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I like to help people with their problems because ive been through some real tough times, and when i desperately needed help no-one was there for me, ive dabbled in alcohol & drugs too.. I found it really hard to help myself get through it, but now i have im in such a better place :)
It took me such a long time to get to where i am now & if i can i would like to offer my advice to others who may be experiencing the same or similar problems as i did.. :)
life can be so difficult to understand at times and sometimes all we need is an outsiders perspective to help us open our eyes :)
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I lightly slapped my ex once. Why did I do that?? I want to know!
Q. I love my exgrlfriend more than ever now.I have never been an abusive man ever in my life,I lightly slapped her before we broke up,only cause i have her father telling me to get out of her life,jobs are few and far to find,and she listens to her ...
A. 27 January 2013: You're welcome :)... (read in full...)
I can't stop masturbating even though as a Christian I know its wrong
Q. I really need help, i am a 15 year old Christian girl and i have a serious masturbation problem, i try to stop because of beliefs in my religion but when the urge is present i just cant stop i find that i like to watch porn while i do it and i know ...
A. 22 January 2013: Oh my Honey! Firstly i want to start off by saying, there is nothing wrong with you! you're a young teenage girl, who's hormones are all over the place. I am a Christian, okay well i was Christened and as a child i used to go to church 3 time... (read in full...)
I don't want to look fake but I don't know how to do my makeup
Q. IM blonde blue eyes and i dont feel i am the prettiest of girls so inorder for me to look nice i like doing my make up but i have no idea how boys like it, i dont want to come acroos as fae but i still want to look nice, can you help me?...
A. 22 January 2013: Hello Sweetie :)
I'm sure your beautiful, but,
Sounds to me like you just want to wear a little make-up to feel a little more attractive :) nothing wrong with that Darling, i never go anywhere without wearing make-up it just helps make you f... (read in full...)
I lightly slapped my ex once. Why did I do that?? I want to know!
Q. I love my exgrlfriend more than ever now.I have never been an abusive man ever in my life,I lightly slapped her before we broke up,only cause i have her father telling me to get out of her life,jobs are few and far to find,and she listens to her ...
A. 22 January 2013: Hello Blueeyess Firstly obviously you've done wrong and i am in no way condoning your actions at all, i was in an abusive relationship for 3 years and then every relationship after that untill now. Anyways, there is a difference between bein... (read in full...)
Sexually Frustrated With My Man
Q. THe problome is that my boy friend and I vave been together for only nine months, however he has become entirely uninterested in sex with me. In fact he hardly wants to kiss me or evan touch me, he sais that he loves me but I seriously have my ...
A. 15 August 2008: Try this,
to try get him back into the pasionate sexual adventiours.
go out shopping buy some new lingre, some cream strawberrys, choclits, candles, champaigne.
cook him dinner make it really special, when he gets home,
dont say a word, have din... (read in full...)
I feel like I have made a fool of myself...and there is an age gap too...what should I do??
Q. Im 16 i have been talkin to this guy online; i added him on facebook. Anyway, his profile said 20 but i thought i'd add him anyway. Somehow theres been an error in my account and its been displaying me as 19. We got talking and really clicked....
A. 13 February 2008: Well do not get serious with this boy however nice he is, or whatever youll get grief from other people and he will have power to take a massive advantage over you keep friendship, it will work out, make sure you TELL HIM you only want to be fr... (read in full...)
How can I impress her and ask her out on Valentines??
Q. I'm talking to a girl i met 2 weeks ago. I met her through a friend; we talked on msn then we went on a date to the movies. We ate dinner, it was really good and we had fun. I really like her; i asked her out for this weekend and she wants to go ou...
A. 8 February 2008: you must like this girl... you sound nicee... plan valentines carefully... make it relly special... if you feel its time and you feel she feels the same way to then do it.... let her kno how u feel... she may need time to think about it and i... (read in full...)
How can I get him to go out with me?
Q. I am 15. I am having a problem, you see, over the christmas holidays, my brother introduced me to his good friend. Me and the friend spent lots of time together and became quite close. This last weekend when he started to cry infront of me it brou...
A. 8 February 2008: does this boy kno how u feel about him ...? arrange to meet him and sit down and have a chat about the way u feel.... ask him if he feels the same way.... tell him you need to kno wher you stand... if you realy like him you need to let him kno... (read in full...)
How can I get him to go out with me?
Q. I am 15. I am having a problem, you see, over the christmas holidays, my brother introduced me to his good friend. Me and the friend spent lots of time together and became quite close. This last weekend when he started to cry infront of me it brou...
A. 8 February 2008: does this boy kno how u feel about him ...? arrange to meet him and sit down and have a chat about the way u feel.... ask him if he feels the same way.... tell him you need to kno wher you stand... if you rele like him you need to let him kno... (read in full...)
I'm pretty but I can't seem to attract anyone at school. The oneguy I like at school isn't sure about dating me..what can I do?
Q. why can't i get a bf? i mean people come up to me and tell me i'm pretty but i can't seem to attract anyone at school. right now i'm crushing on this total hottie a lot of other girls at school like him to, how do i compete? we've never talked but i ...
A. 19 May 2007: hay Dawn .. well you dont have to be pretty 2 attract a guys attention! its mostly about personality! If youu catch him staring at you then you should go over and talk 2 him ! dont let him bug you! you need to make sure that you grab his ... (read in full...)
My parents have told me if I go back with her they will disown me!!!
Q. me and my girlfriend broke up a month a go i am 19 and she is 20 i told my parents about the break up and they said i could do better well 2 weeks later and my girl got back i tried to tell my parents but they said that if i go back to her they will ...
