I want a baby. I am 13
Q. Hi um I'm 13 about to be 14 . I want a baby so bad .because I don't have to worry about other pp not loving me cause my child will always be there for me and love me cause I will be there mommy. And I want to make sure my child does not go thru any ...
A. 6 June 2022: I get why you want a child, but it’s not going to fix your issues. Plus, unless you have a stable source of income and a roof over your head, you won’t be able to provide all its necessities, and that won’t be fair for the child.
I’d advise y... (read in full...)
Should I ask him to stop driving by?
Q. Met a seemingly nice, older man at my church [60s]. He offered to help me with some yard work. He never accepted pay for it, but would make comments like, "I have a lot of women friends and I love to help them." I kept getting the feeling he was ...
A. 4 June 2022: I’m not sure how safe it would be for you to tell him to stop driving by, it could actually create more issues. He could just be mentally ill, or he could be one of those horrible people who like to make people feel uncomfortable, and if he finds ... (read in full...)
We dated for 3 years live together and now he has confessed he is married and has a14 year old.
Q. I've been dating this guy for 3 years now. We met early in the year 3 years ago in a local bar, I was with friends. He told me he was a businessman, I got to meet some of his friends. I'd also been to his house a few times. There were a few ...
A. 4 June 2022: Definitely get out of this. Find somewhere closer to your family, let them know what’s going on. I know it will be really hard and it might seem embarrassing, but you need them right now. And they will understand. I mean, from what you said in your ... (read in full...)
I am wondering if my husband is gay
Q. Hello guys. Been married for 10 years now. Have a 4-year-old son. Recently found out my husband had bought gifts for another guy and I'm wondering if he's gay based on that alone. The gifts were ostentatious ones; some expensive shirts from a hi...
A. 4 June 2022: Okay, I understand thanking someone with a few gifts, or money. But this just seems a bit excessive! I’m not sure if he’s actually gay, or in a relationship with this guy, as there aren’t really enough signs to indicate that. But it is so strange ... (read in full...)
Think I can't deal with this anymore but I also feel like a bad person if I leave someone with depression.
Q. Hi everyone I'm just looking for advice. about 6 months ago I started dating a girl who is severely depressed. She takes medication so sometimes its not so bad. We get along well, although I feel like the connection isn't as deep as it c...
A. 4 June 2022: Her mental health is definitely not your responsibility. You can’t stay with someone just because they struggle with depression. Besides, this doesn’t even have that much to do with her depression, is the fact that she’s treating you like crap. She ... (read in full...)
How do I seduce my cute nerdy guy friend who has a secret hot bod?
Q. So I have a friend who is a guy who I have started to think about more romantically after I saw him wearing a spiderman costume which showed off his very cute muscles which I had never seen before. Side note he had the costume because he is a ...
A. 3 June 2022: Sorry, just a couple more things. Just because he had a Boehner, doesn’t mean that he wants to be seduced what is attractive romantically or sexually. You kissed him, he had a biological reaction. Sometimes people can’t control that. And are you ... (read in full...)
How do I seduce my cute nerdy guy friend who has a secret hot bod?
Q. So I have a friend who is a guy who I have started to think about more romantically after I saw him wearing a spiderman costume which showed off his very cute muscles which I had never seen before. Side note he had the costume because he is a ...
A. 3 June 2022: Man* not woman. Sorry!... (read in full...)
Husbands weird behavior has me questioning what is going on
Q. Hi. I am a mom to a 16-year-old daughter, soon to be 17 in a few weeks. But she's not the person I'm asking about. It's my husband. We decided to have a family day out, but it was also an opportunity to get my daughter some presents. Me an...
A. 3 June 2022: People slip up sometimes. I wouldn’t hold it against him just yet. He’s only ever done this once, you’ve said. So just try to see if he’s behaving differently in other ways. As for the present, can’t you just go back the next day and change the ... (read in full...)
What's the advantages and disadvantages of going back home?
