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... Send *milie a private message | | | *milie's profile:Hey my names emily, I live in the UK and i am currently in a loving relationship.
My lifes been tough this past year but im coping at the moment with everyones support. Im at a time of change and one thing ive learnt from my friends is that its better to go with change than against it. Everything has its reason and someday we will all find what those reasons were, but until then we have to survive with instinct, love, care and respect.
I'm a blond haired, blue eyed Wiccan. Being a Wiccan but i believe all religions are linked by something and thats what makes us pull together in times of need, it's the feeling of hope we get, It's what makes us human. I believe god to be neither male nor female but a being who's forgiveness, love and mercy is what makes our belief strong and our god/goddesss all knowing and all powerful. Theres a reason for everything we just have to wait and trust in that feeling.
I'm also a vegetarian, which means i don't eat meat OR fish. I'm quite the herbivore.
I can be known to be quite emotional at times but i'm only human.
I like to think of myself as loving and affectionate...I love my hugs and i hate to see my loved ones upset. But i'm no ones doormatt...if you've upset me and think you've got away with it...trust me you'll regret it!
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As you read i'm quite bubbly and i do love helping people out.
I'm also an experienced ice skater and so any query's on figure skating i would love to help you out with so don't be afraid about sending me a quick email.
I am also a black belt in karate a violinist and i play the piano.
Thats about it for now,
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I am torn between two loves.
Q. Hi, i have 2 problems really. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 15 months now and in the last 6 months it has had to be long distance, but we still see each other each weekend as its only an hour away. The thing is i am finding that whe...
A. 10 October 2007: Hey hun,
Youre not a bad person. I know how you feel, really i do. I'm currently in the same position, thats why i came through this section of dearcupid. Although i love my current boyfriend i feel that my ex (also the first person i loved) has ... (read in full...)
Tell me how to orgasm please.
Q. Can some please tell me how to have an orgasm. I masturbate, but that doesn't work. It seems to work when I'm penetrated....
A. 9 August 2007: Hey, im sorry for any inconvineance but in my earlier statement i mentioned the website clitical.com, however due to recent changes to the site it has been aged limited to 18 or overs. My apologies xxx... (read in full...)
I'm heavier than my friends.
Q. hey okay my problem is:: im a county swimmer, and pretty good runner (run for sot'on) soo get a lot of exercise, but im still 9.5 stone an really want to loose a bit of weight, and fat around my tummy and legs. i know people say muscle weighs mo...
A. 9 August 2007: Hey hun, please please please stop worrying bout your weight. Your normal and you shouldnt worry about this as your still young and developing! You just develope more quickly trust me. Im 15 now and the lightest i have been in a long while an thats... (read in full...)
Yes, it is very nice that he wanted to buy that for me but I don't agree with where he looked or what he look at.
Q. Hello everyone, I am curious if anybody else would have the same problem or if it is somehow reasonable that I thought this: My boyfriend and I had a conversation about web sites we visit (to see if we go to any porn sites etc). He said that he...
A. 9 August 2007: Hey, no prob hun im glad you feel better about it :) good luck in the future! xxx... (read in full...)
Being freinds with her is too hard as I'm still in love with her! Any advice?
Q. Ok so im 16 ive been with my girlfriend for 2 years and on saturday she broke up with me sayin she !didnt feel the same" since then all ive done is cry and beg for her back but shes just been like "I don't know, I dont know what to do" I'm going cr...
A. 7 August 2007: Hey,
Of course your not being too soft! You love her and thats easy to see hun, She seems confused as to what she wants right now in her life. I know its hard just to be friends but you will have to give it a go, show her why she feel in love with... (read in full...)
Is it normal to start liking other guys coz I haven't seen my boyfriend for 4 months.
Q. Is it normal to start liking other guys coz I haven't seen my boyfriend for 4 months. I miss him and I really do love him very much. I didn't want to have to start liking other guys. I'm going to ree him in a month but I want to forget about the ...
A. 7 August 2007: Hey hun, Of course its normal for you to start liking other guys. You havent seen you guy for what ever reason in a long time, you havent had the attention you deserve and sooner or later your bound to have a wandering eye. As long as nothing has ... (read in full...)
Yes, it is very nice that he wanted to buy that for me but I don't agree with where he looked or what he look at.
Q. Hello everyone, I am curious if anybody else would have the same problem or if it is somehow reasonable that I thought this: My boyfriend and I had a conversation about web sites we visit (to see if we go to any porn sites etc). He said that he...
A. 7 August 2007: Hey i can understand why you may be upset i had a look at the site to see how bad it was and to be honest they just look like barbie dolls. I dont think he meant anything by looking at this site really, he was just fantasising about how good YOU ... (read in full...)
My ex got in contact out of the blue, was all flirty and has now told me his girlfriend is pregnant.
Q. I went out with a guy a year and a bit ago,and was completly in love...i lost my virginity to him, anyway a week after he dumped me and went back to his ex girlfriend..i never spoke or saw him again so was have never really got over him. About ...
A. 6 August 2007: Hey hun, i know what your going through is confusing you as all those feelings have come back but trust me you dont want to interfear with a bloke whos got a child coming into this world. Thats a nono really things will go stale and you will have ... (read in full...)
