Seeing a guy at work - am I wasting my time?
Q. I am seeing a guy i work with and its been going on for about 3 months i stay at his place, and he comes to mine but what I hate is when he comes to mine he doesnt stay the night because its just sex so i feel used. But when i go to his place he ...
A. 16 April 2013: It sounds like apart from the sex you guys do nothing outside work. At the moment you only see each other in the office. Try on your days off starting to do some couple type activities like walks, meals, cinema, tennis, whatever. If you start doing ... (read in full...)
Any tips for dating single fathers?
Q. Hi. I've started dating an older single dad; I'm 25 and he's 35. He's got 3 kids and they seem to like me so far, and they're great kids. Just really want to know if anyone has any tips for dating single dads. I really do like him and do want thi...
A. 26 March 2013: yea they're all under 10. they're lovely kids and think they suspect I'm more than just a friend of dad's. Thanks for the tips. Wonder if any of the girlfriends of single dads leave comments. great to hear a side of the children too. Thanks hun x... (read in full...)
Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 6 July 2012: It's possible. I guess. But don't see how that would benefit him. I only chat to him on facebook these days.... (read in full...)
Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 6 July 2012: This is his first girlfriend (and yes I do think it's worse what she did) He didn't tell me this - like he would! I found out from my mate. What bloke do you know would tell a practical stranger that his girlfriend has done the dirty on him seve... (read in full...)
Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 5 July 2012: Thank you BondGirl and anonymous x
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Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 5 July 2012: Who says I'm sleeping with him????? As much as you are all judging me I would never sleep with a man while he had a gf. Not like that! It was just a coffee date to test water.
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Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 5 July 2012: Ok more info.
The girlfriend in question is very dominating; made him delete facebook and limits friends to guys. She also sleeps around.
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Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 4 July 2012: Its a guy mate actually
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Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?
Q. Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky ac...
A. 4 July 2012: Why would my mate set me up with him then?
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UK help for northerners?
Q. Hi. Moved to London about a year ago and realising that Southerners don't get my northern communication skills. Was wondering whether there is some sort of networking site for northerners to meet each other in the city. This would really help me b...
A. 18 June 2011: Thank you caringguy. I'll give it a try. X... (read in full...)
Trouble having sex...any help??
Q. me and a guy I've been seeing decided to try and have sex last night. he got as far as putting the tip inside but I couldn't handle the pain of any more going in. we're going to try again another night, and I don't want to disapoint him. is there...
A. 19 December 2010: Thanks girls, he did finger me a lot, and by the end, I was comfortable with 2 fingers up there, but he didn't want to rush me into anything after the first try. I'm seeing him tomorrow.
It was a shame really- I did want him so badly.
Can't bel... (read in full...)
Is it normal for shorter girls to feel this way?
Q. I'm just under 5 foot, 18 years old and a bit curvier... I've never had a boyfriend despite being quite outgoing and flirty. I'm not desperate just concerned that because of my height guys just look at me as a cute little sister or a friend. Don't ...
A. 21 October 2010: Hi, I'm 5'5" tall and alwys thought my height was an issue with blokes along with other things, but I've recently found out I was living in the wrong city.
Don't think guys are too bothered by height; it's confidence that matters most. We shor... (read in full...)
We want to have fun but should I tell him I'm a virgin?
Q. heya, I've been chatting to an old friend recently and found out that we've had sexual feelings about each other for quite a while now. We've agreed that when he comes to visit me we'll have some fun. The only thing is I havn't told him I'm a virgin...
A. 20 October 2010: Just told him. Thank God! He's ok with it. Thank you guys x... (read in full...)
We want to have fun but should I tell him I'm a virgin?
Q. heya, I've been chatting to an old friend recently and found out that we've had sexual feelings about each other for quite a while now. We've agreed that when he comes to visit me we'll have some fun. The only thing is I havn't told him I'm a virgin...
A. 20 October 2010: I don't think I'm doing this for the wrong reason- not once have I mentioned that I'm sick of being a virgin. I want to do this for reasons that make sense to me.
Thanks for the advise Ven and trancedrhythmear. I will tell him.
Besides me and him ... (read in full...)
Subtle flirtation tips needed!
Q. Hi I need some subtle flirtation tips to use tonight on this guy I've fancied for about a month. There is a chance he likes me too but I'm not sure. I'm going out with a group of friends 2nite and he's one of them. Please help!...
A. 10 October 2010: Thanks- this advise helped but I think at the moment we're just friends. I'll try again another time ... (read in full...)
Do I fancy my teacher? Does he fancy me? What should I do?
Q. Hi, I am new to this site but I was wondering if you could answer my question. I have this science teacher let's call him luke. Luke has been my science teacher for 3-4 years now (by the way I'm in secondary school.) He has been my favourite tea...
