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... Send *ngel-kate a private message | | | *ngel-kate's profile: well im only 15, but i have had a lot of bad experiences in my short life!
when i was little parents spilt, then when i was 7 my brother comitted suicide. at the age of 12 i feel pregnant and although the baby messed up my life, i love her to bits! shes called maria & shes in my picture!
i have just finished a junior course so im now a peer counceller @ my school, which i love doing, because i like to help people with any problem they have!
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Does he like me, or is it just him being friendly?
Q. A guy I recently met through a friend is a super nice and caring guy. I spent a weekend out at the lake with a group of friends, he was there. I live pretty far away, so I don't get to see them often. When I got home I wanted to write him a note ...
A. 30 July 2007: you could ask your friends who were there with you, what they think. maybe he is a naturally nice person, but i think he took a liking to you!
like i said, ask your friends what they think, they proberly know him better then you do.
good lu... (read in full...)
Do you think i should still have sex wit him?
Q. I'm only 14 and i have had sex wit ma bf and he is 15. i feel comfortable and all that but i don't think i should be doin this. Do you think i should still have sex wit him? He doesn't care if we don't but i don't want to make him unhappy....
A. 30 July 2007: you seem to be very unsure about sex, so i think you shouldnt. its good to hear your boyfriend is pushing you and making you do somehting you dont want to do, he must really care about you!
:)
after all, you shouldnt have sex just to make him... (read in full...)
Should we let our age difference get in the way?
Q. She is 21 and in college and I am 18 and finishing up high school, we are both interested in each other but we are both concerned about how the age differance will play into our relationship, should we let that matter so much?...
A. 30 July 2007: i personally dont think 18 and 21 is that big a age gap, i think it would be fine you guy went out. if you dont feel comfortable you could just stay friends! 3 years is nothing to worry about, you hear of people with about 30yrs between them or ... (read in full...)
I need date ideas! Where are some cool places I can take my girlfriend?
Q. I've been trying to find some new places to take, and new things to do with my girlfriend. She's not much of an outdoorsy person, as I found out. We usually spend all of our time at her house, watching movies. Which is great in one respect, because ...
A. 30 July 2007: what about go-karting? its active and also gets your talking - well should! ice-skating is also great, she may need help which means holding hands and if you fall over its funny and gets you talking! ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong in stopping my kids seeing their dad who has a drink and drugs problem?
Q. I seperated from my partner and father of my three children 14 months ago life has been pretty hard as when we first seperated i found out that i was pregnant with my third child he gave me no support during this time. A week after i gave birth he ...
A. 29 July 2007: i think you have done the right ny stopping him see the childern untill he sorts himself out. you dont want the childern growing up thinking its ok to do drugs just because their father is.
hes not being a very good role model is he?!... (read in full...)
Do I tell the wife?
Q. I became involved with a man about 3 years ago, who is married, though I didn't know it at the time. Once I found out I ended it immediately but I'm ashamed to admit I went back to him, as I had fallen hard. He said all the usual things, he wante...
A. 29 July 2007: remember that sayin.. the truth hurts!
his wife does need to know, esspecally because your not the first! but because he has childern its very hard to know if its the right thing to do, you dont want to ruin their life!
you should talk to h... (read in full...)
Am I wrong in stopping my kids seeing their dad who has a drink and drugs problem?
Q. I seperated from my partner and father of my three children 14 months ago life has been pretty hard as when we first seperated i found out that i was pregnant with my third child he gave me no support during this time. A week after i gave birth he ...
A. 29 July 2007: i think you made a brave and wise desision to stop your childern seeing him. he is setting them a very bad example! you dont want you childern growing up thinking its ok to take drugs, just because their father is!
if your childern ask to see thei... (read in full...)
Mum won't let me go round his house, because she thinks we're going to have sex.
Q. what to do when your mom don't let you go to your boyfriends house because she thinks that ya'll are gonna have s.e.x ...
A. 29 July 2007: i would sit down with your mum and ask her why she thinks this, she may have a very good reason. you didnt really say if you were planning on having sex or not. if you are then explain to your mum you would do it saftly with a condom or on the pill. ... (read in full...)
Quickest ways of losing weight.
Q. whats the quickest way to lose weight? im 14, size 12 and weigh 11 stone and i hate the way my body looks. everyone around me and most of my friends are thinner than me and i hate being the big one. ive tried loads of diets but none of them see...
A. 29 July 2007: you are proberly just going through puppy fat, (you body gains fat and then develops hips and boobs.) after about a year puppy fat does disapper, it dosent stay forever! i dont think you should diet at just 14, iys not good for you because your... (read in full...)
Getting over someone who does not love you back.
Q. hey guys i was wondering if u could give me any tips on dealing with or getting over loving someone who u know doesnt love u back, im finding it so hard...
