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I have no confidence and I really like this girl! What do I do?
Q. I am 14 years old and am friends with a girl in my year who is also 14. We are really good friends, and can laugh about absolutely anything and everything. We never seem to stop texting each other, to chat as we live in different towns. The problem ...
A. 1 August 2009: hi there! aww you sound so sweet :) ok so first of all you need to establish how this girl is feeling. give subtle hints about who you like, maybe joke about your childhood crushes and then say you like someone else now etc or if you cant pluck up ... (read in full...)
How can I make this not hurt?
Q. heyy. my name is C******, and i am 15. okay here's my question. -i like to masterbate the same as everone else does. i only like rubbing my clit though. well everone else can go inside the hole, i cant. well i can but it hurts, why? help me ... ...
A. 31 July 2009: Hey there. So like one of the replies said it may hurt because you are a virgin. one question i do want to ask is do you use tampons or pads? because if you use tampons then it shouldnt hurt that much. but i think the main reason is because you ... (read in full...)
He's not texting so is he not interested? Do I forget him?
Q. hi. i started talking to a guy i meant on a online site, and we exchange emails, and soon numbers. we texted everyday, with him texting me every day, and we would text alot throughout the day. we fell out a few times, but it was all forgotten, and ...
A. 31 July 2009: hi there. i went through the same situation a couple of months ago. what it sounds like is that this 'relationship' started very intensely and full on. both of you showed a full interest in each other but now the 'honeymoon' period is over and the ... (read in full...)
Falling for my best friend.. Do I risk telling her?
Q. My best friend is female. We always joke around that one day we will eventually end up together. But lately I've been taking these comments more seriously, and it hurts when she tells me about other guys and her attraction towards them. I want to ...
A. 31 July 2009: Hi there. This is the problem with male-female friendships. even though people say we can have non romantic friendships, i think theres always a possibility. as a female, i recognise a possible technique she may be using- mentioning other guys ... (read in full...)
I've been avoiding sex because I'm afraid of being compared to her other 30 partner!
Q. I have a girlfriend and we have been official for just over a month now. I've known her for 3 years prior to getting involved with her. She is a lovely person, and I'm so glad we are together, but she recently confided in me that she has slept with ...
A. 31 July 2009: Hi there. First of all i think most of the worry is on your part and it seems like its completely unnecessary. Make yourself feel better to start with. Compare her 30 one night stands with your 3 stead and long term relationships- surely you are ... (read in full...)
Should I call it quits or hang in there a little longer?
Q. I need some good advice! Ive been dating this guy for 4 months. The first 3 months were great! He text me all the time, called me, spent lots of time with me and the sex was great. But the last month his text and calls have been less and less...
A. 19 April 2009: Hey there! I think you should just call it quits. 5 days without any sort of contact or meeting is pretty long and the more excuses he makes, the more reasons you have to move on. I think you've got the right idea on pretty much everything, so h... (read in full...)
I find it hard to make a single friend.
Q. Is the middle child ever wanted? Is the middle child just a hassle? I am a middle child and I live at home, I am 28 years old, my younger sister is 14 years and my brother is 34 years old. My dad listens to my 14 year old sister before he'd listen ...
A. 18 April 2009: Hi hun- i think i answered a question very similar to this?! If this is the same person then you should read my answer on the other similar post... (read in full...)
I feel isolted by my family and the Out Back, what should I do?
Q. Is the middle child ever wanted? Is the middle child just a hassle? I am a middle child and i live at home i am 28 years old, my younger sister is 14 years and my brother is 34 years old. my dad listens to my 14 year old sister before he,d listen to ...
A. 18 April 2009: Hi there. As a middle child i can sympathise you. There is in fact a syndrome called 'middle child syndrome' where children have a sense of no belonging. The middle child can often feel out of place as well- sometimes being treated in a similar ... (read in full...)
What do guys prefer...?
Q. Do guys only go for gorgeous looking girls and not plain looking girls?...
A. 5 April 2009: it depends on what you see as gorgeous and what a guy sees as gorgeous. and vice versa with plain. gorgeous for one guy could be loads of makeup and revealing clothes where as gorgeous for another guy could be well dressed, really pretty.
it depe... (read in full...)
Period Cramp Advice Please!
Q. Hi to all cupids out there. Ok i need any tips or tricks of the trade for this question. Ive been getting really bad period pains/stomach cramps and wondered if anyone had any good tips they could give me on how to reduce the uncomfortable fe...
A. 3 April 2009: heya
thanks for all the help
definetly be trying some of the tips out!... (read in full...)
Motivation tips?
