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reader, solara  +, writes (16 February 2022):
actually it was a thrill for both of us it was an interracial experience for her which I cannot give her. We talked about it and she definitely stimulated and considered him her boyfriend.
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reader, solara +, writes (16 February 2022):
Well be completely open we are and it never causes problems my wife has had boyfriends in the past and the three of us were active in 3 way sex. Not for everyone but it worked for us, now were going through new issues.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2022): This is a simple thing to answer. Most of the women who cheat do so because they are bored to tears with an inadequate, boring, horrible, selfish, childish husband. They would much prefer to get rid of him altogether but for one or another reason they cannot. So they do the next best thing. I knew one woman who sold sex to men despite being very old and married, it boosted her ego, it meant she could go to Spain twice a year, it paid for her car, and she enjoyed the sex too. I am not going to turn you on with how she felt about the actual sex, you can pay to ring those sex chat lines for that thrill.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2022): If you're talking about a former partner who cheated on you then you are just trying to micro think a bit too deeply.
You're not busy asking yourself at what point did they feel a connection or how did they get around to initiating any sexual contact such as a first kiss.
No, you are concentrating simply on the point of penetration as if you are hung up about the mechanisms of sex.
Perhaps you want to know if she thought of you.
It seems to me that you want to torment yourself as much as possible.
Maybe sex is such a taboo topic for you that you have to micromanage your thoughts so you are putting your head through exacerbating thoughts such as did he wear a condom.
How someone felt when having sex is no business of yours to concern yourself with.
It's as childish as looking round the world and noting every person and asking yourself how their parents felt the night they conceived a child.
Well, people feel how they want to feel and not all people are the same.
I expect the answer you need is that she decided prior to doing the act that she would be willing to go further than just a kiss or a hug.
If he forced himself on her then she felt raped.
It's such a picky point .. Maybe you should look at the world in a wider context so that you don't get hung up on small details like this.
She cheated on you and technically I would assume that it's over between you unless she was drugged and taken advantage of.
If you take your thoughts out of your pants and out of her pants you may find something a bit more
useful to think of.
It might help you to wonder at what point did you both start drifting apart and if you didn't notice until the sex was in your face, then you possibly were absorbed in some other part of your life.
There must be a million things a person could think about so unless you were planning on writing a lengthy psycho drama about how someone felt at the moment of cheating then you had better just shut the book on it and think of something useful.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (31 January 2022):
 Who knows what a women would think. Maybe this is so wrong, and i hope that my husband does not find out about this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2022): It is clear that you are looking to get a sexual kick out of reading the answers about sex, good luck on that one, so far it does not seem to have worked.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (30 January 2022):
 I have never cheated so I can't give you "direct advice" from experience.
Also, how would that kind of answer help you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2022): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiong'day,and thanks for the answers,but I must not be asking the right way,I thought that some "people" may answer from their own situation and it may have given me a answer to what I'm trying to work out,as was it a thrill,was it to do something different,or been to long with me and just wanted a change,thanks again
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2022): Your best answer will come straight from the horse's mouth? No pun intended. If this is the case of someone you know, ask her. She can't speak for all women in that situation; but you will get a unique answer to each individual you ask. No one person can explain the emotional and physical reaction to something that is a different experience for anyone you could ask. You might even try it yourself.
That's like a guy asking a woman how childbirth feels. Having it explained to you wouldn't really make any difference, if you can't personally relate to it. If you need a detailed response for pornographic reasons, this website wasn't your best of choices.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 January 2022):
Who knows?
I don't generally believe there is a LOT of "thinking" going on when people (of either sex) are cheating.
They are probably feeling a bit of a rush because they know what they are doing is "wrong" and "forbidden" but they don't CARE at that moment.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (29 January 2022):
 It's obvious this is an issue you have with your wife, so why not just ask her? What your wife feels is not necessarily what anyone else feels. How will knowing the answer to this question help you?
Discuss the issue with your wife and decide whether you can get past this or whether you need to go your separate ways. While I can understand you being bitter and angry, asking questions like this on a forum is not going to help you in any way, shape or form. Get a grip of the situation and sort it out.
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