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words are my world, they are more than 26 letters to me .
they are the desert of beauty
where the sun hangs like a golden nickles in my emptiness ....
where the clouds are shadows traveilling on a sand carpet
only my soul and 2 palm trees
i hang between them the 26 letters
when the sun goes down..................
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My gf said she wanted casual sex with others, what am I supposed to do??
Q. Hello, I don't know what to do about my relationship with my girlfriend, and I was wondering if I could get some advice. We started off fine and all, but recently things haven't been so great. I'm already about to graduate college but she just sta...
A. 4 April 2007: hello
there is a standerd for our behaiver as humans so what your gf doing got nouthing to do with human behaiver so you tell your self "FORGET ABOUT HER"or you talk to her and tell her stop it and if not then go on your own way.
good luck... (read in full...)
Her bf doesn't love her but won't let her go. What should I advise her, on how to deal with this?
Q. Hello, my boyfriends sister has been seeing this guy for 18 months, he tells her, he doesn’t love her anymore yet wont break up with her, and only see’s her once a week, the rest of the time he’s out with his friends. I’ve told her to break up ...
A. 4 April 2007: hello in this case its really hard for some people to let go and semply becouse they see that sad and dark side in them selfs ,and the only way its to talk to him like talkig to a child eye in eye and ask for noemal answers from him ,after he will ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and really want to have sex with my 21 yr old boyfriend!!
Q. hi, im 14 years old and i have a 21 year old boyfriend, i see him all the time and i love him alot. its not really a problem though cause if i didnt want to see him i would of told him to **** off. anyways, my friend has been to his house with me,...
A. 4 April 2007: hello, you are 14 and he is 21 ,so if your family will know about that you will make all of them look bad becouse "you want "to have sex in this age ,and with 14 you are a child legally so that means you have to grow up and stop going there .b... (read in full...)
I feel so betrayed that he went to a prostitute! How do I deal with my nager?
Q. My husband of 20 yrs visited a prostitute, how do I handle this? My husband and I have been separated for 9 months, he moved out 3 months ago. I had told him that I needed him to share himself with me, that I needed him to talk to me, make me feel ...
A. 2 April 2007: hello.
from your way of writing ,i can tell you that you are woth a lot but you dont see that ,you cant make him love you the "way you want"some woman ask their husbands or bf .tell me that you love me?.and they say it ater comes tell me how much... (read in full...)
I'm just 18 and I am so embarrassed about my body! How do I deal with this?
Q. HI everyone i just truned 18 and im so embressed with my body i am getting married in may and and feel uncomftable about it.....i have stretch marks all down my thighs and it seems like they are getting bigger and darker, and i have them all up the ...
A. 2 April 2007: hello ,
for the first problem go to the sckin dr he will have a good advice for you,
and for the 2nd problem ,dont eat junk food and some sport will do.
good luck... (read in full...)
We agreed we were dating and not to date other, but he did!! Im so confused and hurt, am I wasting my time ?
Q. I am a 46 year old divorced woman and I have been dating this wonderful guy (51 divorced 3 times) everything was going great and btw we have been only dating a month. He moved very quickly and having me meet his family and telling me how much they ...
A. 2 April 2007: hello
that was a praive email and i am sorry that i hve no answer to what you asked about .becouse his answer is good enough for you to under stand that you are a person that he knows.and you approved that by puting his praivet words to you info... (read in full...)
I want the fairytale! Marriage, Love kids etc... But I can never sustain a relationship after the first flush! Any advice ?
Q. I want to get married and have kids. I am now 31 and have only managed to hold down 1 relationship for 10 months (I dumped him) and the last one for 3 months (which I suspect was a rebound relationship on his part; he dumped me). They both ended ...
A. 2 April 2007: hello
i think you are right some how ,love and relationship without romance is not nice to me at least ,and to have a man who can do that is not that easy ,but what you can do pack your stuff leave the city spend one year alone in the desert and ... (read in full...)
Im in love with her but Im to shy to talk to her! How can I speak to her ?
Q. i am in love with a girll and will like to marry her but my problem is that im shy and whenever i met her i loose the confidence to speak to her. tell me what to do ...
A. 2 April 2007: hello,
tell her, you know when i look into your eyes i lose my words and lose my name ,i do try to tell you something again and again,oh my god it didnt work ,i ask my self is this love or joyfull pain ,befor i slleep i talk to my self tomorow you ... (read in full...)
I really love this guy but two days ago was the first time he's ever hit me and left me a mark.
