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my name is Scarlett i am 26 years old and i am on here to help thats my calling in life if you like.
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Will he try something if he comes to my house?
Q. I met him about two months ago - and I've been told by several people that he's a bit of a man slut, if you know what I mean...he talks to me when he's drunk asking for sex and calls me mean when I say no. I've told him I haven't 'done anything' and ...
A. 11 April 2011: Why don't you go somewhere public to do the work? Or tell hm that you need to do it on a table so work in the kitchen.
If he trys anything on you can control it, so if he kisses you and you like it carry on but if you ever want to stop you just... (read in full...)
Do I continue trying to move on or do I call him and let him know my feelings?
Q. Hey I'm looking for some advise on what to do... heres my situation it's really long so please bare with me... I had been in a 2 year relationship with someone I thought was my soul mate. Things got complicated and I felt trapped (Had moved in to...
A. 11 April 2011: I really do feel for you it sounds as if you have been through so much in such a short amount of time and this guy sounds confused to say the least! Right you from your problems have shown that your a strong, loyal and trusting guy and it to me... (read in full...)
Exit Only
Q. My husband is always trying to put things where they don't belong. I don't like THAT KIND of sex, but I feel bad for refusing him. Why does he like it so much? Can't he read the sign "exit only"???...
A. 11 April 2011: It may just be curiosity, try talking to him about you not wanting anything like that....all else fails introduce the whole what ever you do to me I do to you rule. That should cool him off!!! Don't feel bad if you don't like something, but e... (read in full...)
Does he still care about me or is he just scared of commiting himself to a family?
Q. My ex and I broke up 5 months ago, we have a baby together, he just started seeing someone else in the last month. But things between us never seem to be finished. Lately I have been sending him pics of myself, with him encouraging more of them. He ...
A. 11 April 2011: With a baby in the world you are always going to have to know this man, but the question is: Do you want him because he is the father of your child or do you still love him? It sounds like he is confused and does not know what he wants, but he st... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm close to losing everything I held dear, my nan dies 3 years ago and I've been dealing with extreme depression since, what can I do?
Q. i reli need help. everythings going wrong for me at the minute, iv suffered with extreme depression for the last 2 months and although i thought it may be getting better and i may be getting bak to normal with the support of my partner, iv reverted ...
A. 15 September 2008: Hun would your nan want you upset? Or would she want you happy.I know the pain of losing a loved one is the worst thing you can ever feel and i'm not going to lie to you the pain never goes away but slowely it gets better and you start to heal. Go ... (read in full...)
Many years on my old affair has contacted me again. He relit the candle and now I miss his contact so much, as he left again.
Q. How long does it take to get over a broken heart? I am married and some years ago i had an affair. It ended after a few months. I was very sad for a long while but got over it. The affair was with a married man and was a "no strings" affair....
A. 15 September 2008: You won't get over this no one ever gets over love but maby you are after some male attention? Look retospectavly at this and look at your thoughts why do you want him? What dose he provide that you do not have? I think you need the comfort of ... (read in full...)
I do not have a driver's license yet, thus feel a bit embarassed. Is this a huge deal?
Q. Im almost 30yr old. And Im terrified of driving. So therefore I still haven't obtained my drivers license. Now is this a huge deal breaker for men ??? I don't lie about it but at the same time Im a little ashamed at times so I don't bring it up ti...
A. 23 January 2008: In my opinion as a woman no its not. Just tone it down and say you want to help the enviroment. Never be embarresed but Driving isn't scary i think you should give it a try life is then a wole lot easyer.
hope this heps xxx... (read in full...)
Are these signs indicators of my period? When should I expect it?
Q. I'm really worried about when my periods start and ive been having like a white discharge for about 1 year and I also have bad cramps any Idea when my periods will start?...