A. 27 March 2010: Hi,
teachers are forbidden to date their students. So it will never happen. Try and find a nice guy at school. He will get in loads of trouble if he did start a relationship with you.... (read in full...)
I have poor body image
Q. So I'm very self consiious of my body (can't even spell it ) and I really want to have sex with my boyfriend. I must admit my vagina is what is the issue seeing as it looks like it could talk to you. Lol I hate it but I keep comeing so close to him ...
A. 27 March 2010: If he really likes you that won't bother him. You just have to keep in mind that he likes you and wants to sleep with you.
Vaginas aren't meant to look pretty. Think all of us would want things to be different up there lol.
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Wondering if he likes me..should I hold back and be patient or ask him?
Q. I don't get to understand this guy! Once he said he likes me and feels possessive about me! And then he used to msg and call regularly! But now i don't know what is happening! I feel i'm the only crazy one to be liking him! I feel embarrassed ...
A. 27 March 2010: Why don't you ask him out?
Sounds like he's just being a guy talking to other girls. All men flirt- think it's part of their make-up.
If you're like me and don't feel confident asking him out- I'd stick with giving him time. But just to warn you... (read in full...)
Should I bring it up again? I told him I liked him but no response.
Q. anyway about a month ago i told this guy in one of my classes i have a crush on him.he never answered me he just walked away. he still talks to me and all but i dont know if i should bring up what i said and if i do so how. should i live it alone ...
A. 19 December 2009: Dont bring it up again and i know its no good now but you shudnt have said u had a crush. You should hav asked him out. Give him time to think it through and he might ask you out. Hope it works out hun x... (read in full...)
I just want to be friend, but I think she might fancy me
Q. Ok so im just a little bit confused as of lately.... i know a girl, have known her for a couple years casually. U know not close friends or anything.. well last week we got to talking and exchanged numbers, Now i know she has a bf and while sh...
A. 19 December 2009: I would wait for her current relationship to end first, for now just be her friend. That will be a good move for both of you.... (read in full...)
He's found out I like him and has gone strange around me... HELP!
Q. Hi. Just wondering what other people thought; am I wasting my time waiting for this guy to ask me out. We have been close friends since September and I always got the impression he liked me back so my feelings grewbut I kept them to myself until la...
A. 18 December 2009: I got a hug. First for evrything... (read in full...)
He's found out I like him and has gone strange around me... HELP!
Q. Hi. Just wondering what other people thought; am I wasting my time waiting for this guy to ask me out. We have been close friends since September and I always got the impression he liked me back so my feelings grewbut I kept them to myself until la...
A. 17 December 2009: Thanks, I'll give those a try.
We're all going out tomorrow night, so you never know. I'll post a result on here tomorrow.... (read in full...)
He's found out I like him and has gone strange around me... HELP!
Q. Hi. Just wondering what other people thought; am I wasting my time waiting for this guy to ask me out. We have been close friends since September and I always got the impression he liked me back so my feelings grewbut I kept them to myself until la...
A. 16 December 2009: We're already past that. Any ideas for close friends?
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He's found out I like him and has gone strange around me... HELP!
Q. Hi. Just wondering what other people thought; am I wasting my time waiting for this guy to ask me out. We have been close friends since September and I always got the impression he liked me back so my feelings grewbut I kept them to myself until la...
A. 16 December 2009: and how would i hint tohim that i like him?... (read in full...)
Where do I begin with dating/socialising?
Q. Hi! I've recently become very interested in girls. I'm going out a lot more now in the hope that something might happen, or I might meet someone. But i'm not sure where to go now. Is my urge for sex wrong? Looking on a possible opportunity in the f...
A. 15 December 2009: There's nothing wrong with you. If you find a girl you're interested in, wait till she's alone then start chatting to her. If she's interested you'll find out within a minute or so.... (read in full...)
He's found out I like him and has gone strange around me... HELP!
Q. Hi. Just wondering what other people thought; am I wasting my time waiting for this guy to ask me out. We have been close friends since September and I always got the impression he liked me back so my feelings grewbut I kept them to myself until la...
A. 15 December 2009: oh and i should note- he still doesn't have a clue about my feelings!... (read in full...)
He's found out I like him and has gone strange around me... HELP!
Q. Hi. Just wondering what other people thought; am I wasting my time waiting for this guy to ask me out. We have been close friends since September and I always got the impression he liked me back so my feelings grewbut I kept them to myself until la...
A. 15 December 2009: so you really think that I should wait for him?
and yeah, I really like him, we hang out all the time; and the silent treatment has now ended, but we are still just friends. I don't want to wait forever, but I'll wait a while for him.
and from wha... (read in full...)
21 and still a virgin, but lead a busy life! What can I do?
Q. well,i dont know from where to start.im 21years old and im still a virgin.sometimes is quite embarrassing for me.i dont know but in any relationship i have failed..this is giving me a some depression.i mean,i wanted to to with somebody spe...
