Does being turned on more by girls make me lesbian???
Q. So I'm a girl and I hang out with guys all day so they got me to watch porn and then I started to watch lesbian porn. It turns me on more to see a girl naked then seeing a guy. but I don't want to be lesbian. what does this mean if I get turned on ...
A. 17 October 2011: it's normal to get turned on by girl porn,studies show that girls get turned on by guy/girl porn...unlike guys..
anyways,it all comes back to real life,maybe if you try to do something about it in real life,you'll see that you won't be too much... (read in full...)
Was I Wrong for Talking to Another Guy?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me almost a month ago. We were having some troubles about a year ago and just took a break for about two months. In that two months he talked to other girls and i talked to this guy. I had a crush on him and so di he. We ...
A. 4 October 2011: you're young..find someone new..don't waste your golden years on someone who's just wasting your time... (read in full...)
Do we tell the parents of my son's girlfriend that we walked in on them having oral sex?
Q. My husband and I walked in on my 17 year old son performing oral sex on his girl friend who is 16. My husband and I disagree on what we should do. I think that we should call her parents and tell them what happened. My husband on the other hand said ...
A. 3 October 2011: don't do it... (read in full...)
Ex wants to know I stopped contact
Q. my question is my boyfriend called it off but claimed he still loved me as a friend. he kept calling me but a time came when i completely stopped picking up his calls because i needed to heal from pain. and he started asking his sisters why i wa...
A. 1 September 2011: your life,your choice...
but if i were you,i wouldn't call,he broke up with you,didn't he?... (read in full...)
This player has actually fallen for me and he just doesn't want to let me go!
Q. Long messy story so here goes. Met a guy a while back and he started flirting with me straight away. I thought he was interested only to find that he had made out with my friend while he was flirting with me. He said he didn't really owe me anything ...
A. 28 August 2011: it's a simple ego issue,guy wants what he can't get..won't give up on it... (read in full...)
We only see each other once a week, but she calls me clingy. I buy her everything, but she says I never take care of her. Is she using me?
Q. so me and my girlfriend have been fighting for the past two weeks. She keeps telling me im clingy, and she needs space, and i only see her once a week, so i dont understand how im being clingy. another thing iv noticed is i pay for everything. i pay ...
A. 26 August 2011: avoid her for some time,and you'll see that you'll be the one saying that she's being clingy..
i know she might seem the one or whatever dramatic crap you see in movies,but read your own post,and you'll understand that there are 6 billion peop... (read in full...)
What's wrong with my boyfriend?
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriends 16 soon, he wants to have sex but I'm not sure I do, he's not a virgin but I am! He always gets drunk and high, it dosent bother me usually but recently he feels me up and sticks his hands down my pants and top in front of ...
A. 26 August 2011: all i have to say is get out,the rest was said perectly by other members... (read in full...)
I feel trapped. What should I do? I've had a threesome and my husband does not know.
Q. Hi i'm 32 year old wife and a mom with a kid of 3 years old . I'm feeling confused and trapped with a dilemma all because of my mistakes. Almost 3 months before I met a nice and good looking girls who's 23 years at the gym. We had the same gym ins...
A. 26 August 2011: you made up your bed..now lie in it..
you don't deserve a husband,or a child.
if you ever get cheated on you'll understand the shame and sorrow you have risked to put those you supposedly love just for a little MEANINGLESS,good time..
the least... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong? Guys ignore me. Would going blonde help?
Q. I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend. It may sound annoying to some of you because there are bigger problems but I have a bunch of friends and I wouldn't say that I'm ugly but I'm not going to say I'm drop dead gorgeous either. I'm about 5'3" and...
A. 4 March 2011: don't go blonde..just change your clothing style... (read in full...)
My ex suddenly wants back after a year, should I dump my current boyfriend for him?
Q. Me and my ex went out for a year and a half, we had plans to get married, have children and all the rest. Sadly that all came to an end June last year, he had a change of heart and needed to rediscover who he was, and left. I was absolutely heartbro...
A. 19 April 2010: he's your ex for a good reason... (read in full...)
Was my boyfriend just trying something new or was I right to react the way I did?
Q. im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we had been fighting lately and just got back together last night. i went over his house last night and we worked it out. so we were just sitting there watching tv, him on the couch and me in the chair next to ...
A. 27 October 2009: have u even thought that he apologised so he can see what your reaction will be and see if he could do it again?
and as i saw that you quickly forgave him,it was such an ignorant move,i stick with MARKINGBAD,because he said everything there's ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex boyfriend reading my emails but not responding?