A. 23 January 2008: You need to talk to your mum about he white discharge as it sounds like a yeast infection which is harmless and easly treated by antibiotics. The cramps may be down to a number of things bu dont be embarresed to talk to older women of your family. ... (read in full...)
I've never been with another woman before. Nervous about satisfying her, sexually.
Q. i,m a female that has never been with a female before and now i have a girlfriend .the time for sex is so so very close and i have no idea how to satisfy her and realy don't wish to dissapoint her help me please i'm very afraid....
A. 23 January 2008: First of all you need to be honest with your partner and tell her that you have never been with a woman befor. You wont dissapoint her if things feel right you know if things are wrong and all yu have to do is be honest.
hope this helps xxx... (read in full...)
How can I be strong enough to leave or deal with his having cheated even during my pregnancy?...
Q. My husband was sleeping with this other girl before we were married, he was actually dating her behind my back. He didn't break up with her until after we were married and he kept sleeping with her. We have been married less than 2 years and he ...
A. 23 January 2008: Its not easy but the answer is simple. For love you need trust and without trust there is no love. You need to think can you trust your husband again? You are strong enough to deal with anything that life throws at you. I suggest talking about your ... (read in full...)
IS my ex bf still obsessed with me, as my friends pointed out?
Q. Hey hey everyone :) I'm pretty new to this, and hopefully you can help me out. I is a tiny lil bit freaked out, and I need your advice on this. It's really gettin stuck in my head and I'm tired of it... Ok so he dumped me over a couple ...
A. 9 August 2007: Talk to him ask him whats going on in his head you need to remember how fantastic you are and probally cant find any other girl like you. If you feel really thretend tell the police it sounds alot like bullying to me. Befor you do that write to him ... (read in full...)
I;m going to uni this fall and can't handle LD relationships! Should I let him go?
Q. I have been living with my boyfriend for 3 months. i think he is the one but i wanna go to uni n this means breaking up. i cant deal with a long distance relationship. help me what do i do?...
A. 9 August 2007: Go to uni your only young you need to better your self explain to him what you feel you need to do. Tell him that if he has any feelings for you he will let you go because loving some one is being able to let them go. hope this helps xxx... (read in full...)
She's married, I'm a straight female, but I can't get a 'prior' kissing incident with her, out of my head!
Q. Right im 24 f and i have the best mate ever she is 37 dead down to earth easyin goin funny and SEXY.. now that the problem im straight and she is married but last year we kiss-snog it were quick but never been meantions again and i cant get her out ...
A. 9 August 2007: Its ok we often turn things into more then they shoud be. Approch her on the subject ask her why it happend try to think like your friend. If she is married I would suggest keeping clear of it there is no point if she has a family. Maby its kissing ... (read in full...)
My partner is unwilling to stand up to her difficult daughter!
Q. I've been with my partner for about 5 years now and her daughter has always been a bit off. About eighteen months ago without a word of explanation she stopped talking to us (her mother and myself) and prevented her from having any contact with...
A. 9 August 2007: This is a hard stituation I know its hard but maby you need to talk to the daughter and explain that you are not trying to take any ones place and you would love to build a friendship with her. If she refuses to speek to you wright it down and post ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my bff that I like her ex? She already said that she would never forgive me.
Q. My bff went out with this guy! They broke up about 3 weeks later! After they did, her ex and I became really good friends! So good that people think that we're a couple and I think I might like him! So one day I ask my friend what she would do if I ...
A. 8 August 2007: Dear wanting to be loved,
If I were you i would stay away from her ex bf i mean i would be angry if sum 1 tryed to take an ex because ppl have an instinct to win ther ex men back an i am sure she dosent want to hurt you.... (read in full...)
Just found out I'm pregnant! Will my wedding dress fit? Is it safe to fly?
Q. do you gain any weight in the first weeks of pregnancy? I'm a little worried as I am due to be married in 5 weeks time and have just found out I am pregnant!! My dress is very fitted and I'm starting to get concerned. I dont 'feel' pregnant yet i've...
