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What is a good quote for a tattoo - to show I have overcome depression?
Q. I suffered from severe depression in the past and want to get a tattoo to show that I have overcome it. I want to get a quote. does anyone have any suggestions...
A. 29 June 2010: i want it at the top of my inner arm... (read in full...)
How can I stop my boyfriend taking things too far?
Q. I am 13 and have a boy friend who is 15 ..... we have been together for 5 months and i really trust him .. a couple of nights ago we were kissing on the sofa and then he put his hands down the front of my pants ... i said not yet and he stopped ... ...
A. 20 July 2009: Tell him you're not ready for that kind of thing yet. And you'll let him know when you are. You're far too young to be thinking about that kind of stuff. You should be out with your friends having fun like all young teenagers. :) xxxx (Mod note... (read in full...)
Is there an instrument that detects infidelity?
Q. if i have sex with another man will my husband know? i hear there is an instrument which detects that on this date you had sex with another man is it true? please assist?...
A. 20 July 2009: Simply Don't Cheat... Its Not Hard... Then You Wont Have To Worry About This Imaginary Contraption!!
Jeremy Kyle Would Be Out Of A Job If This 'Cheating Device' Indeed Existed!... (read in full...)
My dad won't let me and my boyfriend sleep in the same bed, and he keeps checking on us! What can I do?
Q. I am 19, my boyfriend is 19, we have been together for 5 years. the problem is: My dad wont allow us to sleep together in the same bed! i have been respectful towards my dad for years always going to sleep on the couch a couple times a week ...
A. 20 July 2009: Hey, He's Just Being A Dad.
I Was With My Ex For 2 Years And My Mum And Stepdad Never Let Him Stay Over! And I Kicked Up All Hell!! But They Never Backed Down, But Now Im Thinking Wat The Hell Was I Doing? No Parent Likes The idea Of There Ba... (read in full...)
Questions about birth control and initiating sex!
Q. Sorry if this story is long XD To summarize what types of birth control are there? and how do I initiate sex without asking for it? My problem dates way back to my old ex he had treated me bad and forced me into giving him a blowjob... I soo...
A. 25 November 2008: well, he seems like a really nice guy unline that prat of an ex of yours!! you were right to dump him my ex was the exact same
just go to your doctor and ask him for the birth control pill everything is doctor patient confidential :)
as fo... (read in full...)
I've been with him 10 months and he's started eyeing up women on tv and in the street. He says its normal but I've told him I dont like it!
Q. Should I leave my fiance? The other night we were watching a movie and everytime a "hot girl" was on the screen he would say something like "she has a nice body", etc. I've already told him that this bothers me, but he won't stop and says that all ...
A. 31 August 2007: dont worry so much :)
if me and my bf are watching movies he will say " o shes hot i would" so i jst say him "yea, shes awrite but shes nt as gd as me ;) or yeah she hot... i think i would too"
xx Finchy xx... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant by the guy I've been having an affair with! I dont need judging, I just need some advice...
Q. I have been seeing this guy for years. Before you judge me you don't have to live my life and there is a lot of screwed up stuff in my marriage. I am married and scared to death of my husband. I found out that I am pregnant and don't know what to ...
A. 31 August 2007: you need to get out of there and take your kids with you! you say that he is good with your children but what if one day he turns on them?
It happened with my dad.. he was abusive but the doting dad.. then it all just changed overnight.. you need... (read in full...)
I am 14, pregnant and haven't told anybody! What do I do?
Q. ok so i had sex with my bf and we used a condom and i still got pregnent, I'm only 14 and nobody knows, not even my bf, I'm scared to tell anyone, my mom said if i ever got pregnant that i would have to get an abortion. What do i do??? HELP PLEA...
A. 31 August 2007: Well, i think you should tell your boyfriend first off.
If your deffinatly sure your pregnant only you can make the decision... myself i dont belive in abortions unless for reasons like rape even then id probubaly concider adoption.
just th... (read in full...)
I'm so scared I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm so scared I don't know what to do! My dad lives in England and I've live in Scotland all my life my dad was an alcoholic and abusive... A few months ago he got given a choice he would have to stop drinking or he would only have a few mont...
A. 21 August 2007: he died couldnt get there on time.. ... (read in full...)
Sex with my boyfriend is a bit awkward; where could we go for some proper privacy?
Q. Well, I'm in love with my boyfriend and vice versa.. We've had sex... But it had been rather awkward. I do believe we would both like to continue, but, we both feel nervous about feelings, atmosphere, and I was just wondering.. If you want to be ...
