say absolutely no, they would not want you to touch them.
I think that you can take friendly gestures like a look, and a smile a something more.
If someone does this to you, go there again at another time, chances are they are local a... (read in full...)
Would a tall woman go out with a shorter guy?
Q. Im 5’4’ and like a woman who is about 6'4" she has an athletic frame from sports and works out regularly. I can honestly say I like her figure and personality.im thinking about asking her out. Any advice for asking out a taller woman? Would a ...
A. 29 January 2022: Its hard to answer that question, i don't think you will know anything until you ask her.
She might decide to go out with you, or she may decline your offer, but her declining your offer may not necessarily by anything to do with your height. ... (read in full...)
Why is she lying to me?
Q. Hey, so I'd like to ask what to do as I was told awhile ago my partner was taking people home after work, not work colleagues shes taking men back to there home after her shift and she works in a pub. The pubs closing time is 12am midnight but shes ...
A. 28 January 2022: To start with where do you see this relationship going. Its been 18 years now, and nothing seems to have progressed, and she still has her own place.
I think if she was just taking drunks home, or a colleague she works with she would have bee... (read in full...)
Married 8 years and don't like having sex
Q. I have been married for 8 years now, but i don't like having sex.... I have pretended through out the marriage, used some lubricants and got on with it so to say. My husband has speculated that maybe i am gay because i never seem to be interest...
A. 28 January 2022: No one is going to judge you here, we are here to help and offer sound advice.
Yes he may be a nice man, but you are clearly not happy in this marriage, which i suspect has been going on a long while, and maybe is a lot more than just sex. Yes... (read in full...)
I think my husband has a crush on a younger female friend
Q. Hi I need some advice about my husband, I think he is crushing on a younger female friend of ours. He always compliments her when he'd had a bit to drink then says he's trying to insult her as a joke! and I've seen him staring quite a bit. I have...
A. 27 January 2022: I that maybe you are reading a little to much into this. Don't manifest problems are scenarios that are not even there.
Relationships are based on trust, trust is the most important contributing factor that bind a relationship together, without ... (read in full...)
The more I know about his life, the more I want to walk away
Q. I’m in a relationship with a man with kids. I don’t have any and not thinking of wanting anytime soon. I haven’t met his kids and I don’t want to push him on meeting them. The more I get to know the situation with his life, the more I feel like ...
A. 27 January 2022: Personally i don't think that any changes are going to happen anytime soon. I am guessing this daughter is still quite young so this could be going on for a long while yet.
Of course his daughter takes priority, but his ex seems to want to make ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband to have sex with other women?
Q. Would it be stupid to let my husband have sex with other women because I never want it anymore? I’ve been through the menopause and it’s pretty much killed off my sex drive. For over 2 years I’ve had no sexual desires at all and to be honest the ...
A. 27 January 2022: I think that the fact that you say the thought of your husband having sex with other people does not bother you, i find quite worrying, it kind of say's that you don't love him anymore. I think that the thought of him with another woman, pleasing ... (read in full...)
Tips for penetration? Please?
Q. So this might be a little graphic, so I apologise in advance. This is kind of awkward for me, so please be patient… So, my boyfriend and I tried to have intercourse the other day, but it was very unsuccessful. We can’t seem to fit him into me, and ...
A. 25 January 2022: Invariably first time sex is not all its cracked up to be. I think that we build up a picture in our heads of how its going to be, how awesome and perfect its going to be but most of the time it never is, largely due to nervousness and performance ... (read in full...)
Is my partner a sex addict
Q. I think my partner is a sex addict. I cant be sure but having read online articles I am finding alot of matching information that match his habits. I'll give you a run down. My partner likes to masturbate at least ten times a week. His sex dr...
A. 25 January 2022: It sounds to me like he is living the life of a single guy, doing exactly as he pleases.
Maybe if he was not getting off on dirty porn, and masturbating 10 times a day then he would be able to stay hard with you, and give you the loving atte... (read in full...)
What are some fun and romantic things we can do?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for about 6 months. He has been there for me and always kind and good to me. He is always been comforting, and supports me. He never puts pressure on me. I have reached that moment that i want to surprise him wit...
A. 24 January 2022: It sounds like he is a nice guy, a keeper. That is a really nice gesture to cook a nice romantic dinner for him, i'm sure he will absolutely love this.