Q. Hello there. Australian expat in Turkey. Both Australian expats. Well, technically, husband's Kiwi with dual citizenship but born in Australia if that makes any sense to you. He claims he's an "Kiwi Aussie". Husband feels quite depresse...
A. 3 June 2022: From what you’ve said in your post, it seems like you both want to go back. Your husband definitely does. But do you have any other reasons why you want to go back? Yes there’s the reason about your job, but are there any others? It’s about what you ... (read in full...)
What's the advantages and disadvantages of going back home?
Q. Hello there. Australian expat in Turkey. Both Australian expats. Well, technically, husband's Kiwi with dual citizenship but born in Australia if that makes any sense to you. He claims he's an "Kiwi Aussie". Husband feels quite depresse...
A. 3 June 2022: From what you’ve said in your post, it seems like you both want to go back. Your husband definitely does. But do you have any other reasons why you want to go back? Yes there’s the reason about your job, but are there any others? It’s about what you ... (read in full...)
I don't love my husband like I used to
Q. Hi! I posted on DC some time back... I actually posted twice and I got a lot of advice. This is my first post: ________________________ .... so i've been married for over 7 years and I must say I love my husband very much. We've had our u...
A. 2 June 2022: Yes, I remember your other posts.
Think your marriage has just died, honestly. Abd it’s not your fault, it’s because of the way he treated you. He may not have physically abused you, but he has emotionally. And as much as you can try to make it ... (read in full...)
I don't love my husband like I used to
Q. Hi! I posted on DC some time back... I actually posted twice and I got a lot of advice. This is my first post: ________________________ .... so i've been married for over 7 years and I must say I love my husband very much. We've had our u...
A. 2 June 2022: Yes, I remember your other posts.
Think your marriage has just died, honestly. Abd it’s not your fault, it’s because of the way he treated you. He may not have physically abused you, but he has emotionally. And as much as you can try to make it ... (read in full...)
I don't love my husband like I used to
Q. Hi! I posted on DC some time back... I actually posted twice and I got a lot of advice. This is my first post: ________________________ .... so i've been married for over 7 years and I must say I love my husband very much. We've had our u...
A. 2 June 2022: Yes, I remember your other posts.
Think your marriage has just died, honestly. Abd it’s not your fault, it’s because of the way he treated you. He may not have physically abused you, but he has emotionally. And as much as you can try to make it ... (read in full...)
Howcdo we deal? Sons ex girlfriend in china says her baby is his
Q. Hi there. Asking for advice on dealing with this situation. My son told me "Mom, I've got some bad news. No other way to tell you, this, but my ex-girlfriend says I'm the father of her young daughter." He's only 19, btw. He then logged into ...
A. 2 June 2022: I’m not very well educated on the laws in China and America regarding this type of situation. Maybe you should seek some advice from an attorney, or someone who knows more about immigration and child-support. I think the only thing right now that ... (read in full...)
Maybe she wants a penpal?
Q. I went to EDC a couple weekends ago with my brother and ended up chatting with a girl during a set, she's about 6-7 years younger than me. We hit it off and I got her Instagram so I could potentially send her a message at some point in the future. A ...
A. 2 June 2022: I think her telling you she has a boyfriend, whether she does or not, it’s just her way of shutting you down, and making sure you don’t get too attached. She probably only sees you as a bit of holiday fun, but now has to return back to reality. If ... (read in full...)
Maybe she wants a penpal?
Q. I went to EDC a couple weekends ago with my brother and ended up chatting with a girl during a set, she's about 6-7 years younger than me. We hit it off and I got her Instagram so I could potentially send her a message at some point in the future. A ...
A. 2 June 2022: I think her telling you she has a boyfriend, whether she does or not, it’s just her way of shutting you down, and making sure you don’t get too attached. She probably only sees you as a bit of holiday fun, but now has to return back to reality. If ... (read in full...)
How do I seduce my cute nerdy guy friend who has a secret hot bod?