Q. I am a 20 year old female that has been with a man for almost three years.In the past year we had made a family. I am so confused because i feel like he is losing interest in me and I feel like he don't love me. He's always telling me he needs ...
A. 1 April 2007: hello
we are living in 2007 we offer the caws music to have their milk we have factorys sending smok to the heart of the sky and we say that we are free and we know it all ,a human has no right to hit an animal ,so he has no right to do that and ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to chase a girl for 2 years that you've only been with for one month?
Q. hello Is it normal to run behind a girl for 2 years that you had a relationship with for only one month? Why does it feel like I have to? I've got no control over my feelings. Is this romance or madness? thank you...
A. 31 March 2007: hello ,and thank you very much i really did that it was a struggle of search after that month until now i dont know where she is, to be left without note or answer is something bad, and it did drive me mad its a long story and you can make a film o... (read in full...)
Is it better for a guy to reach orgasm quickly or to take a while?
Q. Hi there, I have a question about sex! Is it better for a guy to reach orgasm quickly or to take a while? Could someone please explain that to me? thanx...
A. 30 March 2007: hello you cant control that, it might be not great for your partner because its hard work for him and you welcome. good luck... (read in full...)
What did I do to my kids that they ditched me here?
Q. hello An old man told me I have worked hard for my family, I have done everything for them to have a good life and now I am old, I can't do that much and I need help. Nobody helps me, the kids are busy with life and I am here lonely in eldery h...
A. 30 March 2007: i really do care for an old man who was remarkable in his youth and now is the trip with hospital health care and it sounds to me that not only the children wants him to be away but also the health system, i had a talk with dr he said to me one day ... (read in full...)
Why are 11-13 year old kids talking of dating and sexual contact???
Q. hello It might be I am wrong or I came from mars but it is so tragic to see 11 to 13 years old kids are dating and talking about sexual contact? Where are the families? Why don't they look after their kids? thank you...
A. 30 March 2007: hello, and thank you very much for taking part of shairing this subject and i have no kids but i was one,and i have learned that if i want to plant a rose in my garden .i have to think of all the ways to keep it alive and take care of it, and ... (read in full...)
Is "hanging out" a relationship?
Q. is hanging out a relationship?...
A. 30 March 2007: hello i agree with stina and hanging around with the dogs only means less arguments and they do what ask them to do so buy your self a dog and hang around with it. good luck... (read in full...)
I have tons of pubic hair! Is this normal?
Q. Hi everyone, I am a fifteen year old male and i'm worried about my pubic hair. The fact is that I have tons of the stuff. I don't like wearing boxers and when I put on normal pants I can still see it. Even when I have gf's I refuse them when t...
A. 30 March 2007: hello under your arms and down there you just remove that hair, i know some people like that dirt but i really do remove it and its healthy . good luck´ ... (read in full...)
Im only 11, but I love 2 guys, and dont know if they love me to be able to choose which one to go out with!?
Q. hi cupid im 11 years old and i live in florida im in elementry, in 5th grade. there are 2 guys i both love but i don't know if they love me and the problem is i don't know who to choose i both like them but i have a BIG choice both are cute ...
A. 30 March 2007: hello it might be that you like them if you are 11 you have first to know how a child can be good to his parents and dont get them in trouble and if your mom or dad will know about it you might have trouble at home, and if the kids in your school w... (read in full...)
When do you say 'I love you', when your in love or when you start to love someone?
Q. I'm 19 and in my first relationship. Im starting to really love my boyfriend, but I know Im not 'in love' with him yet. When do you say 'I love you', when your in love or when you start to love someone? I feel like I really want to say it now......
A. 29 March 2007: hello To me love is the image of a rose in a rain drop, love is the way between the truth and the spirit. Love is the snow falling in the desert making life out of nothing. Love is the sound of your heart beat or the lightining of your struggle. ... (read in full...)
How can you stop loving someone!!?
Q. How do you stop liking/loving someone? Thanks to people who reply to this question....
A. 29 March 2007: hello, You cant really stop love; its a power of nature. good luck... (read in full...)
Is everyone just impolite ?
Q. help i do walk every day in town i do see people face to face ,sometimes i feel strange becouse it seems i am the only one who say hello ,we are humans we say that we love that we want every thing to be green full of love ,but why we dont say hell...
A. 29 March 2007: thank you . but you know , its kind of hard to under stand some times how a father of a family who work and care for them dont say hello to an old lady passing by ,if we are good really why we cant offer a smaile or say hello ,when we say that we ... (read in full...)