Tell me how to orgasm please.
Q. Can some please tell me how to have an orgasm. I masturbate, but that doesn't work. It seems to work when I'm penetrated....
A. 6 August 2007: Hey hun, Some girls can only orgasm when they are penetrated! No one can really tell you how to orgasm but there is a great female friendly site called clitical.com that you can try. Theres no porn or imitating pictures its just nd information site ... (read in full...)
Chances of pregnancy.
Q. My periods suppose to start within the next few days. If i had sex just before it started what are the chances of me getting pregnant? ...
A. 6 August 2007: Hey, Chances of pregnancy can be high whatever day, even before your period you still have a 50/50% chance of concieving. Please play it safe and use a condom or any type of contraception if you are not wanting a child. hope this helps a lil best... (read in full...)
It hurts when he puts my legs on his shoulders.
Q. me and my boyfriend have tryed different positions now but when he goes to put my legs on his shoulders and his penis goes in it realy hurts is this ment to happen as i have been told its ment to be really good...
A. 6 August 2007: Hey hun, If it hurts stop! Dont carry on if you find it uncomfortable or painful, some positions are not all that comfortable and diferent peoples bodys agree with different things. If it is hurting it means your either doing something wrong like ... (read in full...)
I need some space, how do i tell him this?
Q. How do I let my boyfriend know that I need some breathing space without hurting his feelings. We have been dating for 3 weeks and he visits EVERY evening?...
A. 6 August 2007: Hey hun i know what your going through, unfortanatly me and my ex didnt last very long as he wouldnt back off, we had only been together for a month. The most you can do is meet up with your guy and explain how you feel...that you do love his ... (read in full...)
Std info needed.
Q. i was just wondering, can u get any STDs from snogging?...
A. 6 August 2007: Hey honey, Getting an STD from kissing is not all that common but only certain sexually transmitted diseases can be transmitted through kissing if the STD can manifest itself orally and/or in oral fluids. Herpes or cold sores can be transmit... (read in full...)
How can I be a better friend and person overall??
Q. I feel like I'm a crap mate to my mates and never have time for them at the moment. I feel like I only ever have time for myself, but that's how I feel!!!How can I be a better friend and person overall? x...
A. 5 August 2007: Hey honey its not easy getting the balance to look after yourself and be there for your friends. At the moment just try lil things like when your friends want to go out and meet up go along! you dont have to be there for them all the time and if ... (read in full...)
We have been going out 8 months, but now he wants to have sex. Should I?
Q. ive been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months and we really love each other we have a brilliant time and can talk about anything i cant imagine being with anyone else! latley he has brought up the question of sex i dont know if i should because ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hey, honey listen i know you love him and i know how you feel as it has happened to me too. I am only 15 and i sed no to sex until i am of legal age, thankfully becuase my boyfriend (weve been together 1 year) was thoughtful he agreed we should w... (read in full...)
I've left her 9 facebook comments! I don't want to seem over enthusiastic. Should I hold back?
Q. ok theres this girl right, she is nearly 16 and im not even 14 yet my b day is 27th of august, and ive been trying to get close with her like some ppl on this site hav been tellin me, but im afraid ive been talkin to her too much... i dont wanna luk ...
A. 5 August 2007: Hey, Honey chill! she will reply soon enough if you just wait. The age difference might prove problematic but im sure things will work out fine. your doing just great hun! Ask if shes got msn etc if you havent already and chat to her in a friend... (read in full...)
Her mum flipped because i did not walk her home.
Q. I'm a 14 year old lad, that is madly in love with a 14 year old girl and has been for months, we where happy until one day i didnt walk her home, recently i got on well with the family, but her mum just flipped down the phone to my parents, saying i ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hey, im sorry to hear you have been caught up in this. Her mom may be going through something thats not even connected to this, therefore taking it out on you and your family. im sorry to say that all you can do is wait and back off abit until her ... (read in full...)
Is it first love or not?
Q. When I was still in elementary, I have this GUY best friend. We are really buddies, we look out for each other and stuffs... When I was already in high school, I've got this friend of mine, who has a crush on him and tried to break us apart. ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hey hun, it sounds like your in a bit of a muddle here. You will only really be able to tell if you love him by talking to him again. Guys can change alot in a short space of time and you might not like his personality. You and your boyfriend have ... (read in full...)
We are suppose to get married next year but how can I get past feeling hurt and betrayed?
Q. My boyfriend's ex-wife called me and told me that my boyfriend may have another child and that he is going to court next month about it. When I asked him about it he said he was waiting for the right time to tell me. We are suppose to get married ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hey,
can i just say, i feel thats disgraceful and unacceptable to keep such a secret from you.
This was a big secret to keep and i cant blame you for feeling hurt an betrayed. If i was in your position he would never have lasted the night. You need... (read in full...)
He was my first proper kiss but now I havnt had my period since and Im a bit worried could this be linked with the kiss??