A. 29 July 2007: everyone has to find their own way of dealing with this kind of stuff. what i do is concentrate on having a good time with my friends and family. my mate's way of dealing with it is goin on holiday fro a week or two and trys to find a holiday ... (read in full...)
A male teacher texts flirts with me loads since he found out I fancy him! what can i do?
Q. a male teacher texts flirts with me loads since he found out i fancy him! what can i do?...
A. 29 July 2007: thankyou for the advise! everyone is saying i should tell my head teacher, but i dont want him to get into trouble.. what can i do? i cnt tell the head teacher till september! thast over a month away!... (read in full...)
A male teacher texts flirts with me loads since he found out I fancy him! what can i do?
Q. a male teacher texts flirts with me loads since he found out i fancy him! what can i do?...
A. 29 July 2007: thankyou for the advise! everyone is saying i should tell my head teacher, but i dont want him to get into trouble.. what can i do? i have to wait till september to do that!... (read in full...)
Pregnant, stressed and scared I'm pushing him away!
Q. im pregnant and an emotional wreck, i think things that i shouldnt. i dont know whats wrong. my husband is so supportive and kind to me but i snap on him and yell at him for no reason. i cry on everything but im not depressed. i think he is yelling ...
A. 29 July 2007: its just female hormones, you should sit him down and explain that he is very surportive and helpful, but its just your hormones making you snap at him. maybe you should show him your e-mail/letter, that will explain it all to him. most wom... (read in full...)
Never had sex but my period is late, why?
Q. Hello, Im 15 Iv Never Had Sex Of Any Kind, But My Period Is Late.. Im Always Regular And Come On Ever Month Which Is Why Im Abit Worried.. The Thing Is I Cant Remember When I Was Due On But I Know I Am Late.. What Can This Be?? Im Abit Worrie...
A. 29 July 2007: this isn't anyhting to be worried about. many girls got through a stage of unregular periods, if you get really worried you can always go and see a female doctor, just to put your mind at peace.... (read in full...)
Want to lose weight by not eating.
Q. Ok well i'm 14 and i want to loose weight as im 9 stone which is like pretty bad for my age i'm fat really..i wanna loose weight by not eatin..but i wanna know what will happen to my boobs? will they shrink?? please answer thanks xxx...
A. 29 July 2007: i can unded why you feel fat, most of my mates are like 7stone! but at 13-16 girls trun into younge women and develop curves - which boys love, by the way - and g through puppy fat! be proud of who you are and dont let it get you down. your frien... (read in full...)
12 and been having sex with a married man. What should I do?
Q. hi i am 12 years old ands I live in wisconsin. I've been having sex with this guy (i baby sit for) he does not use condums when we doit he says hes alergic to them. I dont know what to do but i think i am pregnant. for the last 3 months he has not ...
A. 29 July 2007: this man is married and by the sounds of it after one thing...sex! so stay away and baby sit for someone who will respect you, not trying to use you! it also sounds a bit fishy that hes allergic to condoms, bt that doesnt mean you cant take the pi... (read in full...)
I'm 14, 8 months pregnant, the father of this baby has left me! So many problems..I need advice badly!
Q. Hey, so im 14 8 months pregnant and for the first time im doubting if i want this baby, my ex who i was with for a year and 6months well he left me, spread lies about me denied he was the dad then refuses to speak to me, hes making it so hard, ha...
A. 29 July 2007: i know exatly what your going throught, exate same happened to me. but it shows you who your real friends are and as for your bf, not much better then mine , by the sound of it! but women are strong and with the help of your family you can do this, ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and dating my 25 year old teacher
Q. Hi. my names lindsay and im going out with a 25 year old. im only 14... but i love him and he loves me...what do u think? but if anyone finds out like in my school he could like lose everything cause hes a teacher...what do u think?...
A. 29 July 2007: i hate to tell you this as you both love eachother, but what a teenage girl wants and want a 25 yr old man wants is to completely different things! 9yrs is a very very big age gap when so young. my advise is to split up before anything happens. what ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I still haven't had sex. She's never in the mood!
Q. Hi there. I've been with my girlfriend for about 1 year and 2 months. We still havent had sex, we're both 18. She isn't "in the mood" very often and we always stop half way through foreplay because she isn't in the right frame of mind or she g...
A. 28 July 2007: why dont u get some candels light them around the room, play some calmin music & see if that helps to get her in the mood.
rememebr life isnt all about sex!... (read in full...)
I'm really under weight. I'm scared, but I won't eat.
Q. im really under wieght i come in about 6 stone maxium i dont fit in to anything im below a size 0 in the uk im scared but i wont eat...what should i do?...
A. 28 July 2007: i would go see a doctor, my friend did that & they gave her vitamin tablets so her body still got the stuff it needs... (read in full...)
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