How do you ask your girlfriend for sex for the first time?
Q. How do you ask ypur girlfriend for sex for the first time Ive got to the point where i want sex with my gorlfriend, but i don't know how to bring it up...
A. 29 March 2007: hello you hold her hand gently look into her eyes try to keep your feelings and thoughts together ,touch her face gently with the back of one hand and give her a nice light kiss on her lips that kiss has to feel like a fresh air ,one hand touching... (read in full...)
Im seeing an older guy and all we do is have sex, plus Im not sure if I trust him!
Q. I have been seeing a guy alot older than me 4 about 2mths now, however all we do is just have sex.. he has made suggestions of going out but we haven't yet, the only thing that bothers me is he lives with his baby's mum and says he is there for ...
A. 28 March 2007: hello
the best thing get the kids together and take care of them all 3of you him his wife and you take care of your kids .
he loves both of you .
good luck... (read in full...)
I think I'm still in love with my ex as I can't stop thinking about him.
Q. Hey there. I am very confused and dunno what to do. My first love and I went out for nearly 6 years, it started out really well, we got engaged after 3 years and I thought I would spend the rest of my life with him. But things changed. We are ...
A. 28 March 2007: hello
i am sorry for you , and "if "wont bring the past into your present and it might be that your ex has another one now
so life go on take care of your self and try to make your life better by thinking of now ,and you never know what "if"will... (read in full...)
He my brother's best frind and my mate dates him. I like him a lot-so what should I do?
Q. I like this guy that is my brother's friend. I only get to see him about once or twice a week. Sometimes he gets close to me and acts like I wold think that someone who likes me would act. But then other times he'll ignore me. Another problem is he ...
A. 28 March 2007: hello
in your age you only can do on important thing to you and your feutre ,keep your head in your study.
good luck... (read in full...)
My mum wants me to stop seeing my gf as shes older, Im just worried that she may hurt herself if I do ?
Q. what should i do when my mom dosent want me to continue my relationship with my girlfriend because of our age gap..... n how can i tell my gf that we need to break up knowing that she would hurt herself? the reason why i went into a relationship w...
A. 28 March 2007: hello
you calm down and try to talk to your mom like a man and you dont let an prsure from your gf effect you its not good to let that happind becouse later this will creat a mantal strugel for you and its not funny if she really loves you she can ... (read in full...)
I have a disability, I think its holding me back due to what people might be thinking!
Q. I know a disability shouldn't stop you from meeting people, and I know people are alright with it when I tell them, but I have a subconscious feeling that they may not like me as I can't do stuff that other people can...
A. 28 March 2007: hello
hey stop thinking that way that is not good you are who you are your soul is the gate to dreams when you set around where ever you are you can with your feeligs and thoughts crooss the burders that normal or what so called normal people cant... (read in full...)
I've lost all confidence when it comes to sex, been together 9 yrs and in a rut!
Q. i've been wi my partner for 9 yrs and we have a 5 yr old daughter, i am really insecure even though i am attractive and can attract many men. i jus don't have the confidence to be sexy around him. we have got into a rut an rarely have sex or a laugh ...
A. 28 March 2007: hello
there is no need to worry talk to him about that and the sister of my wife she is my sister this what men do and you have to make that clear to him and her .
good luck... (read in full...)
What is the difference between LOVE and SEX?
Q. hello i am asking all of you to explain to me the definition between LOVE and SEX and how they feel? thank you...
A. 28 March 2007: people say in our time that they love each other so is love kind of faith ist pure madniss or its sexual spirit in case of man and woman?sou you feel or think that you are falling in love with someone you start thinking of feelings and thinking of ... (read in full...)
What is the difference between LOVE and SEX?
Q. hello i am asking all of you to explain to me the definition between LOVE and SEX and how they feel? thank you...
A. 28 March 2007: thank you ,but how do you feel when you say i am falling in love or what so called beeing romantic what is romance to you ?... (read in full...)
How can I get back with my ex? I've been a right prat!
Q. me and my ex have split 4 months ago due to certain incidents, I was a rite dick to be fair. We had a brief moment where things were going well. I've changed so much since we split and I realized how much she means to me, we have a baby together i ...
A. 28 March 2007: hello
i think all of that becouse you are only talking you have gf child so that means you have to be a man do wht men do
no proises and you say sorry to her and her family and ask her for a chance.
good luck... (read in full...)
How can I perk his interest?
Q. hey, i just started going out with this guy but he doesn't act like a boyfriend how can i get him to be more affectionate and talk to me more?...