Q. Hi i Am 15, i went to Turkey in May And Me And 1 Of The Turkish Lads Who Worked At The Hotel He Was 19 Snogged. Im Still a Virgin And He Was My First Proper Kiss But Now I Havnt Had My Period Since And Im Abit Worried Could This Be Linked With The ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hey honey, don't worry your not pregnant! Kissing is not linked in any way to your period. Youre period can be delayed for a number of reasons. Number one being your periods are not settle into a proper monthly pattern. Another reason can be because ... (read in full...)
Lately i have been having these feelings where i want a boyfriend so much that i get depressed.
Q. Lately i have been having these feelings where i want a boyfriend so much that i get depressed. It has been going on for a long time but why do you think i have them? Please Please Help Meeee xx...
A. 4 August 2007: Hey, aw honey youre perfectly normal i used to be like it. It normally happens because your friends and people close to you start having boyfriends and start dating at this time in their lives, and if you havent got a guy you start feeling left out. ... (read in full...)
Being Raped hasn't ruined or changed my life...i kinda enjoyed it...Whats wrong with me?Am i a freak?
Q. Hi,im Naoko im 20 years old and when i was 19 i was raped... I just wanna know if im a freak Being Raped hasn't ruined or changed my life...i kinda enjoyed it...Whats wrong with me?Am i a freak?...
A. 4 August 2007: hey, Of course your not a freak! some people have different ways and opinions to what happens to themselves when different things happen to them in their lives. Maybe the reality was you enjoyed it because it was scary at the time " the thrill" of ... (read in full...)
She's 15 and I'm 13 ... What should I do?
Q. ok... ive bin lukin for this girl for 4 months after a weddin which looked fantastic at. i finally meet her online and realise she is almost 2 yr older than me. what should i do? i mean how long should i wait, should i check she has a boifriend ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hey honey, It doesnt matter what age she is even if she is older. i know from experience having had a younger guy myself. If you get on well it will work out great and you could be in for a great relationship. Get to know her a little better be a ... (read in full...)
I had a fight with my boyfriend and he behaved cruelly
Q. we had a fight.Feels like he doesnt understand me, he thinks he did nothing wrong but everything he said was hurtfull,when we went to bed he held me for 2 sec and then told me"sorry dont know what i did wrong but ja... in a cruel manner. I said ...
A. 4 August 2007: Aw honey, It sounds like youve been having a rough time. They are right he acted like a child more than a man and you reacted in the only way you could which is understandable. Just talk to him, tell how you feel have a lil cuddle and tell him it ... (read in full...)
Where's my girlfriends clitoris, how do I find it?
Q. how do i know where my girlfriends clitoris is or when i find it ?...
A. 4 August 2007: lol well just have a feel around im sure she wont mind! ^^ if yours really stuck ask her for directions! :) good luck!... (read in full...)
What do I do next?
Q. there is a girl in school.we made frequent eye contact but i never talk to her.recently she and her friends noticed that i like her.when we make eye contact i donot smile at nor gaze for longer time.when we meet in a cafe,road ,library i usually ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hey honey, well it sounds like this girl likes you even the slightest and is interested in becoming your friend. Give it ago, talking to someone you like for the first time can be scary but when u see her on her own, Go for it! what have you got to ... (read in full...)
He kissed another girl, said she came on to him and apologised.
Q. Hey, I'd really appreciate some advice. I was going to go out with my boyfriend and some of his mates last night but decided I was too tired so told him I wouldn't be making it. He seemed a bit upset but whatever... This morning I got a text fro...
A. 4 August 2007: Aw Hey honey, Forgive him, he's only screwed up once right? and he had the guts to tell you, bring you flowers an chocolates while apologising all the way? He sounds genuine and if he done all that just to make it up to you... well he sounds as if ... (read in full...)
Does body fat effect penis size?
Q. Am I to fat? I am 165 pounds and is 5'5 foot tall I think. Well am I too fat cuz my girlfriend is 2 inches shorter than me and is 150 pounds sooo are we an obese couple? And does body fat effect penis size?...
A. 4 August 2007: Hey honey, may i just say... you're still growing!! Why are you worried about if youre fat or not?! Its impossible to call yourself fat at this age. It's silly. Until you are at least 16 you should not worry about your weight.Just sit back, relax ... (read in full...)
I have been independent for a few months now but am finding it hard to find someone.
Q. Hi I have been independent for a few months now and am finding it hard to find someone. After spending nearly a 2 year relationship with my ex girlfriend I don't really want to get into a serious relationship all I want is for a bit of fun at the ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hey honey, sounds like you got one serious jealous ex there. Don't let her control you. You sound like a nice guy so you shouldn't feel as if you can't get anyone, you're just looking in the wrong places for single fun loving girls. Do something ... (read in full...)
I got close to my closed-up boyfriend on a weekend away; now his heart has closed up again
Q. last weekened me and my friends had a sleepover up at her cabin. she brought her boyfriend and mine along with and it was really suprising her parents let us. well me and my boyfriend got really close... closer then i've even been to him. he let all ...
A. 4 August 2007: Hey,since you've come home maybe he hasn't had found a time to have a heart to heart. You're still close but he's having a lil' trouble emotionally, it sounds. I know it can make you feel quite alone when he becomes quiet, just give him time, love ... (read in full...)
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