A. 24 July 2007: well it says you are aged 13-15. i dont really think at this age you should be having sex.
But who am i to judge... i dont really think there would be anywhere as you are that young so you cnt rent a hotel room for the night or anythiin... (read in full...)
How do i hit her G spot?
Q. My girlfriend and i wanna try out sum new positions when we have sex. She is 16 and I'm 17, we have done basic misionary, but now want to experiment with new positions. Any one know any good ones for hitting her g spot?...
A. 22 July 2007: There are a few good positions. You could type into google and you would probubaly find answers. You could try 'doggy style' - your girlfriend will kneel down and you go behind her. - quite good. or getting your girlfriend to lie down on her s... (read in full...)
His best friend really likes me? Has my flirting gone too far?
Q. *sighs* I'm a terrible flirt. I thought I'd get that established. Even on minimum-flirt level, I seem to be flirting outrageously to everyone else so I can only guess what I'm like when I turn it up onto 'Full Power'! I have been going out with thi...
A. 20 July 2007: well, to be honest i dont think you should be going out with your boyfriend. you say you have cheated on him before.. it isnt really good grounds for a relationship. You said you were making out.. so you didnt stop straight away.. what you ... (read in full...)
No matter how much I try, I can never feel pretty!!!! How can I feel better about myself?
Q. No matter how much I try, I can never feel pretty!!!! Other people tell me I am but when I look in the mirror I don't see what is so cute about me!!! How can I feel better about myself?...
A. 14 July 2007: I have the same problem... i look in the mirror and i dont see anything good looking about me. I told my boyfriend and he stood me in front of the mirror and told me to look at myself and tell him what I thought was wrong with me, I told him and ... (read in full...)
How can I become more "feminine"?
Q. Hi I am magi (male) from India I am photographer basicly I am male but I wear female dresses so I want my body to change to female body, any idieas. I don't known proper english pleaze understand thank you....
A. 14 July 2007: If this is something you are seriously considering what you will have to do is see a psychiatrist who will evaluate you and decide if you would be happier in a female body. If everything comes back that you are depressed from being in a male body ... (read in full...)
Is age really that important?
Q. If you fall in love with someone older than you about 7 yrs older and they're married with a baby but her and her man are seperated and we both like each other...is age really that important ...
A. 7 July 2007: no, age isnt important. Do what makes you happy. Many couples have age differances.. imaging what life would be like if everyone stayed within the same age area. your just people.. age is a number.... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex.and scared I might get pregnant! How do I tell my Mom?
Q. Hi..I've done somethin really really stupid. Ive had sex..unprotected. I'm scared I might be pregnant and I don't know how to tell my mum. Please give me some advice :( Kaya x...
A. 24 April 2007: first off do a test.....
is there anyone you can talk to that will help you figure out how to tell your mum? a close relative or friend that can sit down with you and help you sort things out?
take care x... (read in full...)
The pregnancy test showed two lines really faintly! Im 9 days late, could I be pregnant!?
Q. I had unprotected sex two weeks ago, I am nauseous, I smell everything, by breast are a little bigger but not sore. My period is 9 days late. I took pregnancy test a very very faint line makes me question if it is really there, but when I held it ...
A. 30 March 2007: go to the doctors and get a proper test done... (read in full...)
Im really worried about my bf's behaviour, hes being really lovey, but way over the top!!!
Q. my bf has been acting very strange last night we were outside ma house in the car and he was really strange he was sayin over an over that he loved me and i was like i love u too and he was like no i REALLY love you i was like i know... and he was ...
A. 30 March 2007: Im 17, im living with my parents. My mum chucked me out last month so i was living with my boyfriend for 2 weeks (his mum mentioned it to him and he was all for it) but im back home now. ... (read in full...)
OMG... could I possibly be pregnant?
Q. i had sex with a guy last sunday. he used a condom but i do not remember much because i was drunk.. When i woke up friday i was very dizzy and i felt like i was going to throw up, that lasted a couple days. At school I could barely concentrate ...
A. 28 March 2007: referring to the anonomous poster omg how could you say that it is for the worse.. sometimes bad circumstances change into great ones! and also its her choice what she does were not here to judge just help!
hiya hun, take a couple of tests an... (read in full...)
Are anti-depressants bad for you?
Q. I went to the doctors yesterday because I was feeling really tired all the time and really down. He prescribed me anti-depressants and I started taking them last night. My housemate went nuts and told me they were really bad for me but I think I ...