A. 28 March 2007: hello
by going to school beeing good to your mother and when you are 17 you do that.
good luck.... (read in full...)
Does my mum favour my brother over me?
Q. I am 14 year old. My mum and dad split up 5 years ago but recently my brother who is 13 went to live with him and left our family. He didn't speak to us and when he did, he was calling us, sending messages along with his dad's family. He has he a ...
A. 28 March 2007: hello you know that your brother left the house for a few weeks and its kind of hard for your mother to see her son away from her and mothers are great, and now she is trying to make every thing nice for your brother for him not to go away from her... (read in full...)
I never stopped loving her, in fact I am STILL in love...
Q. in love after a recent breakup..... Recently (feb '07) my partner ended our relationship because I became emotionally detached and this hurt her very much. Unfortunately I was dealing with a traumatic issue that came up and I was having a difficul...
A. 28 March 2007: hello write every day a letter or post card writ how you see her in your life write her name on a mounten or drew her face aith the moon light or walk under heavy rain for 50 km singing that you love her . good luck... (read in full...)
He's dying to have sex but I want to wait until marriage. How do I tell him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6 years now and lately he keeps asking when are going to finally have sex. He doesn't know that i have chosen that i want to wait till marriage. how do i tell him???...
A. 28 March 2007: hello
you just look at him and tell him that i want to wait till marriage.
good luck... (read in full...)
Is it appropriate for a 17 year old female to date a 14 year old male?
Q. Hiya I'm a 17 year old girl (I'll be 18 in September and going to college) and I wanna know if it's inappropriate to date a fellow who's 14?...
A. 27 March 2007: hello don't do that, he is under child law protection and it's not healthy . good luck... (read in full...)
Why cant I have 2 wives if both women love me!?
Q. why i cant have 2 wifes if both woman loves me and i love them , and who made that law for us and what is the sense of it? as we all know that woman get another kind of feelings and therefor man and woman fall in love and make a new life and they ...
A. 27 March 2007: hello and thanks very much for stina and the others that did try to help answering my question and only for the ones who employed proper manners of communication .and i really dont under stand why there is anger here i really didnt ask
that beco... (read in full...)
Men don't notice me! So tell me honestly, guys...what does a man look for in a woman?
Q. Hi there im after some male advice really. What does a man look for in a woman? Its probably a common question but I would love some answers. I go out alot and im fairly outgoing. But when I go out with my friends its as though im invisible men ...
A. 27 March 2007: hello
i think you cant win a real love from a real man with tips
and i think that the time will come for you to meet the one who is searching for some one spical ,and that is you the way you are.
dont change your self and keep your nature ,
go... (read in full...)
When I have sex I feel nothing! Nothing at all, whats the point to it ? How can I turn this around ?
Q. I need some advice about sex. I'm just feeling so weird about it at the moment. I've been with my partner for 2 years and he's amazing: he gives me loads of attention and wants to please me every time. However, I just don't get it. Mentally and ...
A. 27 March 2007: hello
i think you have to talk to him about it or you make a spical room for it let your fantasy in that room go wild make your own candels holder spray the ground of see sand
and make that monent beeing with him holding him like a pray try to b... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Now accepting your articles, tips and stories!
Q. Hi folks, this is Andrew, site guy here. I've added a new link to the main navigation bar called "articles"... I'm looking for anyone who is good with words to share their wisdom :-) All articles will be linked to from your profile page,...
A. 27 March 2007: hello, andrew
so in the near feutre i will start writing my life story
so if you have a space ?for the next 30 years i will tell my storys and they are real storys not sort of my foot hurts and i cant dance :danke und veil spaß
younis... (read in full...)
Why cant I have 2 wives if both women love me!?
Q. why i cant have 2 wifes if both woman loves me and i love them , and who made that law for us and what is the sense of it? as we all know that woman get another kind of feelings and therefor man and woman fall in love and make a new life and they ...
A. 27 March 2007: hello and thank you all
i understand from a woman point vew it differant and i have said that when woman loves a man she wont look at onother one when she really loves him becouse they are woman they bring kids to this world and they feel that more... (read in full...)
Why do people mis-use each other ?
Q. Hello I am after all only a human I dont quite understand why people miss-use each other ?? Why do people treat each other like things ? I really need to know if that is normal?...
A. 27 March 2007: thank you .
but you know i really dont under stand that some thing or god give us life and we do shaire the earth with animals trees and i can relly see that they are so much better in shairing , and if i have a cookie and your are siting with me i... (read in full...)
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