A. 8 August 2007: It is best not to fly before 12 weeks or after 28 weeks. After that, when the risk of going into labour increases, the airline will require a letter from your GP stating that you are fit to travel and confirming your estimated due date. Each airline ... (read in full...)
He's gotten obsessed with making me squirt (and it's making me sore)...
Q. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH My Boyfriend just figured out how to make me squirt, but now hes addicted!!!The problem is :S it doesnt even feel as amazing as people set it out to be. Hes been trying too hard lately to make me do it an...
A. 8 August 2007: Talk to him tell him that you dont like it and it would feel much better if you only did it now and again. I would suggest trying new things to keep his mind off the squirt thingy try the link for new idears to destract him.
http:... (read in full...)
While drunk, he admitted to still being in love with his ex. He and I been together 4 years and have a son!
Q. My boyfriend's wife/soulmate threw him out after 15 years of marriage. We got together 4 years ago and have a son together. He still jumps when she asks for anything, and uses their children to get what she wants. She has recently split with her ...
A. 8 August 2007: Talk to him tell him that you need real love and you have to build your own family life and that means being there to love you and your son. You are worth so much you deserved to be loved and listen to your heart always it works a hell of alot ... (read in full...)
She shouted out a name when we were making love... her broth-in-law's!
Q. After an evening apart over the weekend (me out with my mates and my girlfriend out with her sister and brother-in-law) we were in bed the following morning. Both sleepy and both still a little tipsy from the night before we started playing ...
A. 16 May 2007: look she probely had her bro-in-law on her mind on a diffrent level so to speek and it dosent sound sexul. also its normal lke at time i have souted out "door" when i was thinking "have i locked the door" it means nothing so put your mind at rest ... (read in full...)
Why won't he tell me about his dreams about me?
Q. hey im 16 an so is my boyfriend who i have been with for 5 months. today we were talking about our dreams and i was asking him if he had any about me ever. he said he does but he doesn't really want to tell me what some of them are. then he said 'we...
A. 15 May 2007: oh sweetie there about you like sexual its normal just him being playfull
hope this helps xxx... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out on facebook or face to face?
Q. Heya! I've known a third year student (I'm second year) as an acquaintance for about a year but only recently have we been becoming friends. We're kind of in the stage between acquaintance and friend if that makes sense. I am very interested in he...
A. 15 May 2007: you know what unless you ask you will never know go ask her out. but first find out if she has a b.f and get to the friend level first then you are abel to ask. and if it all gose wrong show her you are a big man and that it dont matter
hope ... (read in full...)
This might sound silly but I have been married 17 years and I feel my wife and I are closer than ever. Is this normal?
Q. hi i know this might be a stupid question but me and my wife have been together for 17 years, close friends all our life and married for 7 years. Is it normal for me to feel that way i do for her becuase loads of other poeple who have been together ...
A. 4 March 2007: Yes it is I mean your wife is lucky that you are still like this. You should let her know how you feel honastly there in nothing wrong with this in faact thi sis really good for your reletionship that you feel closer together then further apart it ... (read in full...)
He views it as insecure and jealous, I view it as sneaky and dishonest! What do you think?
Q. my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 mos. Early in the relationship I told him some trust issues I had and what effected my trust in a relationship. One was "baggage" brought into the new relationship. Issues with old lovers/gf's that ...
A. 4 March 2007: I think you need to have a good chat and get every thing in the open. Tell him that you want to trust him but as you said befor you have issues with trust. If still tells you that it is honastly just friendship then belive him. Maby you need to put ... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from him in 2 or 3 days, was it because I didn't tell him I felt the same?
Q. I have been seein a guy behind his girlfriend's back and at first we both didn't mean anything, then he told me he loved me and since then i have started to get feelings for him, however since he said that and i didn't really tel him how i felt, he ...