A. 28 March 2007: They are not bad for you, but they are sometimes addictive depending what ones you are on.
I was on fluxatine they were known to be addictive but i came off them no problem. I dont think you will lose your job over it, just keep taking the medi... (read in full...)
I'm seeing a 28 year old and I'm 17 and was wondering if he is too old for me?
Q. hiya every one I'm seeing a 28 year old and I'm 17 and was wondering if he is too old for me? I have told my mum and dad that he is 22 but a hate lying to them and also I dont even no if I love him yet because I'm scared to fall in love again be...
A. 27 March 2007: Age is just a number, wait until you know its going to last before you tell your parents though. x... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and thinking of having sex for the first time.
Q. i'm 16 years old and thinking about having sex for the first time. i'm really nervous cos the girl i'm with has already had sex a few times and i dont want her to think i'm rubbish. i am uncircumcised and wanted to know if i'm supposed to pull...
A. 26 March 2007: I know you are legal age and all but i honestly dont think you are ready. Find out some more information about sex then when you are confidant go for it! if she likes you she wont make fun of you for being a bit off just tell her you are still a ... (read in full...)
I know he cares about me but at 14 years old...should I have sex with him?
Q. Hey, i'm 14 and am going out with a lovely 17 year old. hes always nice to me, and makes an effort. weve been going out for 3 months, and i can tell that hes thinking about sex. as hes my first "real" boyfriend, im not that clued up about how ...
A. 26 March 2007: No, wait until you are legal age as your bf could get into a lot of trouble. Talk to him about it and ask him if he is willing to wait a while.. xx... (read in full...)
Anal sex..any harmful affects from doing this long term?
Q. Are there any long term or harmful effects of anal intercourse over a long period of time?...
A. 26 March 2007: If you are having anal alot... e.g every night it could be quite dangerous because the anus isnt ment for penatration. The skin could stretch after a while... if you like doing it dont stop but only do it on an occasional basis and use plenty Lube ... (read in full...)
Do men really think about their ex girlfriends when having sex ?
Q. Do men fantasize about their ex girlfriends when they are having sex? I've been with my boyfriend for a year and it's going great. He slept with 2 people before me and it never used to bother me until I met them both. I'm a curvy size 14, who's ...
A. 22 March 2007: Think about it... he is with you so he must like you for who you are and not basing you on appearance. My current bf has been with models who are drop dead gorgeous and then u have me who is a size 6 and weighs 7 1/2 st lol... i was sooo worried ... (read in full...)
Should I keep him as a friend... or more?
Q. Hi. I hope someone can help me out with this. well i like this guys who is over 20yrs older than me. He flirts with me all the time and i am always finding myself visiting him while hes at work. hes always joking about me and him going for coffee or ...
A. 9 February 2007: do what your heart tells you to do! I am 17 and i like a 31 year old and he likes me! i never went for it because of people telling me it was wrong... and i saw him today when i was on the bus and i had not seen him in ages!!!... i made the bus s... (read in full...)
Do I try to make it work with my alcoholic husband?
Q. O.K. here it goes......My husband is an alcoholic. When I fell in love with him it wasn't a problem. We met in our early 20's so we partied together, nothing uncommon. We have since had 2 boys (5 and 3) and I have matured and calmed down. He has ...
A. 26 January 2007: hi, i am 17 well i think you should leave him!! not because i am being horrible its just the affect that it will have on the children. My dad was an alcoholic for the whole of my life! He would always say he was going to stop and he never did. He ... (read in full...)
How do I find out if they're divorced?
Q. how do i find out if someone is divorced or not...
A. 25 January 2007: Just kinda pop up a conversation with him about 'a friend is getting divorced and she is taking it hard does he know of anyone who has been divorced to offer help'... (read in full...)
How do I stop being used like this?
Q. I'm completely in love with this guy, however he only seems to pay attention to me every now and then. He uses me, because in my twisted head that's desperate for him to love me too and will do anything for him, I'll do stuff on webcam for him. I...
A. 17 January 2007: I used to be in the same boat i was completely in love with a guy i thought loved me too but i was wrong!
He would only speak to me when he was single and when he did he was always asking me to do stuff on webcam for him.
Eventually i decided ... (read in full...)
I tell my best friend who I like, then she goes and flirts w/ them in front of me!
Q. hello please will lots of people answrr as i would like a range of ideas please :(...... i dont no what to do, i tell my best friend i like some lads and she goes and flirts with them infront of me she's alot prettier than me and i have low self of ...