Q. So I have a friend who is a guy who I have started to think about more romantically after I saw him wearing a spiderman costume which showed off his very cute muscles which I had never seen before. Side note he had the costume because he is a ...
A. 2 June 2022: I think you should make sure that you know what you want from him first. A steamy occasional bang, or a serious relationship? Yes, you say he is kind and could be a thoughtful boyfriend, but it just sounds really generic, and like an excuse to cover ... (read in full...)
Have been offered sex but feel guilty about the circumstances.
Q. An older girl I am very attracted to has told me she is going to have sex with me and end my virginity for me but I am feeling weird because she is not doing it because she likes me that way but as a reward for a good deed. I want to have sex with ...
A. 10 May 2022: I think you should tell her that you want to be with her and get to know her in a more serious way, not just sex. You don’t want any casual flings yet, not at your age, and especially not if it’s your first time. Get to know her a bit more. There’s ... (read in full...)
My husband complains about our 'hum drum' life
Q. Hi guys. I'm a newlywed, been married for eight weeks now, my wedding was a small but intimate one with 20 guests. The issue here is my new husband. I really love him, but he's possibly changing or changed in a way that he's questioning the ma...
A. 9 May 2022: So he basically just wants the easy honeymoon stage without commitment or effort. What was the point of him marrying you?
I agree with Honeypie. Tell him to move out, but if he does, it’s over between you both. It’s not fair on you and you shou... (read in full...)
could be the reality of things, if my sister continues down the path of dating a married man?"
Q. Last night, my sister, 26, came round to my house to tell me she had something important to say. She admitted to me she'd been dating this married man, who's 38, since last August, when lockdown measures ended here in the UK in July with "Freed...
A. 5 May 2022: I agree with everything the other readers have said. Also, He actually is hiding her. He’s taking her somewhere far away from where he lives and only two of his friends know about her. Telling all the waiters and waitresses that there an item isn’t ... (read in full...)
Is he rushing things or am I over reacting?
Q. Hello, I've met a man online about 1 year ago however things have been a bit more serious the last couple of months. He's very nice and respectful and we constantly video chat to create more intimacy. He seems interested in taking things to the n...
A. 5 May 2022: I think sharing the same room is a bit much considering you haven’t met before. I think you guys should go on some public dates first.... (read in full...)
Husband makes fun of me
Q. My husband makes fun of me when my dress get up my knees while doing chores etc. This upsets me because it only happens within our home not anywhere outside or when in front of others. I am usually very careful but sometimes it happens....
A. 4 May 2022: I think he’s just joking around with you and teasing you, I don’t think he’s trying to upset you. Obviously, he’s not going to see it when you’re out and about, because it’s not really appropriate. If it really is bothering you, you can just ask him ... (read in full...)
Is he curious because I am weird?
Q. Hi! So there is this guy that I like so much... he's charming, full of personality, and everyone likes him a lot. He's a dancing teacher and his students are all crazy for him. Unfortunately, I have a huge crush on him. I have always wanted to...
A. 4 May 2022: I think you should stop reading into everything and just go with the rhythm:-) I don’t think there are enough indications to suggest whether he likes you or is just looking out for his students. Just try to relax and focus on the dancing as that’... (read in full...)
Writing a love letter?
Q. My gf and I have been dating for two years. I want to write her a love letter but need help. What to say? I would like our relationship to be more intimate. Can I mention that in a love letter? ...
A. 1 May 2022: No, I wouldn’t bring that into your love letter, that just looks like an attempt to get into her panties. That conversation needs to be had in person. Sex is a big step, especially if it’s your first time?
With your love letter, just write ho... (read in full...)
Should we wait?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. Since a few days, we've been talking about having sex. We really want to do it, but I don't know how to have sex and I'm also scared of getting pregnant. My friends say different things – some say ...
A. 1 May 2022: If you have any doubts, I’m not sure if you’re ready. Although, I don’t know your situation fully. I think you should talk to a friend or a family member who knows your relationship a little better than we do.
