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Im 18! i have my head on straight when it comes to my virginity! my goal is to keep it till married! i am not against sex and anyone who has had sex for that matter i (myself) would rather keep it.

I have always lived by this motto : VIRGINITY is a gift that can only be unwrapped once) give it to the right person! i think i have valuble advice to giv! i to have made mistakes in areas and have realised and learnt from them! for that i can prevent someone from doing the same or similar thing!

im currently dating someone! i live in south africa!

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I'm 12 and just lost my virginity, now I'm really regreting it!

Q.   omg....I am 12 and I lost my virginity this year. I love my bf...i do but, now I'm regreting wat i did. I feel like a slut now! I promised i would "save" myself until I got married! But i have just been wanting to do "it". I just wanted to see wat ...

A.   1 March 2007: my darling you are way to young to do that i am 18 and still havnt but i didnt select to write to you to tell you what you have done wrong!!! more so to say you know its done there is nothing you can do about it now except you can pray to God for ... (read in full...)

I haven't had a period since January 2006 - does this mean I'm pregnant?

Q.   I was suppose to get my period during February, but its the end of the month and i still don't have it. I mostly get it every other month. My last menstrual period was last January of 2006. Does this mean i'm pregnant? ...

A.   1 March 2007: stressing about it more will only delay it. just relax ... (read in full...)

I had a brief affair with a married man, he's avoiding me now... how do I get him back?

Q.   i am a 29 year old career woman, have known this guy for a few months, through work, ( i work in HQ level and he works in district level, and our department recently has been doing collaboration with him, which he is the developer and i am the ...

A.   1 March 2007: he used you now your old I almost made the mistake you have. I was intersted in a married man and he was interested in me!!! nothing happened at all for that fact. Thank the lord!!!i was just attracted to the way he treated me.. Us girls tend to... (read in full...)

He says I'm fat, wants to leave me and wants to have sex with other women... but I love him, what do I do?

Q.   hi me and my bf are together for 8years now.a year ago he started to swear at me then he changed alot towards me he got very rude and had a bad temper, he gets angry quickly. He told my yesterday he actually wants to leave me coz its my fault he ...

A.   1 March 2007: get rid of him fast..... you deserve so much better!! as well dont believe it! You need to be positive about yourself!!! ... (read in full...)

How can I stop thinking I'm always right?

Q.   I think i am always right and whoever proves that what i have been thinking was wrong hurts my ego badly to the extent that i kind of have a grudge on the person and can't let it go, especially i am emotionally close to them. Please advice. ...

A.   1 March 2007: HA HA HA yes us SCORPIO"S tend to do that nicola79.... But as for that question gee whiz its hard... um i think it depends on the argument i mean who with MALE OR FEMALE if its a male YOUR most probably right.... if its a FEMALE oh dear JUST GIV... (read in full...)

We flirt.. but how can I let my female cousin know I'm interested in her - and is she interested in me?

Q.   I am a 25 year old male living with my very attractive 30 year old female cousin who I am very attracted to. We have much in common. She often brags about how sexy or alike we are but I am not sure if her intrest is sexual. Whats the best way to ...

A.   1 March 2007: INCEST. that is just not right. Pray about it. You are probably very lonely and she is close to you. Girls think very differently she actually probably takes you as a best friend. Plant that one on her you will probably not only walk away a... (read in full...)

Am I with the right person?

Q.   I'm 14 and I'm in a relationship with someone a bit older than me. I love him very much and would be lost without him, but I can't help but feel really nervous and a bit awkward around him. I don't know what to do about it. Has anyone got any ...

A.   1 March 2007: i also question that one! How old is he? Most guys older expect more! despite the fact that it will be extremely emothional for you if you get put through sex... even if you want it. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants me to have sex with another guy while he watches!

Q.   my boyfriend wants me to have sex with another guy while he watches, we have been together 3 years and great relationship. Will he think any less of me, anyone else ever tried it??...

A.   1 March 2007: how much does your boyfriend love you and how much does he tresure your sexuality and your emotions is the question. if he can be so inlove with YOU he wouldn want any other person involved with you. It might be a test. it might just be a fantasy ... (read in full...)

My bf live so far away. I am upset, what can we do?

Q.   Dear cupid, I am upset all the time because me and my boyfriend live so far away. We are going to see each other easter and we was thinking about having sex for the first time. I dont know what to do....

A.   1 March 2007: that is a decision you can only make for yourself!!! my advice would be DONT plan something like that it should just happen if it feels right BUT then also i would like to add..... your still young honey. i dont know if you have already had sex, but ... (read in full...)

Do you think he really loves me?

Q.   how can i tell if my bf loves me he says it all the time is this signs of love (we are a long distance relationship) when we call each other we talk for like 4 hours texts me i love you at random times of the day asking me to marry him ...

A.   1 March 2007: he loves you!!! stress less.. ... (read in full...)

I am getting nervous that the man I am dating is intersted in someone else he works closely with.

Q.   I am getting nervous that the man I am dating is intersted in someone else he works closely with. She is unavailable and I think that's the only reason he doesn't pursue it. He told me he had to work late on a project but when I saw him checking ...

A.   1 March 2007: i think you need to sit him down and ask him, dont accuse him tho! because if nothing is going on he will say you dont trust him! you will no if he is lying. if you dont you can just watch for other signs and decide for yourself....when I say there ... (read in full...)

Planning on doing "it" tonight... but should I trim first?

Q.   Im 14 and planning on having sex at a house party. It is my first time and I was just wondering if anyone knows if teenage boys prefer shaved or natural hairs? Please reply asap as the house party is tonight and I would like to know. so i can ...

A.   1 March 2007: HI.. im an 18 year old girl. I am still a virgin a plan on it till marrage!!! so far it has been the best thing i have done!wat an accomplishment so far.Dont get me wrong i am not against sex i just would love to give it to the person i spend my ... (read in full...)

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