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i am Spl-ash!
Recently single that how i found out about agony aunts.. am studdying CCNA and in part time employment at Primark of all places!!! (just till i break through the IT industry!! yeah here i come u computer geniuses!! am the best and am getting better!!).. live in essex..
Am a pleasant, easy going person... a bit sarcastic and funny...or so i like to think!! lol!
i have a past like every body else.. i have issues.. i've been hurt.. i've been happy n i even hurt people around me... i may have answers to ur question but one thing about me n y practically all my mates r friends with me is i listen n i advice... good or bad.. it's here and comes from the heart... |
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How do I turn down one guy for another without hurting his feelings??
Q. Well i am in a bit of a mess. I was seeing this boy Sean we had half a dozen dates and latly we started to have sex. He is damn good. He wants it to be more asked me to be his proper girlfriend a few times and i keep saying am not sure yet i ne...
A. 9 December 2007: well i had a tough time thinking about it... i am just going on casual dates with both, they do not know about each other.
I made it clear i am still single and i am sleeping with none of them.
So i just feel i need a bit of time to figure out what... (read in full...)
My friend puts down my looks. How do I get her to stop?
Q. My best friend is constantly putting me down, about my looks. She's quite short, about a size 14 and hasn't been kissed in about 3 years. I'm going to sound big headed here. But I'm 5'7'', size 8/10, and although i'm single i have a couple of inte...
A. 14 June 2007: am gonna sound mean but either you ask her what's wrong with her since you are friends and all or you start giving her a taste of her own medicine... she is just taking her non acceptance of herself out on you... it's goona be worst when you have a ... (read in full...)
Would it hurt to lose my virginity when I'm drunk?
Q. I'm almost 17 and am ready to have sex. I'm going to be honest, I'm gorgeous and a party girl - so boys date me under the impression we'll have sex. Of course once they find out I'm a virgin they run. If I have never done anything beyond making out ...
A. 14 June 2007: i would suggest you so not do it while you are drunk, have a drink to relax but do not over do it...
the first time is one you gonna remember and one you will want to remember....
make it special, not an experience... i learned from my mistake.... (read in full...)
Is she just being friendly or does she like me??
Q. A girl a year younger than me added me on msn and started talkin to me. She goes to my school. The next day for the first time we made eye contact and smiled. she smiled and was kinda shy which made her look even more cute! Anyway i than didn't g...
A. 14 June 2007: Agree with flower girl....
go for it!!
good luck!
X X X
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I have somewhat recently started having feeling for a fairly good friend.
Q. I have somewhat recently started having feeling for a fairly good friend. I have known her for about a year through our church group. I would really like to go out with her, but I also don't want to hurt our friendship. The real problem however, ...
A. 13 June 2007: If she is already with someone i reckon you should not tell her. if you really want to wait till she gets out of her relationship. if you tell her now you'll be giving her a choice to choose her boyfrien or you.
Getting into a relationship with... (read in full...)
I am in a relationship that my family is not OK with. How can I stay on good terms with my family, but not have to leave my boyfriend?
Q. I am in a relationship that my family is not OK with. How can I stay on good terms with my family, but not have to leave my boyfriend? A few years ago I moved to the USA, and I began a relationship with an illegal immigrant. We've been together fo...
A. 13 June 2007: HEY!!
sometimes you can't help being illegal...
i've known a few and their reasons, have you try explaining your family why he is illegal?
I broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago because of family pressure and now am regretting big time. i was ... (read in full...)
Self-conscious about being called fat
Q. Recently, when I was out in public i've been hearing people calling me fat. That makes me feel awful and ashamed of myself. Why are people so mean? Why do they do this? I am 5 feet 4, and 138 pounds. Is that considered as fat?nSince of this incident ...
A. 13 June 2007: That is just so mean!!!
To all the people who makes comments like that i say sod you!!
You take alook a 'their perfect figure' and think to yourself have they heard of the word 'mirror'? give a slight mocking smile to them and that will leave th... (read in full...)
Hooked up sex-wise with a guy on myspace... but it turns out he is married and has kids (his wife called me)!!!
Q. OKK, please dont label me as a homewrecker or a slut.. I recently got out of the army and i met this guy on myspace, i know pathetic, but he seemed really nice. In fact, he is better than nice, i think hes perfect(besides the whole cheating thing) ...
A. 13 June 2007: hey,
are you sure you 'love' him?
sex isn't everything it's part of a relationship not all of it.
He already lied to you about him and from what i know of men he probably is lying about wanting to leave his wife. to be fair he's got both of you.... (read in full...)