Q. Dear all cupids out there, This is less of a love and relationship question and more of a question about life so i would be really grateful is anyone could answer it; thank you! So at the moment im finding it hard to become motivated. Espec...
A. 1 April 2009: Wow! I didn't think i would get this much feedback! Thank you so much to everybody for taking time out to answer and giving really good advice :)... (read in full...)
Maybe I should just tell the guy I like him?
Q. So really like this guy who I've been friends with for ages. He used to really like me but now fancies one of my taken best friends...I don't know what to do, sometimes I think there's a chance he might still like me but I'm scared he'll just say ...
A. 23 March 2009: hey there
ahah i know just how you feel. im in the same situation right now. what ive been doing and its really worked is just step back and when they start arguing be the shoulder to cry on for both of them. im pretty stuck about what to do . be... (read in full...)
Did he change his mind about his feelings or was he being shy?
Q. hi guys, basically i have gotten to know this guy through friends and we have started getting to know each other better. basically we exchanged numbers etc and text continuously like everyday! anyway, valentines day, he texts me asking me to be...
A. 16 February 2009: aww this guy sounds quite sweet and i think he was probably shy and embarassed! it's so much easier to talk to someone over the computer or phone and i think it was probably first date nerves
nothing to worry about
feel free to mail me
ellie
xx... (read in full...)
What should I get my teacher for valentines day to show that I appreciate him?
Q. What should I get my teacher for valentines day to show that I appreciate him? I don't want it to be able to be taken the wrong way, though. just something little... any ideas?...
A. 12 February 2009: At your age of 16/17, for many men it's an awkward age, especially for teachers. By giving you teacher something on Valentines Day would create an unnecessary awkward position which you may want to avoid.
Hope this helps
Lots of Love
Ellie
xx... (read in full...)
First time with a prostitute...
Q. Is it better to lose your virginity to a prostitute if your past your teens than waiting for sumthing long term, which could take forever?...
A. 12 February 2009: Waiting for something long term, which could take longer seems a much better idea than losing it to someone whose job is basically to have sex. It'll mean nothing to them and if i were you i would feel used. I know its cliche but your first time ... (read in full...)
He lead me on, and now 1 year later, is doing it to my innocent friend.....
Q. Ok well, 2 years ago, i met this boy (lets call him bill) at a rockclimbng camping trip and as soon as i saw him, i fell in love with him! i would always look at him and think of him allday, for the whole 4 days we were on the trip. i thought he ...
A. 9 December 2008: hey there! im so sorry this silly little boy has had to put you through this. i know what it feels like when you think that guy is really special. some guys at this age, and some at all ages, are unaware at how they should treat girls. this guy ... (read in full...)
I cant stop thinking about him! Is it because I finally found a good friend to laugh with?
Q. Hi everyone. This may be a question none of you will be able to answer; but i would love it if you could try. You might think its just a teenage thing but... So here it goes. Well you know when you see someone walking down the street and they ...
A. 19 August 2008: hey thanks for answering!
troulbe is he already has a gf...so yh i dunno
xxx... (read in full...)
I was raped by my father's boss, what do I do?
Q. Please someone has to help me. I can't live with this anymore. when i was 10 I was raped by my Fathers Boss. His boss is also one of his good friends. My Dad and his co-workers had a party to celebrate their works aniversary. All my Dads fr...
A. 26 June 2008: i am truly sorry for what happened and i dont feel that i have the knowledge and experience to answer this question or give advice to you, but i know one person who specialises in rape cases and you can email her and shell reply within 24 hours. ... (read in full...)
Is he embarassed to hold my hand? He says he will but never does!
Q. hi, well I know it sais I'm like 16-18 or something but I am not I am 13-15 ...anyway here goes I have a boyfriend and we have been seeing each other for about a month now, I have very strong feelings for him and he's told me he feels the same, th...
A. 12 May 2008: hey hun!
i think a lot of girls forget that a lot of the time they leave a lot of the touchy stuff up to the guys. I think for them it can sometimes be nervwracking and embarassing. and it takes up a lot of their courage. so try to understand why ... (read in full...)
He dated me just to get at my younger mate and cheated, what can I do to move on??
Q. Hi, I'm 17 and i know this 19 year old boy for over a year and i really liked him. We went out for 3 weeks but my 14 year old mate went out with him before me. It lasted 3 days so me and this boy spent a lot of time together and then he asked me...
A. 28 March 2008: hii hun
this has just happened to me, so i know how youre feeling. this guy just thought i would be okay if he just dropped it on me. in front of him i acted okay but i was so scared becasue i felt so upset and depressed. time is a healer. im s... (read in full...)
Why am I feeling so low?