With regards to pregnancy, cons... (read in full...)
Do I tell my friend about her brother's interest in porn?
Q. I am a 16 year old female. I borrowed a lap top from my best friend's younger brother. He is 13. He has had a crush on me forever. He would probably jump in a volcano if I said it would impress me. So I used the laptop and did my project,...
A. 28 April 2022: It’s not your business to tell anyone about his browsing history, or to scold him on what he can and can’t do.
Judging by your post, the only reason you want to tell her is because you like the drama and power. I definitely don’t think you are ... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my parents for the trauma they've caused me?
Q. For the last couple of months, my relationship with my parents has been awful. Let me start with the fact that I was raised in a very chaotic and abusive house, however, things have been more calm for the last couple of years but still, my mom does ...
A. 28 April 2022: Abusers need to make themselves feel good even if that is by claiming credit for their victims success which is what it sounds like your parents are doing to you. It’s wrong with them to be the way they are with you, they should not be manipulating ... (read in full...)
Is he beginning to change his mind?
Q. Hi everyone So, my boyfriend has always said that he wouldn’t ever want to get married to anyone. He says that he’s not really religious, and the idea of committing to someone in the eyes the government kind of scares him as it means you are fina...
A. 28 April 2022: HoneyPie
Yeah, definitely. I mean so far, it’s amazing. Both of our goals in terms of work are in the media field, we both want to end up cohabiting as soon as we’re ready, I’ll families love each other and I’ve never felt so appreciated the way ... (read in full...)
What’s the nicest way to tell our good friends that their daughter is turning into a little tart?
Q. Yesterday when my 13 year old son asked me to sort out an issue on his iPhone I decided to have a little snoop through his messages. It felt really sly at first but I’m glad I did because I found WhatsApp messages between him and the daughter of ...
A. 28 April 2022: It’s not really your place to say anything to her.
With regards to her family, maybe just make them aware of what happened, don’t be horrible about it, you can’t go around telling people their children are tarts. Just make them aware of the situ... (read in full...)
What’s the nicest way to tell our good friends that their daughter is turning into a little tart?
Q. Yesterday when my 13 year old son asked me to sort out an issue on his iPhone I decided to have a little snoop through his messages. It felt really sly at first but I’m glad I did because I found WhatsApp messages between him and the daughter of ...
A. 28 April 2022: It’s not really your place to say anything to her.
With regards to her family, maybe just make them aware of what happened, don’t be horrible about it, you can’t go around telling people their children are tarts. Just make them aware of the situ... (read in full...)
Family & Friends not supporting my baking business!
Q. When the pandemic hit - I like many others ended up having my hours at work cut drastically. I tried for months and months to get a full time job or another part time job to go alongside my existing job but with no luck. I have a mortgage and ...
A. 28 April 2022: You need to focus on targeting others rather than just friends and family. Create Facebook groups and pages, advertising your business.
As for friends and family, put your foot down. Remind them that you’re trying to run a business. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend and I broke up due to long distance. Did I dodge a bullet?
Q. My boyfriend (now ex) and I have been a couple for a couple of months, and have been dating for like a year and a half. (In person, I didn’t meet him online, I met him at uni) He went to an exchange program in February, and he isn’t returning ...
A. 28 April 2022: You’re not a priority, but prancing around with other women is…
Hmm…
Sounds like an immature douche to me.
Look, I get it. A lot of the time. “9’g distance relationships don’t work. But usually, both parties at least make an effort, wher... (read in full...)
Sex and kicking girlfriend to the curb
Q. I am 23 NY new girlfriend of about 6 months says the first time She seen my penis it was not erect at the time she was very disappointed I asked her if there was a problem she j7st said it's so small Real ego booster she said he ex h...
A. 26 April 2022: The problem is, you two are far from the same page. She seems confused and honestly quite immature, which is fine, considering her age. But it’s not very nice to criticize your penis size, and as we all know by now, size doesn’t really mean much. ... (read in full...)