A. 7 May 2007: you really need 2 talk 2 ur parents!!! if this is how u truely feel...u need to ask yourself is ur "girl" really worth ur parents? w.b soon xx aunti amber xx ... (read in full...)
Will he mind that I'm actually not as toned as he thinks?
Q. ok im 20 and last when i was out in a club, i met a really nice guy who asked for my number and said he would call me this week to take me out. Problem is ... i was wearing stomach-holding-in pants so i looked really toned. im scared to meet him now ...
A. 7 May 2007: erm....well.....this boy is onli a friend anyways and hes met u 1ce so u really need 2 get to know him first...if he likes u 4 hu u r then he wont mind ur a bit "flabby" as u say! but just go out nd enjoy urself and if he dnt like ya hes not worth ... (read in full...)
My bf wants to wait until I'm 18, but I want sex now!
Q. hi there im a 17 year old female and i have a boyfriend who is 32 years old we love each other very much and my parents know about our relationship and adore him. we have been seeing each other for 6 months the only problem is i really want to have ...
A. 7 May 2007: well....before i read on i wud like 2 comment on the age difference! although many peeple may have spoken to you about your boyfriend being 15 years older than you i just want to try and understand! ......... yes it is legal 2 have sex with him ... (read in full...)
She leaves messages for other guys with kisses...but not me! Why is this?
Q. hi! there is this girl that i like at school. the problem is that i am shy. i will sometimes speak to her in my classes but i can never get a conversation going. online on bebo i will leave her comments and she will reply. i find this an easier w...
A. 24 March 2007: i have 2 say i disagree with u livi! he cannot tell a girl he loves her and pressure her into sayin it back thats not fair...love takes time...dnt force love or it wont work out! xx auntie amber xx... (read in full...)
Why can I not seem to get a boyfriend?
Q. no matter how hard i try i cnt getta boyfriend! i hav had boyfriends before and i felt alot happier but they didnt last very long! my friend sed i am not ugly it is because i am abit moody how can i make myself more happy! i am always laughin a...
A. 16 March 2007: hello babe...... well..... first off I wouldnt worry you're only young... and there will be plenty of boys later on in life... but don't let it bother you... just have fun while you can make the boys jealous by flirting with other boys but don't ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a boy says he likes you yet only acts like it when we are alone?
Q. Helooo!, what does it mean when a boy says that he likes you, but only acts like it when we are alone ...? i really REALLY like this boy! we haev done some things together, but when we are at school he doesnt act like he likes me and then suddenly ...
A. 14 March 2007: i know exactly how u feel...it was the same between me and my boyfriend before i decided i wanted every1 2 know....then when they found out he wasnt bothered he was just being an immature lil boy....he was worried about what his friends would say!! ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I'm still a virgin at 21?
Q. Here is my problem. I'm a 21 year old virgin. The fact i've remained so is a mystery even to me. Mostly it's because I never let guys get beyond the first few dates, I go out and lose interest. But my biggest problem is that all my friends and even ...
A. 11 March 2007: i am proud for you ... i have never known any1 keep their virginity this long...good on u girl....erm but anyhow....if this boy really likes you then he wont mind that u are a virgin and if u really like him you wouldnt be worried about telling ... (read in full...)
How do I let her roomate down gently??
Q. I like to condsider myself a nice guy; but I have kind of a personal dilemma on my mind. I have really grown fond of a lady friend of mine, and would love to ask her out on a date; but her roommate (a good friend of her's and a friend of mine) has ...
A. 11 March 2007: well....personally i would tell the roomate that there is nothing more than a close friendly relationship. if that is how u feel! i would also sit down with your lady friend and tell her how u feel ,, she will appreciate it. if you have anymore ... (read in full...)
I don't care if he's the right guy, I want to have sex! Is this wrong?
Q. Hey the thing is, im 16 and ive been kissin n doin everyfink else wif this guy i know now for bout 6 months n wen wer together we get on really well but i know hes a player and when hes not with me he messes me about(not txtin bk n things) but im ...
A. 10 March 2007: look hunni...i lost my virginity just like that....and GOD do i regret it...i wish i hadnt have done it .... because we dont even talk now he got what he wanted .... trust me babe he is a player just stringing u on...wait untill u are in a ... (read in full...)
I dreamed my bf was stroking another girl's hair! What does it mean?
Q. hi! i had a dream about my bf last night. (we have been together for 2 and a half months and are both 16). the dream was of him stroking this girl from my schools, hair. she is very popular and would never take any interest in my bf (no offence to ...
A. 10 March 2007: babe this dream doesnt mean anything just that your paranoid...talk 2 ur boyfriend about it and ask him if he loves u !if he laughs at this dream he obuasly thinks its stupid and ur the only one he loves!! write back to me if your still worried xx ... (read in full...)
I'm scared of my abusive boyfriend
Q. Please help I just got beaten very badly and need advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He and I have had a completely trustful, honest, supportive relationship. Yet every now and then it can be a verbally abusive ...
A. 10 March 2007: dont even think about it hun!!! if he loves u he wouldnt beat u! u need 2 let him go and enjoy the rest of your life...dont let him pull u down...hes not worth it....go out with ur sister and make a night of it... meet some new people! speak soon ... (read in full...)
This will be my first time having sex and I'm worried I won't know what to do!
Q. It's my first time having sex and I don't really know what to do. If I'm having sex in the missionary position do I just lie still or should I move with the bloke? It seems a silly question but I'm nervous I won't know what to do....
A. 10 March 2007: baby just go with the flow......the first time is always the svaryest but once hes in it will all go 2 plan.........if u feel uncomfortable then say ur not ready! dont let him presure u into it !! and use protection!!! good luck enjoy it!!xx aunty ... (read in full...)
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