Q. at the moment i have been feeling so low. i have friends but i dont want to be near them and i feel really distant from everybody in general. i dont want to get close to anyone and the littlest things upset me. i am 14 years old and this has been...
A. 24 February 2008: hi everyone thanks for all your great answers x... (read in full...)
I'm tired of always helping things my husband can't do.
Q. I'm danielle,I live here in south korea and I have a husband who has disability so the problems is I'm tired of always helping things my husband can't do....
A. 14 February 2008: hi hun
first of all i think you are a real inspiration to all 'carers' looking after someone disabled. yes it will become hard and you will come to a point where you want to give up. i would try and talk to a counsellor who can sit down and talk... (read in full...)
Why do I feel really sad???
Q. Can somebody help me? I really don't know what's up with me. I feel so low and empty. I find myself wishing I could make everybody around me happy, to see them content - I know this is an impossible wish. Over the last 3 years my strong and bubb...
A. 13 February 2008: hi ive finally found someone who is just like me. i feel everyday is like a struggle for me. nothing makes me happy but i love making other people happy. i feel my friends really arent my friends. the only place i feel happy and content is in ... (read in full...)
How can I bring pads without her knowing?
Q. I got my first period 2 months ago and still didn't tell my mom because she goes and tell everyone which I hate but I am going on vaction with my family next week and I am due for my period while we are gone. How do I bring pads witout her knowing?...
A. 10 February 2008: hi first of all whatever people say it is kind of your choice what you tell your mum and what you dont. I'm just warning you that in the end you'll have to tell your mum or she'll find out before. What you need to do is organise a shopping trip ... (read in full...)
Does he think our relationship is more friendly
Q. hi i dont want to sound paranoid. but my bf has myspace and recently my friend left comments on his page with loads of kisses and he replied back saying something but with laods of kisses. i found that he normally gives me more than one kiss whe...
A. 10 February 2008: hey thanks to the person above he puts one kiss of eveeryone elses...i dunno she just told me like yesterday (my friend) that they call each other everyday...i dunno xxx... (read in full...)
Help me please and quickly!
Q. Please help me and fast!!! I'm going to the movies with this girl I really like but I'm going to be the only guy there and she's coming with a bunch of her friends. What do I do?!!!!...
A. 10 February 2008: Hi, from my experience and my friends, when i first told them i was going out they wanted to meet my bf so badly: that's probably what this girls friends want. The main thing is to be extra nice to the girl u like in front of her friends. I don't... (read in full...)
Deep throat... why do they make a fuss over it?
Q. Is deep throat really so difficult? Am I getting it wrong here, when I think it's just taking a man's penis a little further into your mouth? I don't understand why people make such a huge deal of it, is there something I'm missing?...
A. 9 February 2008: hi this sounds very brutal but some women find it uncomfortable to have a man's penis rammed down their throat and for some it can make them gag. so i think your answers there xxx... (read in full...)
Finally met him in person, and he came out as very shy and reserved. How can I make him open up more?
Q. Well i meet up with this guy a few days ago, we have talked over the computer for a while and got on well though i know when you meet someone in person they can be very different.Well he was very shy and nervous and would hardly look me in the face ...
A. 9 February 2008: hi this guy sounds really shy. the only way you can open him up is to talk. talk about sports he likes. laugh a lot but not too much. if you too serious then that might make him more nervous. with time he will become more open with you. ... (read in full...)
Can I get my new piercings wet?
Q. hey i got my ears pierced (one on each ear) a couple of hours ago. i know that i have to clean it with this special lotion, but can i now have a soak in the bath/ a shower and get my ears/ new piercings wet? what are the rules on this? pl...
A. 31 January 2008: hey hun!
well first of all clean your ears with the lotion once in the morning and once before you go to bed. sure you can get them wet but just dont take them out until 6/8 weeks has passed by.
if youre doing sport get special tape to put over... (read in full...)
An on line test said I have severe depression. What can I do?
Q. hi i took one of those tests online to say whether i had depression or not. i have been feeling really bad for about 2 years or so. it suddenly got really bad. the test online, which came from a very reliable online doctors site, said i had majo...
A. 30 January 2008: hi guys. i dont know if i said this in my last mail, but im 13 and i dont think i have enough courage to go and see my doctor or even talk to my parents. i self harmed for about 3 months and when my mum found out she told me to stop and shouted... (read in full...)
Could it be depression? The past two years seem to have mounted up, I don't know where I'm standing.
Q. hi guys. i always rely on this site to help me with minor problems but recently so much as been mounting up and it has turned into one big problem. here it is.....: first of all: i dont know whether i have depression or not but i go through ...