A. 15 November 2009: Im also 21 and a virgin- nothing to be ashamed about. In fact my love life has only just started to kick into gear. Just concentrate with uni, then u can find miss right. Good luck x... (read in full...)
My best friend is dating my ex who I still love... what should I do?
Q. I want to know what to do... my friend well "best friend" and i have been bickering back and forth for a while now over dumb things.... lately the reasons we've been fighting because every time i just break up with a guy she goes and asks him out ...
A. 5 November 2009: This girl is NOT your friend! She is taking advantage of your good nature to get what u want! Cut ties with her now. Sounds like this girl warning you is the better mate.... (read in full...)
My first cousin got me pregnant!
Q. I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more...
A. 5 November 2009: I completely agree with Drew's Girl. Come on! Quit attacking other people's advise and the UK!
I want to ask one thing to the question asker; are you a single mother. If so there shouldn't be a problem if you choose to keep the paternity from the ... (read in full...)
I'm depressed after my abortion.
Q. im 14 and i had an abortion in February, and know im depressed and want a baby. what do i do? please help me. i have never been this depressed in my life before please please help me ...
A. 5 November 2009: Ok, before we adress the issue of depression; you are 14 sweetheart and shouldn't even be thinking about having children. I've only just started and I'm 21 but know I'm a long way off having them.
Depression can happen after abortion. It's quit... (read in full...)
Mistreated sexually in a shop! What should I have done?
Q. I went to a shop the other week somewhere in Northwest England (not saying where), was looking at buying some new electronics for my husband, and asked a saleswoman for advice. She then asked me to come over to her desk, to discuss it, which I did, ...
A. 1 November 2009: Tell the store manager. This sales colleague should not have done this! You wont be the only person she has done this to. If it turns out she is a manager, contact head office. The number may be on the website if not i will try and get it for you. ... (read in full...)
How can I focus on being just friends when he's all I want in the world?
Q. I feel like ive recked my life. Im not to sure what to do or where to start. The love of my life happens to be a friend. We met through being on the same course, i thought he liked me(i wont go into detail with the reasons let just say it was ...
A. 21 October 2009: Have you thought about asking him out? I'm probably a hypocryt here but it's no good saying you love him to yourself. Oh and I'd keep that knowledge to yourself for now- just ask him out and see how it goes from there.... (read in full...)
What is going through his head?
Q. I met a guy at the beginning of the year at a college group who has stared ever since we saw each other. I am talking more than a few seconds. It's like 5 minutes whether I return it or not. One time he stopped in the middle of the kitchen when we ...
A. 17 October 2009: Sounds a bit creepy actually. If he likes you he will say but from what you say he sounds a bit odd... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a relationship but I want to know if he likes me!
Q. Erm... what are the signs of a guy liking you who right now doesnt want a relationship and wants to be single? The reason i say this is this guy in my class seemed to really like me, the way he looked at me, the tensionn between us and everythin...
A. 17 October 2009: hmmm. bet you wouldn't believe me if I said I'm in the exact same situation with a guy at university? it sounds here that at least you have an ally who wants to get you guys together. just go with the flow and see what happens. maybe if she's tr... (read in full...)
What do my dreams mean? Is it guilt?
Q. i recently graduated from hs. there was this girl who ws infatuated with me since 8th grade except i didn`t know her as well. we had classes together she was shy. one day she told me her feelings but i didn`t respond it caught me off guard. i guess ...
A. 6 October 2009: maybe you're scared of her. sounds like this girl is a bit stalkerish. not my best advise. I just got this impression from your description.... (read in full...)
Has anyone tried Eharmony and does it work?
Q. Just wondering? Has anyone tried Eharmony? Does it work? Or are they just a bunch of guys looking to get laid like plentyoffish?...
A. 30 September 2009: I used it for a 90day free trial. It may have worked but I prefer meeting ppl the normal 3D way... (read in full...)
Am I too fat to attract a boyfriend?
Q. Am I Fat To Have a borfreind? 15 years...60 kg....152 cm .....
A. 29 September 2009: I'm 80.5 kg. You are not fat and neither am I. Boys don't care about that stuff to be- the nice ones anyway. I thought the same as you for years but now i'm getting noticed for my personality. So forget about your weight and concentrate on the ... (read in full...)
He always threatens to break my face and I cry. What can I do?
Q. hi my name is piya(24)dating(28)for the past 1.5 years.we love each other a lot and he promised me to marry me.but for the past few months are relationship has turned completely sour.we love each other like mad and cant do without each other.hes got ...
A. 29 September 2009: I have one bit of advise. Run. He is not changing- don't make excuses for him!... (read in full...)
What makes a man lose his hard-on during sex?
Q. What makes a man lose his hard on during sex?...
A. 29 September 2009: I wouldn't mention another bloke's name. Guarenteed mojo stopper apparently... (read in full...)
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