Q. ex boyfriend of 15 years, that I lived with, dumped me two years ago. I loved him very much! more then i could express in words. he ended up marrying a foreigner. His third marriage. blocked me from his email, won't talk to me. Pretty much disowned ...
A. 7 September 2009: i don't blame you:)
but you have to move on!... (read in full...)
I feel romantically attracted to my dog!!!
Q. I have been having some very strange feelings about my beautiful Dobermann Pincher named Shelly. I have owned her for aout 6 years and she has been a wonderful, loving and loyal pet. It just feels like more than that lately. I don't have many ...
A. 28 December 2008: the thing is its really very clear..you're just lonely,just the fact of not having any friends,or girlfriends..no social life?
i feel you,everyone searches for a getaway sometime in their lives,dogs can't hurt you they're always there,but can you ... (read in full...)
Does he love me for real?
Q. Question to all of my cyber cupid angels. The guy I have been seeing for the last eight months called me in the middle of the night-after a night of drinking- and told me he had to tell me something he never has before. "I am falling for you and I ...
A. 28 December 2008: i agree with the other posts, you can't be sure about this,but i think him being drunk was just an excuse to tell you what he feels,and if you reject him then he'll have the excuse that he was drunk and didn't mean it..you know thinking about it,how ... (read in full...)
Does he love me for real?
Q. Question to all of my cyber cupid angels. The guy I have been seeing for the last eight months called me in the middle of the night-after a night of drinking- and told me he had to tell me something he never has before. "I am falling for you and I ...
A. 28 December 2008: i agree with the other posts, you can't be sure about this,but i think him being drunk was just an excuse to tell you what he feels,and if you reject him then he'll have the excuse that he was drunk and didn't mean it..you know thinking about it,how ... (read in full...)
It's so hard to get over her! What can I do?
Q. Broke up 3 months ago. It was my first real relationship, and it lasted a 1 1/2 years. I really loved her, did everything for her, and I found out for a few months prior to our breakup that she had 'fallen in love with someone else'. This was over ...
A. 7 December 2008: getting over someone you see everyday is probably the hardest thing to do..but you have to do it anyways..
she kindly showed you that you guys can't be tgether and can't go out for a bite..so this leaves you with only one thing to do:moving on..... (read in full...)
Is kissing considered cheating?
Q. Is kissing cheating? Just how bad is it to kiss (make out with) someone else when in a VERY serious relationship?...
A. 26 November 2008: i think so..... (read in full...)
Is kissing considered cheating?
Q. Is kissing cheating? Just how bad is it to kiss (make out with) someone else when in a VERY serious relationship?...
A. 26 November 2008: yea kissing is considered cheating 100%... (read in full...)
Lost... one minute all lovey dovey, next minute the bomb is dropped!
Q. My Boyfriend has told me he wants to break up because he is tired but is hoping we can be together after some time alone to pick himself up and recharge his mind body and soul..... I miss him terribly and all this happened so suddenly that I didn't ...
A. 18 November 2008: two answers(not too much info in your question):
-he might be playing with your feelings,just having fun,and he knows that you will be waiting for him because you have strong feelings for you,so he won't have that fear of losing you,in that case... (read in full...)
Why has my boyfriend changed so much?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year, within about 8 months he changed A LOT! sometimes he treats me as a mate more than a girlfriend, he will come to see me but just sit downstairs have a cuppa tea and then leave, I'm not ...
A. 18 November 2008: surprise him!just get dressed,go over to his house or call him and tell him to meet you somewhere,and just go out and have fun,don't wait for him to take the next step..have a great evening,if he doesn't show up,or just gives you an excuse,well that ... (read in full...)
I have trouble committing. What do I do?
Q. Hi I met this girl during "vacation" and we had a one month "affair" (she was in an LD). She got in some minor fight with her bf and I could tell that she was waiting for me to ask for some kind of commitment. But every time the opportunity aros...
A. 13 October 2008: omg! i feel that i know you!you're just like and ex!
you already know that what you did to her wasn't the best choice ..you don't want more years of lonliness well you know how to call her,you have to chase after her cause you know that she's the ... (read in full...)
My ex gf mum has cancer...and I don't know what to do...
Q. My ex girl friend mum has cancer. I still love her. Want to be there 4 her. We broke up not 2 long after we found out. Because the pressure on her was too much. Even I still want her back . I want to do the right thing. She does mean a lot tome ...
A. 10 October 2008: if you really love her,stay next to her through these tuff times,hold her hand,and don't let go of her.be there for her and don't leave whatever happens even if she asks you to!
take care!XXX... (read in full...)
