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Wife no longer interested and I need relief

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Question - (28 January 2022) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2022)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

I am 87+ and can no longer get an erection... I try masturbating but dont always ejaculate..

what can I do? still married but wife ot interested anymore...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2022):

You might try a massage parlor. Some of the ladies actually give good massages! A handjob from a friendly woman might feel good to you even if you don't get hard. Just don't add the lady to your will!

Where I live you pay around $60 for an hour's massage plus a tip at the end. If you just get a massage you probably should tip at least $20. Massage + HJ $40 or $50.

Good luck!

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (31 January 2022):

kenny agony auntTaking into consideration your age, i would think your best bet would be to go along and see your physician, or GP, and see if they can offer you any advice, or prescribe anything to help you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2022):

I didn't think men your age were still THAT interested in sex or interested in sex at all? Wow, that is an eye opener.

You are almost 90 years old OP. You are not a young man anymore. I think it would be more realistic to bid farewell to those days. You are living in a dream world. And if you keep thinking your parts are going to operate like they did many, many years ago you are only fooling yourself, and setting yourself up for constant disappointment. Life does not revolve around getting it up. You should be grown up enough and mature enough to realize this.

There really is nothing you can do OP. Your body is no longer that of a young man. That is a fact. What you can do is try to cuddle with your wife, spend quality time together. Kiss her. There are so many other ways to be intimate without having an erection or intercourse. Why don't you try googling that? From what I have read, many older adults can still have satisfying sex lives without intercourse.

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