A. 4 March 2007: tell him that you feel the same way let him know that you are ready for an open reletionship. He was trying to tell you that for a reson and now it looks like you dont feel the same way. I think that maby he wants to dump his g.f for you.
hope ... (read in full...)
Do you think these are signs from him that he wants a baby?
Q. me and my bf are both 18 we havent had sex but are these signs he wants a baby naming his future kids saving for kids future looking at 2 bedroom flats to move into calling me up when he out and sees a cute baby telling me the words im pregnant ...
A. 4 March 2007: your right let him know its worrying you. i mean you have your whole life for children and its not a life changing thing for him as it is for you. Make sure you let him know that it is not just him Let him know that you feel you are just too young ... (read in full...)
Do any of you have any ideas where we could go and like get to know each other?
Q. What Should i do? I've met a 16 year old girl i really like her. shes good looking. shes good 2 talk 2. i love her in less than a week. and we have so much in common. Sunday - 4th Feb - First Date And first time i met her she was so cute we wen...
A. 10 February 2007: this poor girl you are rushing into so much. meeting the mother big deal i mean it really scares you. then you have only been going out with her for a week and you want to sleep wiht her she is probaly still a virgin. the way i see itis you need to ... (read in full...)
He recently told me the relationship is not going well. I don't want to lose him, what can I do??? Please help me save it!
Q. Hi, My boyfriend, I love him. I dont want to lose him. He recently told me, he doesnt think the relationship is going well. That we dont see each other, that we dont hardly talk. I love him so much. I was getting angry... I asked him if he wante...
A. 10 February 2007: you know what? you sound like a strong confident person and you dont need him. he is holding you back you need to find a guy who thinks of you every moment of the day who thinks he is the luckiest guy in the world who every day he see's you its ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to fantasise about another when you're having sex with your girlfriend?
Q. I am a single guy and have formed a habit of visualizing having sex with some girls i find attractive. I mimic it in my mind and masturbate. This has been a source of my pleasure in absence of real sex. Now i am planning to have a committe...
A. 10 February 2007: god no its so not wrong. women often think about someone they fancy when having sex.it is a good part of sex life to have strong fantasies its normal and natural. its only when you fantasies turn to reality you have a problem otherwise your in the ... (read in full...)
We're both kind of new to sex, any advice on how to do it properly?
Q. im a virgin, and my boyfriend and i just started having sex about 3wks ago, and i did orgasm for a little the first time but we have done it 3 times since then and i cant seem to do it. he isnt very big, not sure exactly but when its hard its about ...
A. 10 February 2007: ok here it goes. tell him what feels good and ask him do you want me to do anything for you. it sound like you need passion and to explore each other. my advice is to have fun play games. text him in the day an tell him what you are thinking about. ... (read in full...)
This boy says he loves me then sleeps with someone else, he's messing with my head, what should I do?
Q. Please I Really Need Help A Couple Of Months Ago i Met This Lad On Msn, Hes 16 And Lives In London Im 14 And Live In Manchester We Chat On Msn Talk On The Phone And Webcam Each Other So I Know He Is Who He Says. Everytime We Have Got Togethe...
A. 10 February 2007: hey you by your age you should be out there having fun! ok you like this boy and he says he loves you but if he did love you wouldent he want to meet you or at least tell you why he is not replying leav him now. he has treated you like dirt to get ... (read in full...)
He doesn't seem interested in me any more and I don't know what I've done?
Q. I really love this guy a lot, and i think he loves me too, he says he does but im not quite sure if its true love or he just loves the idea of loving me. The thing is we arent going out wid each other or anything, but i want to,i dunno how to hint ...
A. 10 February 2007: you know what this may sound bad but what are you still doing with this guy really??!! you are so young that you can have any guy you want. you have the rest of your life for love god if you do love him and i mean love him then talk to him but it ... (read in full...)
Should I stengthen my friendship with her or forget about friendship altogether?
