Together 19 months and he said hes not in love with me! Is there a way to make this relationship stronger ?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together 19 months now and just the other day he said that he wasnt in love with me and wasnt sure about us although he still loved me we are currently still together but he is worried it will hap[pen again and it will ...
A. 13 April 2007: I dont think that you can fix this problem, his feelings and emotions are something that you have no control over. It sounds like however that he is not sure himself how he really feels and this puts you in rather a difficult predicament. If he ... (read in full...)
What do the lines mean on a pregnancy test?
Q. I did a test from my doctors, a pregnancey one and it doesnt tell you what the lines mean could you tell me what one blue line mean and two lines mean please asap Thankyou Sam...
A. 12 April 2007: Usually a pregnancy test comes with instructions and it is difficult to say what these lines mean as all very on the test you brought. I would suggest that you either go to your doctor to do a test or go into the chemist and ask for some advice. Do ... (read in full...)
Do you think my boyfriend is using me?
Q. i have a boyfriend who is not working, i do everything for him. i have just given him my credit card because he had no food in his flat but he spent R2000. now i have opened a business and bought a car now he wants to be a partner with me. i dont ...
A. 12 April 2007: I think taht you even questioning this relationship suggests that there is a problem. I think that the best course of action to take would be to confront him. Explain to him how you feel may be even writing him a letter. Reassure him that you do ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hasn't been showing any interest in sexual activity lately.
Q. My bf of a year hasn't been showing any interest in Sexual activity lately. He's been playing computer games, hanging out with his friends, not working. Just last night he became a little touchy feely with me, and I told him I wasn't in the mood ...
A. 12 April 2007: You dont ay how long it has been since your boyfriend has not shown interest towards you sexually however i believe that any change in any part of your normal routine signifies change in your relationship. This however may not necessarily mean there ... (read in full...)
Can I break up with a guy over the phone if we've only been dating for just under 2 months?
Q. Can I break up with a guy over the phone if we've only been dating for just under 2 months?...
A. 12 April 2007: Of course you can do what you want.. however i woiuld not advise that you break up with this guy over the phone. There are many reasons for this firstly it will make you seem heartless and you will get stick off of everyone who knows about the ... (read in full...)
I have a bf but have feelings for my best friend. What do I do?
Q. hi there,I have feelings for my best friend.he was a colleague of mine,but we both don't work at that company any more and for two years now we have become best friends..but I i'm totally in love with him!I can't get him out of my head,another ...
A. 12 April 2007: I think that you and your boyfriend need to take a break for a few weeks. I also think that you need to take a break from this friend. This will allow you time to re asess your relationship with your partner and your friend. I think that pherhaps ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl but shes a 15yr old mum, what can I do my parents wouldnt approve ?
Q. ok I am in a predicament.....i have a major crush on this girl she is 1.5 years younger than me....that isn't the problem the problem is that she has a kid. It is just a very odd situation....we met on the internet and we talk allot she lives in the ...
A. 12 April 2007: I think that you are focusing too much upon what others will think of your relationship and too little on what you actually think of it yourself. If you truly care and want to be with this girl then it shouldnt matter if she has a child or not ... (read in full...)
How does a break from a relationship work?
Q. If you're planning on taking a break from your bf/gf what happens? How do breaks work? DO you talk to your bf/gf? Do you see your bf/gf? How do you cope while you're in the break?...
A. 12 April 2007: I agree with the previous answer that there are no ground rules for a "break" and it is all relative depending upon your relationship. From what i understand a "break" from your partner simply means that you need some time and space apart from each ... (read in full...)
I need some thoughts on this major "school drama" that went down! Who was right and who was wrong? Any thoughts?
Q. I was just wondering what the readers of dear Cupid thought about something that happened to my friend a little while ago. It has puzzled me greatly over who was in the right or wrong. A friend of mine was really popular in the centre of her gr...
A. 12 April 2007: Firstly i think i must say that after reading what you said neither group were right or wrong, they both had their issues and i think there actions are justified by these. It must be very difficult to be in the middle of these two people but i think ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and unhappy with the way my bf treats me! What should I do?
Q. Hi I don't know if I am over reacting but my boyfriend is really bugging me 'cause he keeps sending messages to his ex, it's nothing flirty but it bothers me 'cause I am pregnant right now and he keeps on calling her Aunt Sara and things in the ...
A. 12 April 2007: This is a very difficult time for you both physically and mentally and the pressure must be worse as to how the father is treating you. You have as much right in how your child is raised if not more than the father and you must make him aware of ... (read in full...)
Is there any other reason besides pregnancy...that my periods are late?
Q. Hello, I'm late on my period by about 5 days maybe 7. I've done 6 pregnancy tests and one at the chemist. All negative! Could I be pregnant as I’m late on my period or are the tests correct? Is their any other reason why I could be late? ...
A. 12 April 2007: There are plaenty of reasons as to why your period is overdue including,changes in weight stress and lack in nutrition, but there could be other more serious reasons such as a sexually transmitted infection. I would advise that you go to the doctor ... (read in full...)
Any tips for an anniversary present?
Q. hello. i have a question and im sorry it is too long, i may only be 16 but i have been with my boyfriend now for 8 years. silly i know but we fell in love at 7 years old. on my 14th birthday i lost my virginity to him as i really did love him a ...
A. 12 April 2007: I found it really hard to know what to do when it was mine and my boyfriends 2 years so the pressure must be intense for you being together for such a long time! I am of a similar age to you and i personally found that financially it was difficult ... (read in full...)
Any ideas for dating? All advice welcome
Q. I want some cool dating ideas for my girlfriend and I. We have been dating for 2 months, and I like to do other things besides movies. We're planning bowling, on a double date. Thats a start I suppose, but I want some cool ideas on what we could ...
A. 12 April 2007: Its really great that youre showing an interest in doing different things with your girlfriend this will definatly keep her intersted in you! However there are as i am sure you are aware limitations upon what you can do due to your age. Several ... (read in full...)
I'm a black woman in NY, and I have a thing for white men, trouble is I dont seem to be their type around here! Any advice ?
Q. Okay, so I am not sure how to deal with this... I am a 32 yr old single black woman in NY. I am also a single mother. For some reason lately I seem to find myself more and more attracted to white men. Now I know there is nothing wrong wi...
A. 11 April 2007: I think that you are approaching this in compleatly the wrong way. You seem to be focusing on white males in New York as a group, they are not they are all individuals as you are.Not everyone thinks the same so dont believe any of the rubbish that ... (read in full...)
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