Should we ignore our culture and just do it??
Q. Should we say no to our culture and do it? We are related. My grand father's mother is the sister of her grand mother's father. We love each other so much. But it's almost impossible to get married for us because of our relations. ...
A. 11 November 2007: Well who is to stop true love? If you two really love each other the way you say you do I am sure you wil find a way to be together. Real love is a rare find so when you find it you you have to go with it. It does kind of sound like a distant ... (read in full...)
How can I overcome my insecurity and learn to trust again?
Q. Hi, I am a 22 year old guy, and I am very sensitive, very committed, and very respectful, about a year ago I broke up with my ex because she fell pregnant... by another man, so as you could imagine, I was devastated and my life went pretty dire from ...
A. 11 November 2007: Talk to her, tell her why your scared. Girls like it when your honest with them it will make her feel more close to you when she realizes how much you open up to her. If you to really love each other you will get through it just make sure she is ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my insecurity?
Q. my bestmate is very pretty. shes the works basicaly. and its becoming a habbit now that my guys fancy her. ino she cant help it but its realy buggin me. like yesterday me, her, this guy who fancies me and his mate went out. now the guy who fanc...
A. 11 November 2007: Okay first off if all the guys see is good looks they are shallow and not worth your time!!! I am in a similar sittuatoin right now. I have had three best friends since ever. Well now they are cheerleaders and very very pretty. I got really upset ... (read in full...)
Will a guy ever want me for anything other than being like a sister?
Q. Guys always seem to like me as a sister. When ever I think it might work out with a guy he goes and say' I am so glad I know you, you are like an awesome sister.' Am I doing something wrong? Or have I just not meet the right guy? I'm very ...
A. 11 November 2007: Okay how do I not act like there sister. I flirt with them and they always flirt back but yet always a sister??? I just hang out with them like best friends, hoping one day they will see more than friendship... I am so so so confused!... (read in full...)
I blossomed before most of my friends, is that normal
Q. I 'blossomed' before most of my friends. Is that normal? I play alot of sports, and run almost everyday, could that hvae something to do with it? Please help I feel like some kind of freak....
A. 11 November 2007: Thanks for your answers! I do feel better now that I know there is nothing wrong with me! =-)... (read in full...)
Boobs...not all they're cracked up to be.
Q. Honestly, i'm rather sick of girls saying, "oh my boobs are too small...he'll never notice me." What they don't realize is that it's not a walk in the park for those with a large bust. So here's my problem: I get too much attention, and am never ...
A. 11 November 2007: I know how you feel! Most girls at my school are flatter than boards so that adds to the attentoin on me. Almost everyday girls at my school come up to me and ask if I stuff my bra. I always freak out and end up yelling at them(I have a bad temper). ... (read in full...)
This is first time I've fallen in love and I'm scared to give my love and trust to him, what should I do?
Q. i felt in love for the first time but i'm not happy...his so nice to me but this is the first time that i trust a boy it's hard to me to pretend like i'm fine...i can't leave him i'll die..what should i do?ican't heart him......
A. 11 November 2007: I know it can be very scary, you not wanting to get your heart broken it's very scary, but don't worry if you truly love him and you know he loves you just go for it. If you still don't know talk to him, tell him you guys can work threw it! Just ... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with a guy 12 years older than me?
Q. hey When i was drunk one night i saw this guy i recognised, from a shop or something, i don't know how but i knew his name so i went over and spoke to him. We ended up swapping numbers and then i think i looked up at him and we kissed a few tim...
A. 11 November 2007: I am a big believer if you find someone that you click with that well you should go for it. But you are only 16, so maybe wait until you 18 or so and if you still feel this way then go for it! And if he waits for you you will know he wants you and ... (read in full...)
I never seem to be able to make friends, what's wrong with me?
Q. Why is it so hard for me to make friends? I'm 14 and ever since I lost my best friend it has been this way. I feel even retarded sometimes because it is that difficult for me. I am not happy or confident with myself but why am I this way? I'm no...
A. 11 November 2007: I so can relate to you! I have known my best friend since kindergarden so when she left this summer i fell to pieces. We were our own group. We had all classes together and lived right by each other so I never saw the need to make more frinds. Well ... (read in full...)
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