Q. My girlfriend and I broke up after a wonderful six months. We were and still are in love but she broke up with me because she wanted to prove to herself that she can be independent and live without relying on someone else. So unfortunatly I have ...
A. 10 February 2007: you know what, i really feel for you. You have done nothing wrong and the pain it must be hard to imagine but if you really love her then let her go thats what true love is and in time the pain will get easier. Give her her own space and time let... (read in full...)
How do you know if it's love and not lust?
Q. Hi everyone, How do you know if it's love not lust?...
A. 10 February 2007: simple love= the first thing you think about when you wake and the last thing you think about when you sleep lust= the thing you think about when your horny or bored hope this helps xx ... (read in full...)
How can I teach my husband to be a more skilled lover?
Q. I got married few days ago, it was the first time for both me and my husband. he pushed his penis in my vegina once and i bled. I cried, so he stopped and that was it. Nothing before it and Nothing after it. few days later, i took the doggy position ...
A. 9 February 2007: why dont you lead him on and say things like you know i love it when you ........ it feels so good and when he is doing something good tell him if he is doing something that dosent feel right say slower or i want you to and tell him!!!
hope ... (read in full...)
I really don't like this boy and he won't leave me alone! What can I do?
Q. This boy fancys me and he is really disgusting but he won't leave me alone What should i do?...
A. 9 February 2007: omg do not tell him he is a dork!!!! be firm but fair tell him you love the way he likes you so much you are just not ready for a reletionship and you feel you could be good friends.
hope this helps xx... (read in full...)
My girlfriend slept with a married man before we got together and I can't accept this. How can I get past this?
Q. i ended my relationship with my gf cuz she slept with a black dude that is old enough to be her dad and has kids and a woman. she didn't cheat on me cuz this happened before we were together, but i can't accept this. can anyone suggest how i get pa...
A. 9 February 2007: the past is in the past and she told you because she dident want to lie to you that means that she was ready for you to hate her and she told you anyway because she could not bear to lie to you this is what i call true love. and if you forget her ... (read in full...)
Why is she kissing me if she thinks we can't be together?
Q. my best friend is a girl and i have liked her for some time. she knows that i have liked her, and told me she cant see us together because she dosent want to lose a good friend, ova the last week or so she has become more flirty with me and we have ...
A. 9 February 2007: i think she is telling herself that because she donsent want to lose you. let her know how you feel my bet is she feels the same way. the way i see it respect turns into friendship and friendship turns to love. whats a reletionship? a friendship ... (read in full...)
Is this love?
Q. hi im 16 and i think i might be in love with my boyfriend. we have been together for about a month and a half now and i never stop thinking about him! i love it when he cuddles me and he makes me feel special. sometimes when im not with him i miss ...
A. 9 February 2007: its easy for me if he is the first thing you think of when you wake and the last thing when you go to sleep its love honey. every time you hay good bye is it like your letting your heart die and when you see him your whole body lights up its love.
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Should I stop texting my best friend's brother because of the family?
Q. I have fallen for my best friends brother. We shared kiss on holiday and recently had been texting each other and its clear we both wanted something more however due to other people being around we never had the chance to be alone. Recent...
A. 9 February 2007: oh god i feel for you. poor you really 10 years is a long time talk to your best friend tell her every thing you have posted on here if she is a true friend she will suport you. its true what they say you cant pick who you fall in love with and if ... (read in full...)
Do you think my boyfriend really likes my "love handles?"
Q. heya im 16 and have a boyfriend, we have been going out for just over a month. i am small for my age (about 5 ft 1) and i am average weight i think (around 8 stone). i have quite a curvy figure around my hips and i have love handles! (curvy ...
A. 9 February 2007: ok god the question every girl wants to no the answer to charlotte church or victoria beckham but in tests most blokes say C.C men love a curvy woman its how we are ment to be. its got the godess factor you are the woman how she should be not a ... (read in full...)
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