Should I get my boyfriend a gift for father's day (even though he isn't the daddy)... ?
Q. I don't know if I should get my boyfriend a gift for father's day. i know he isn't my father. but we just had our 1st baby 2 months ago, and he is a really good daddy to her. He also works and supports us. I just want to let him know he's ...
A. 13 June 2007: a card already sounds nice... how about a special dinner? what he really likes or a family outing... enjoy the sun... a picnic...
X X X... (read in full...)
Not sure how to approach this girl at Uni who I used to be close of, to tell her how I feel before summer!
Q. i'm a final year university student and have been very close friends with a girl on my course since my first year. when we first met we hit it off immeadiatly and had sex several times. at the time though neither of us wanted a relationship at the ...
A. 13 June 2007: Hi,
bet you did lots of thinking lately and pictured lots of senarios… one thing you are sure about is that you want to tell her how you feel, you probably left it a bit too late though.
How about you invite her round yours for a movie night? G... (read in full...)
I want my ex back but he doesn't answer my calls. Should I stop chasing him?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been in a long term relationship for about 5 years now and me and my ex have broke up 3 weeks ago I have tried to be back with him I have wrote him 3 times and even called him but he doesn't answer my phone calls and I neve...
A. 13 June 2007: Hi know how you feel, this probably won't help but i truly do as am going through something similar atm.... it is hard..
take care
X X X... (read in full...)
Is this RAPE???
Q. I dont know what to do about my boyfriend. A few nights ago when I came home from work, he asked to have sex but I was too tired. He seemed understanding so I just went to bed. I woke up during the night to find him thrusting his penis in and out ...
A. 11 June 2007: hey,
that sounds a bit bad... more like TAKE-A-SERIOUS-LOOK-BACK ON-YOUR-RELATIONSHIP kind of bad!
1.ARE YOU HAPPY?
2.DO U WANT TO CARRY ON?
3.IS HE LIKELY TO DO THAT AGAIN?
WHAT DO YOU WANT?
i would personnaly not take it. but the deci... (read in full...)
What body type do men like most on women?
Q. Hi there, this is just a general question. What body type do men like most on women? Is it true that curves are better in a man's eyes? ...
A. 11 June 2007: hey there!
u just getting worried about your body shape?
well i personnaly hold the flag up 4 girls who r confident about their look, b it size 0 to 26!
How about u focus on what u like about urself n flaunt it?
if it's ur legs show them! (i h... (read in full...)
Should i keep trying for him? Or should i just move on to another boy?
Q. Ok well me and this one guy went out for a few months, but broke up because i was an emotional wreck at the time and because of this and what other people were saying to him, we split. after i came back after 6 weeks of therepy stuff he started...
A. 11 June 2007: Hey there!
how about u leave him 4 a while, try to focus on something else in your life n c hoe it goes?
This guy seems quite unsure of himself atm, you probly need to let him sort his feelings out but so do u!
Make your mind up: do u want to be w... (read in full...)
Why is it that after a breakup the person who intiates the breakup always wants friendship and then when you offer it to them they do not want it
Q. I am a little confused right now and thank in advance anyone who takes the time out to answer my question. Why is it that after a breakup the person who intiates the breakup always wants friendship and then when you offer it to them they do not want ...
A. 11 June 2007: i know the feeling of uncertainty n expectation..
what i think is u r spending too much time thinking of him as it has ended. give urself time to move on. By asking him upfront a question he needs to answer by 'yes' or 'no' u are cornering him. guys... (read in full...)
Girlfriend told me a secret which I didn't keep "secret"... will I ever regain her trust and how!?
Q. I've done something I really regret and I don't know how to make it right. My girlfriend told me a secret that she never wanted repeating about her and her future housemate (a close friend of mine), but I managed to put my foot in it by mentioning ...
A. 11 June 2007: hi,
tough situation, i believe u meant no harm... how about u try and minimise the damages by trying to talk to ur close friend and your girlfriend(seperatly of course).
You could apologise n clear things out and maybe invite them two to talk thi... (read in full...)
I regret breaking up with him! But he doesn't want to be hurt again!
Q. i broke up with my boyfriend because of family pressure on my side. i regrt it and want to get back with him and making sure my family wont interfere anymore.but he says he loves me but won't get back together as he thinkd this will happen again. i ...
A. 11 June 2007: hi,
thanks 4 ur answer both. nice to have a man's point of view....
maybe am sure it was perfect 4 him cause he is so attentionate n caring. we go clubbing n have fun on saturday nights n sometimes we just stay home n do puzzles or monopoly... (read in full...)
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