Am I been taken for granted
Q. Hi there, I am hoping you guys can help me with something. I have been with my partner now for a few years now and we get on great. Last year, he got himself a dog and I genuinely love this dog a great deal myself. However, I can't help...
A. 26 April 2022: The fact that he chose to spend the time that was meant for you to talking to some other woman about her sex life even though he’d already left you about 15 hours at that point really really rubs me the wrong way. And like Kenny, i’m curious to know ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend does nothing but watch loud women on tv
Q. Hi there, I would like to know what others think about my problem. Firstly I would like to make it clear that in no way am I a jealous person but I do have my own morals and standards. I have been with my partner for about 10 months. In th...
A. 26 April 2022: There’s not really a nice way to end a relationship, but the best way is to be honest about it, and do it quickly, don’t drag it out. Don’t sit there and tell him all his flaws and that you find him boring and annoying and his habits frustrating, ... (read in full...)
Is he beginning to change his mind?
Q. Hi everyone So, my boyfriend has always said that he wouldn’t ever want to get married to anyone. He says that he’s not really religious, and the idea of committing to someone in the eyes the government kind of scares him as it means you are fina...
A. 25 April 2022: HoneyPie
Yeah, I get you. Yeah, it is pretty new to be fair, few months or so. We’ll see what happens, I suppose:) ... (read in full...)
Is he beginning to change his mind?
Q. Hi everyone So, my boyfriend has always said that he wouldn’t ever want to get married to anyone. He says that he’s not really religious, and the idea of committing to someone in the eyes the government kind of scares him as it means you are fina...
A. 24 April 2022: HoneyPie
Hey, thank you so much for your answer! I see you answering a lot of other questions and I always love your advice.
Anyway, to be honest, I think the idea of him proposing is more cute to me than anything. I have been married in the p... (read in full...)
Can we save this relationship for the sake of our unborn baby? I feel like I’m walking on eggshells
Q. Hi there, first of all my thank you so much for looking at my question. I’m 29 and my partner is 25, I met him at the start of last year, 14 months ago. I’m not sure whether he is emotionally abusive or if we are just a bad match. I don’t want to ...
A. 24 April 2022: Call a family member or a friend, explain the situation, and get out of there immediately.
You are not safe and neither is your unborn baby. This is how it all starts, trust me. It starts offers cruel words, escalates to shouting, into breaking... (read in full...)
Would it be terrible of me to find and contact these guys and inquire about the possibility of trading stories?
Q. Hello all! So, I've been married to my wife for about 4 years now. Before we started dating, she was on a bit of a "wild streak" after her previous marriage ended. I'm completely ok with this and understand why. The thing is, I find myself turned on ...
A. 24 April 2022: I’m not sure that your wife will want to be reminded of her ‘wild streak’ for the sake of feeding your curiosity, and in the long run, it’s probably no good for you either… ... (read in full...)
Addicted to soda
Q. My mom reprimanded me again over my addiction to soda which she sells. i steal and drink alot of soda about five in a day or minimum of two and my parents have caution and corrected me alot. i have tried to stop i had gone weeks and months but i...
A. 24 April 2022: I understand that you’re addicted, and your mum may have suspicions, but it’s not equally right of her to assume that you would go into prostitution for the sake of fizzy drinks. Try carbonated water, you can add some water flavouring to it and it ... (read in full...)
Is he beginning to change his mind?
Q. Hi everyone So, my boyfriend has always said that he wouldn’t ever want to get married to anyone. He says that he’s not really religious, and the idea of committing to someone in the eyes the government kind of scares him as it means you are fina...
A. 24 April 2022: @YouCannotBeSerious thank you for your answer, I appreciate your advice. I’m afraid I didn’t make myself clear. He used to say all of the stuff before we were together, about not wanting marriage and kids.
We have been best friends for about th... (read in full...)
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