Just wear something that you feel comfortable in, but also a little more sexy than your aro... (read in full...)
Should I ask my wife to cheat?
Q. Is it completely absurd to fantasize about your wife doing something with another man (ex hand job, BJ, just kissing, intercourse)? My wife is extremely attractive, younger than me, and I have no desire to be with anyone else. However, I do ...
A. 24 January 2022: Personally i would leave it alone, bringing a third party into the bedroom is likely to end not happily.
I would leave this as a fantasy and not bring this to fruition. What if you experimented with this and let her do it, then she started ... (read in full...)
Does yoga make sex better?
Q. wellness blogs recommend yoga for a better sex life, as well as personal accounts of the practice improving sexual experience. How can yoga make for a better sex life and better sex? What yoga moves can help with sex? ...
A. 21 January 2022: I think that performing yoga on a daily basis is both good for body and mind.
Having a healthy mind, and supple flexible body will benefit your bedroom activities no doubt.
Have a look a hatha yoga, its a light peaceful form of yoga involvin... (read in full...)
Do other men like to see their wives flash their breasts?
Q. When weareout on vacation my wife likes to leave her blouse half open without a bra or halter on. It gets me aroused and I see many men sneak a peak any other men like their wife to flash?...
A. 21 January 2022: If you don't mind her being a tease and getting other men to sneak a peak at her then that fine, its what you both like. ... (read in full...)
My husband has quit four good paying jobs this year and I am tired of it
Q. I am pissed my husband has had 4 good paying jobs with in the last year. He always ends up quitting because he is upset about something. He always finds drama at his jobs and he always finds something to complain about. He never takes my advice ...
A. 21 January 2022: He needs to get a grip, a reality check, and he needs to man up and realise that he is not a single guy coming and going as he pleases.
He is married, has a baby on the way so he really does need to sort himself out, otherwise he could risk los... (read in full...)
Can I ask out my tutor?
Q. I have been single for almost 2 years now and in college. Well there's a Russian woman that is my tutor at that I really like and want to ask out. I'm wondering if its ok to ask out my tutor. She is smart, super cute, and I like her Russi...
A. 21 January 2022: I don't think that you should ask her out while you are sill her student. I would say that there are very strict policies on teacher student dating, if it was found out that she was seeing or dating student's she could get into a lot of trouble, or ... (read in full...)
My parents don't like my LDR boyfriend
Q. I uhm hi...these days I have been very stressed with school and stuff. I have a strict Asian parents and they doesn't like my long distance relationship boyfriend, what should I do? I love him so much and we've known each other for a long time now. ...
A. 21 January 2022: With all due respect, taking into consideration the age bracket that you specify, i would say that you don't love him, you think that you do.
You may have strict parents, but being a parent myself they just want the best for you and see you do w... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend need to set up boundaries with his ex?
Q. Advice please Aunts and Uncles, I have being dating my older boyfriend for over 8 month. He has a 10 year old son who he sees every two weeks and all school holidays. His ex has now found out about me and now she’s demanding he has his son near...
A. 20 January 2022: Sounds like she is causing a fuss now she knows there is someone new on the scene and she seems like one of those who wants to make as many waves as she possibly can.
My son is older now, so things have got a little easier, although she is still... (read in full...)
Friend screwed me over now I don't want to see him
Q. I was just screwed over by my former coworker/friend He is a former coworker from my 2nd job that I helped get into my 1st job. When he got hired, he got a sign on bonus. And I get a referral bonus. He asked me to split my referral bonus with ...
A. 20 January 2022: All you can do if you see him is put what happened to the back of your mind, be a professional as you can be and concentrate on the job at hand.
Yes it was a strange request asking you to split your referral bonus, that's your earned money fo... (read in full...)
Who is to blame for initiating the wife swap?
Q. when a husband asks his wife if she would agree to a wife swap she then says no,then he asks again and she says she will think about it, and then decides she would do so knowing her yes would mean an almost certain swap would then happen. where ...
A. 18 January 2022: The husband is to blame, she said NO, it should have been left at that. You asked again, she probably gave the answer that she did to get you off her back. She does not want to go through with anything like this by the sounds of it.
Regar... (read in full...)
My SO upset that I look at my ex on social mediaa
Q. Would you consider it a big issue if you’re significant other looked at their ex’s social media profile? My significant other is upset with me as he went through my phone and saw I searched an ex’s name on social media. I’m not in contact with them. ...