A. 16 January 2008: hiya rcn! sorry im a bit slow at replying.
i can relate to your daughter though definetly. even the littlest stupidest things can get me down. im not that sensitive though and its only sometimes it happens. yeah the bully was having a crap time... (read in full...)
Could it be depression? The past two years seem to have mounted up, I don't know where I'm standing.
Q. hi guys. i always rely on this site to help me with minor problems but recently so much as been mounting up and it has turned into one big problem. here it is.....: first of all: i dont know whether i have depression or not but i go through ...
A. 16 January 2008: hi everyone!
thanks for reading my question.
xapathyxrebornx: thanks for sharing your experience. i know its difficult to suggest stuff for me but thanks anyway for trying.
rcn: thanks for your advice. my relationship with my parents is o... (read in full...)
I'm depressed and I don't like myself! What should I do?
Q. I don't really like myself, even at the age of 20 and when I'm at university. Last night I left my friends at a bar as I was depressed because I hate myself. I even had a conversation with my dad earlier on today about how I should like myself and ...
A. 15 January 2008: hi hun!
ive been going through this. youre lucky that your parents understand. its only my dad that has a slight inclination that somethings up. did something happen a while back? or did you go through an unhappy time in your life? i find cert... (read in full...)
Confused Teen...am I bisexual?
Q. hi, ive been really unhappy latley ive got very close to a friend of mine but i feel i might have feelings for her. i have never had feelings for a girl befor and i am very confused. i think i might be bisexual. if any1 can give me any advice it ...
A. 15 January 2008: hi hun!
you must be feeling pretty bad. you know with all your emotions mixed up. sometimes it can be a phase that people go through and they come out of it wondering why they ever thought like that. have you known this girl long? if not then... (read in full...)
My sister's bf's daughter (same age as me)...and I'm in love with her. Is this wrong?
Q. Hi I need some advice My half-sister is about 19 years older than me and has got a new boyfreind. He has a daughter around the same age as me. My sister thought it be good if we swapped msn addresses. So we got talking and we met up before christ...
A. 15 January 2008: hey hun!
you cant just force yourself to think one thing to make yourself do another. eg. you said you think youre falling out of love with your girlfriend and falling in love with this girl. i would leave it and carry on with your girl... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my bestfriend but I always end up getting her back with my mate.
Q. I have always liked my bestfriend. She's been my closest friend for almost 5 years now. 2 years ago she asked for one of my mates number and since then they have been together. They always fight and break-up and i always help to get them back on ...
A. 15 January 2008: hi hun!
this is one of those things where you should just keep quiet. blurting out your feelings when theyre still together could be awkward. its great that youre there for a friend and you need to let them know youre there for them. that way if s... (read in full...)
What happened years ago kills me inside and I just cant seem to get over it.
Q. Where to start... I'm 26 y/o. I have been with my husband for 9 years and married for 3 years. We started dating when we were 17. When we were 21, my husband (boyfriend at the time) starting acting strange and distant. I learned that he was becoming...
A. 15 January 2008: hey hun!
*hug*
well first of all, if you keep 'stirring' up everything that happened in the past you will get nowhere. i can understand your curiosity, but you need to let it go. you have children/a child so if you bring it up you could be putti... (read in full...)
I have met someone else...but I really couldnt cope with somebody breaking my heart right now.
Q. I have met a new girl recently who I am beginning to like. My last girlfriend hurt me so badly it really messed me up for a long time. With this girl - I think she likes me (she flirts alot and makes suggestions so at least I think she is attracted ...
A. 15 January 2008: hey
first of all when entering any new relationship you have to take some sort of chance. she might display signs in her nature that makes you think shes like the girl you knew before, but what ive learnt with a lot of people is that when you get ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to be 'just' friends with a guy who wants to date me?
Q. hi i have a boyf of 3 years who i love very much. but i have a male friend who i get along really well with, i dont have any romantic feelings for him but i know he does for me, but he knows i am with someone. we txt alot and see eachother on nights ...
A. 15 January 2008: hi. basschick is completely right. whatever you tell your boyfriend and however much he trusts you, you are leading this guy on. it doesnt matter if the two of you dont go out alone. texting when you know this guy has feelings for you is not ... (read in full...)
What do I get my boyfriend for Valentines Day?
Q. little bit early,but i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for valentines day! we have been dating for over 6 months now,will be 7 months by valentines day,do you think i should get him something romantic, or something else like ..dvds or cds? eee ...
A. 15 January 2008: hi hun!
well my bf is like my best friend and weve been going out for about 4 months. he told me that giving chocolates as a gift is a gift you give someone you dont know that well. im not saying you shouldnt give him chocolates, but im sayi... (read in full...)
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