I should have known when we met in the psychiatric hospital!
Q. i dont know where to begin, i met him in a phych ward, i was withdrawling from alcohol and him cocaine. we confided in eachother alot and stayed in touch, he was 28 i was 23, he was living with his grandma and i was living with friends, about 2 ...
A. 4 October 2008: you have been trought so much and i won't be here judging you because all you did was putting through what he did to you..you have a big heart,even though you know when he is lying you try to convince yourself that there is still hope..
i am very... (read in full...)
Did I just make the biggest mistake of my life?
Q. Did I just make the biggest mistake of my life? I got married to a woman I havn't even known for 3 months. I should have thought it through more because this is horrible now. I didnt realize all that came with being married. She is even 6 years ...
A. 2 October 2008: i think the ogriginal poster of this question has posted another question..as an anonymous male..
so here is my answer to his recent question.. i don't know if they are expensive..but you have to do it in all cases.it would be better then bieng stuc... (read in full...)
Did I just make the biggest mistake of my life?
Q. Did I just make the biggest mistake of my life? I got married to a woman I havn't even known for 3 months. I should have thought it through more because this is horrible now. I didnt realize all that came with being married. She is even 6 years ...
A. 1 October 2008: get a divorce..i don't think that you have to spend the rest of your life like this.. you deserve to be happy.. so get it done as fast as you can!maybe you can help her after you get the divorce.... good luck.. and please keep us updatedXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
Am I too young for sex?
Q. hi im 13 and want to lose my virginty.im i too young? what will i feel like after the sex? and worst of all i want to do it with my cousin whos the same age as me. i've like him sence i was 2 and i think he likes me back.what do i do.how do i get my ...
A. 28 September 2008: i think you already know the answer...so don't do i please!
take careXXX... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to date an 18 year old guy? I'm 14.
Q. Ok so is it so wrong for a 14 year old girl who loves a 18 year old man be such a bad thing? I feel in love with a man named Daniel and he feel in love with me to, but my mom found out we were together and called him to "talk" to him. Now I am band ...
A. 28 September 2008: your mom only wants what is best for you,and she might not understand that you love him, and you don't know what might be going on inside his head..that is why she's trying to keep you away from him..4 years difference isn't that bad..but in this ... (read in full...)
We like the same boy, but now she's getting competitive. Who do I choose?
Q. Ok so there is this guy that me and one of my other frends like. We both dont know if he likes one of us but we dont wont to ask him cuz we dont wont to hurt the others feelings. I flirt with him when i can but im always worrying about if she sees ...
A. 28 September 2008: if it came to me and i was in the same situation (been there)i would never risk a friendship for just a guy..guys come and go,and he might be a player..but friends last a lifetime..anyways i told you my thoughts but it is your choice now..... (read in full...)
She might be cheating, should I confront her or not?
Q. me and my girl have been dateing for 2 years now but people keep telling me she is cheating on me and she gos to college so she nevver has time for me i dont know if i should belleve them and brake up with her or to just dropp it what should i do ...
A. 28 September 2008: first of all in many relationships people tend to like breaking couples apart..so you can't beleive everything you've been told!you have to see for yourself if she's cheating and not blame her about something she might've not done..talk to her.. ... (read in full...)
I gave him my heart, my virginity, my dignity, my everything! He took it and left! Will I ever get over him?
Q. We're both 18 and after nearly two years, we're over. I gave him my heart, my virginity, my dignity, my everything! He took it and left! I have no idea what I'm going to do without him! I based my whole life plan on him! I was in love with him, ...
A. 28 September 2008: breaking up with your first love is always the hardest..day after day you'll learn how to live without him..but you will never forget him because hr's your first love..but soon you'll be feeling better (at least that is what i still tell myself ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering what walks of life the aunts and uncles come from?
Q. Dear posters, I think its wonderful to have people from different walks of life, to be able to come here and look at others situations with a different set of eyes. its great! On to my question, I was left wondering what each and every one of you...
A. 25 September 2008: first year in university studying phsycology,and terms of religion,, planing on getting a degree in medical school to work in the red cross,have my own band( lead vocalist+ guitatist)love going out on biking road trips,love adventures,decided ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months yet he doesn't agree to change his relationship status to committed on his online profiles!
Q. Please tell me if you think I'm being paranoid. My boyfriend snapped at me becuase he said someone changed his profile on some bebo thing to show that he's in a realtionship so when I said does it really matter he said yes it does because someone ...