A. 10 January 2007: She dosent seem like a very good friend if she is doing this just to spite you!
Don't tell her if you like someone in future and then she can't interfere.... (read in full...)
My older friend just got engaged to his gf - now I'm distraught and don't know how to act around him!
Q. hi i am 17 years old i am in love with a older guy he is 30 and a really good friend of mine.We get on really well and he is always there for me and ready to make me laugh when i am down.i know we would be perfect together but there is one problem i ...
A. 10 January 2007: Your just going to have to forget about him, i know its going to be hard but you dont want to do anything that could put his future marrige in jeprody. Think if you were on the receiving end? How would you feel if someone was after your man?
As for ... (read in full...)
I'm a 15 year old virgin and he's 20. Should I give up my virginity to him to make this relationship better?
Q. i am only 15 years old and my boy friend is 20 years old i now this relationship is not good..i say this because of the age. well my question is should i give up my virginity to him? i am scared to end up pregnet.but i cant control my orgasums no ...
A. 18 December 2006: wait a year till u are legal age, and wait till u know it is serious. u dnt want to lose ur virginity then regret it later in life.. xXx... (read in full...)
My mum had 2 stillborn's, shes pregnant again and Im really really scared!!! Please help...
Q. dear cupid, i have just turned 17 years old and i have a brother(stephen) and a sister(skye) but they both died through still birth, my brother died 18 years ago through placental abruption. my sister died last year but she died the day she...
A. 11 October 2006: well, i dont know if u will see the updates but last night my mum had my sister Amelia 7 pounds 1 at 5:40pm... (read in full...)
help i am 14
Q. i am 14 i havent started my period i have really small boobs what should i do help...
A. 6 October 2006: lol u shud b happy bout the periods... i used to cry cos i felt left out cos aw ma pals had started there periods and i hadnt. and when i was 16 i started, and i hated it i still do.
As for boob size i am 17 and i am onli a 34B which is rly smal... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my boyfriend - but he is 21 and I'm only 14!
Q. ive bin with my boyfrien 4 seven months im 14 and hes 21 we have decided to have sex and got contraception and such like but im really nervous because i dnt no wat mt body should look like plz can you help me ? ...
A. 17 September 2006: ok its quite sumple dont have sex with him
you are 14 you arent even fully developed yet, and u want to have sex.
your boyfriend should know you are to young!!.
you should say to him you arent ready for sex and see his reaction if he is angry ... (read in full...)
How can you have friends that are girls without getting grief from your wife/girlfriend ?
Q. Hi, Here is a good question. If you're a guy and like me, you tend to get along with girls as friends. How can you have them as friends without getting into grief with your wife/girlfriend over it. Seems impossible to me. Sure I know yo...
A. 9 September 2006: Then i dont see the problem you are entitled to spend time with them.... (read in full...)
How can you have friends that are girls without getting grief from your wife/girlfriend ?
Q. Hi, Here is a good question. If you're a guy and like me, you tend to get along with girls as friends. How can you have them as friends without getting into grief with your wife/girlfriend over it. Seems impossible to me. Sure I know yo...
A. 7 September 2006: well how much time are you spending with these girls?
maybe she is jelous that you are spending more time with them than her?!?!?!... (read in full...)
We are good friends, do I tell her how I feel or just Woo her overtime ?
Q. There is this girl who is very special to me. She has been a huge help with me going through a very difficult time in my life. I too have been very helpful to her as she is going through a divorce. She has a little girl and seems a littl...
A. 7 September 2006: why don't you say to her that you are wondering if she likes u more than a friend?!?!. tell her you like her but dont want to spoil your friendship.... (read in full...)
She confessed how she felt then backed off.. we both love each other but she says it cannot work!!
Q. i'm in a rather odd situation in my life right now, and have no clue how to handle it. it started back about 7 or 8 months ago. this girl had a really big crush on me, yet we had never spoken at the time, so i had no clue. but one day, thinking ...
A. 7 September 2006: I think you should move on for now, and in the future if you are both single see how it goes.... (read in full...)
Is he shy, is he gay or just given up on the relationship front?
Q. There's this bloke I really fancy. Seems to know everything about music, and everything else, but talks to me as if I've a brain in my head, he's sweet and the least sexist bloke I've ever met. I've dropped alsorts of hints and I'm sure he fanc...
A. 7 September 2006: hi, its spelt blonde btw.
I think he likes you and you have made it clear you like him too. So go for it!. Tell him how you feel.
If it goes well, try to talk to his kids and then he will see you aren't bothered about him having kids.... (read in full...)
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