A. 16 January 2022: I always say that trust is the most important contributing factor that binds a relationship together, without trust a relationship does not stand a chance.
To pick up a partners phone and go routing through it trying to find evidence of somethin... (read in full...)
Are we stupid for giving it another try?
Q. I dated my ex for 18 months, I described him as the perfect guy. He was sweet , fun, caring and funny. See could sit and talk for hours and we had insane chemistry. I did break up with him 10 months ago because we were just in different places in ...
A. 16 January 2022: Your ex has actually finished with his partner the night you slept together. You just told your's you needed a break. Is that because if it does not work out with your ex you can go back to him. I do think this is very wrong, as ultimately you ... (read in full...)
I am confused about how my friend is acting towards his estranged wife
Q. A male friend of mine is going through a divorce. His wife refuses to leave the home so they are living in separate rooms in the same home. What blows my mind is he said sometimes she makes him dinner or breakfast and even though he talks terrible ...
A. 16 January 2022: I would imagine she has sought legal advice and has been told to remain in the property until such time as the sale goes through and they can then go their separate ways.
I guess they both know the marriage is over, so rather that being at each ... (read in full...)
What do do about my cheating wife?
Q. 30 years married my wife went with her girl friends.TO dinner and while she was gone. I got a call from her saying she was lost so. I went to were she told me she was and she was not there . about an hour later. I got a phone call from her girl ...
A. 16 January 2022: Sounds like you can't get this situation out of your head, and by the sounds of as long as you are with her these feelings are not all of a sudden going to vanish and go away.
She betrayed you, she broke the trust barrier, trust is the most imp... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to be friends with her ex
Q. So I have been dating this girl for a little over two months. A few months prior to us starting to date she ended a 5 year relationship with another guy. She said it ended amicably and that they had taken breaks before but this was different. She ...
A. 14 January 2022: I believe that you should not start another relationship with someone else until you are 100% over the last one.
In my opinion she was not ready to start a relationship with you as i think it was too soon, maybe the ex was right when he said she... (read in full...)
Should I continue talking to the football manager, or leave it?
Q. Hi there Hope everyone is okay and your keeping yourself all safe from covid, the story begins and it’s not often about football. I love football, I’m a fan of the game and used to play when I was younger, and wasn’t that good but I still enjo...
A. 13 January 2022: I think that you are thinking way to much into this, why would you think that you would come across as needy?. You like football, he is a football manager who obviously likes football and you have a common interest.
Just be yourself, keep bei... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend using me?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 years. First 2 years were very good. We got along most times a few disagreements, mostly over money. The last 2 years have been not good. He gets agitated, and annoyed easily with me. He asks for ...
A. 13 January 2022: Yo have put up with this for the last two years, i think enough is enough now and you need to end this relationship with him and move on.
He is rude, he is taking you for granted, he is using your for your money, and in return instead of showing ... (read in full...)
Should my sister in law contribute to my dental repair bill?
Q. In a tragic accident, my sister in law kicked a soccerball in my face and broke several teeth, total $4,000 in dental and medical to date, with additional damage unassessed (insane amount of pain, general oral health down, gum line receding because ...
A. 11 January 2022: I think that if it happened in your back yard and she just kicked it straight into your face then i would say she should certainly pay half.
But if, as i suspect it was in an supervised proper soccer game, then i agree with CMMP and HP, you were... (read in full...)
Should I reach out to her or just let it go?
Q. a couple of years ago, I was on a social media site. I messaged a female who caught my eye and we instantly clicked. both daft as each other and we had things on common. we both like football, reading and going to the pictures. when we met each oth...
A. 11 January 2022: I think if maybe it was a month or two later then i would say yes contact her, but two years is a long time, and a lot could have happened in this time.
The guy she ended up with, he could now be her husband, she could have kids now and be settl... (read in full...)
People asking for money on social media
Q. Hello ?? Social media has been a good way to make new friends. I have made a couple of long lasting friendships, however, it's also frustrating when you talk to people and they seem to feel it's okay to ask for money. Most times it's men ...
A. 6 January 2022: I think that there are always going to be scammers and fraudsters out there who will put on the charm, tell you that they love you only to get your hard earned cash.
There have been a lot of posts here on DC from people that have unfortun... (read in full...)
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