A. 25 September 2008: there is something very weird about this.. and he is hiding something..put that you're single on facebook same thing he does..and try finding someone else...cause i think he is doing the same thing..
take care honey XXXXand good luck... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months yet he doesn't agree to change his relationship status to committed on his online profiles!
Q. Please tell me if you think I'm being paranoid. My boyfriend snapped at me becuase he said someone changed his profile on some bebo thing to show that he's in a realtionship so when I said does it really matter he said yes it does because someone ...
A. 25 September 2008: it is odd..trying to keep his options open or maybe there is another girl that he likes and he doesn't want her to find out he he is in a relationship,so be careful..do you go out in social with him? meet his friends?... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend and confesses, he wants me to think of a solution. His is to get even!...
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend the other day, i told him what happened, now he wants me to think of a solution, but i don't have one, and his solution is to do the same thing to me, to make it even. what should i do?...
A. 24 September 2008: i don't think that if he got even with you is the answer. and i know that it will ruin things..
and if he loves you i don't think that he would do it!
if i were you my soluton would be:tell him you're sorry and show him that you mean it,and p... (read in full...)
Am I just causing myself a headache to believe in the stars?
Q. Oh, this is kinda like an astrology question. I'm a Virgo and my boyfriend is Libra. I've had a lot of readings everywhere and people saying that the two are not a match made in heaven. But what me and my boyfriend have seems to be totally real and ...
A. 22 September 2008: well i am a libra and i've dated two guys who have the virgo sign and it ended differently..don't read too much into it cause it might damage your relationship.for me i don't beleive in signs but sometimes i read about it in magazines just for fun.. ... (read in full...)
I'm embarrassed to wear braces. I need some honest opinions!
Q. i cant smile because i have teeth missing and out of place. Getting treatment but will take at least 2years. I feel so gutted because realistically how many girls want to date or even be seen with a guy who still wears braces when his aged 18! Come ...
A. 22 September 2008: i have braces on too.. it's not the big of a deal..i 2 years and i will have the smile that i've always dreamt about..for some people it's really a turn off. but guess what i'm dating the cutest guy..and i have guys chasing after me..and the most ... (read in full...)
He wants me to have his baby, how can I postpone this?
Q. ive been seeing an older guy for 4 weeks now.(26) im (15) and i generally feel like ive fallen for him big time. we see each other once a week as he lives too far away so he cant afford paying 50 pounds everyday just to see me. i met him for the...
A. 21 September 2008: oh dear! please think about what you're saying! he is a teacher.. what if he's doing what he's doing to you with others..
and even if he ment no harm he is too old..and this is illegal!please listen to us we're trying to help you.. and show you how ... (read in full...)
Why do girls keep running back to the guy they know hurt them most?
Q. why do girls keep running back to the guy they know hurt them most? what the hell is it?? i was once a strong girl who never thought to do that...but once i opened up my heart to someone, they basically threw it back in my face and even though after ...
A. 21 September 2008: everyone wants what they can't get..and regret follows everyone.. especialy if the girl was in love with the guy.. she would always think about what might have been...what if i've done this or what if i done that..
well they still have feelings for ... (read in full...)
They say time heals but how long will it take to get over my break up?
Q. how do you get over a guy? its been a month and i was doing fine then all of a sudden i start missing him and start thinking about him even though i know that we could never work because we're just too different and he doesnt match my needs. I cant ...
A. 21 September 2008: it's very hard to forget somone you love.. for me it's been a year and 2 months and i still can't forget him.. but what can we do life goes on and you have to get used to the idea that you two are no longer together..
and who knows maybe one day ... (read in full...)
I talked to him 2 years online before meeting up, and I was surprised at his inappropriate behaviour when we met! What do you think?
Q. I met up with a guy i met online, i had talked to him for about two years. yesterday me n my friend went on train to leeds to meet him. at first he seemed really nice just like online, then we went to the cinemas n he started stroking my leg ...
A. 21 September 2008: stay away from him..
not everyone you meet online is trust worthy many people lie.. and he might be dangerous.. be careful i think we all know what he wanted to do in these 5 mins.. please stay away from him for your own safety.. take care... (read in full...)
He wants me to have his baby, how can I postpone this?
Q. ive been seeing an older guy for 4 weeks now.(26) im (15) and i generally feel like ive fallen for him big time. we see each other once a week as he lives too far away so he cant afford paying 50 pounds everyday just to see me. i met him for the...
A. 21 September 2008: i agree with uncle phil, he just wants to have sex with you. and he doesn't love he's just saying that to get in your pants. so stop this right now, cause you will regret it later, and stick with someone your own age.. and as uncle phil said you ... (read in full...)
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