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... Send *-Happy-Feet-x a private message | | | *-Happy-Feet-x's profile:hi im 15 yr old girl who lives in essex, i have a boyfriend who ive been with 2 years, i am not a doctor but would like to be a nurse in the future i am quite smart and have a good mind for helping people i like to help people and discuss things i am online quite alot and im good to talk to people my age if its to do with periods sex relationships and things because of my own experiences i am a good friend and im very loyal so you can always trust me i have had a rough time at home and dont get along with my parents i use this site for communiation my own worries and to help teenagers my age and give a good opinion.. xxxx |
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Were on a break, am I being played for a Fool?
Q. Let me know what you guys think. I've been going out with a girl for 9 months yesterday. When we had been together for 3 months we feel pregnant, we decided to abort it due to certain issues one of them being money. She then started to becom...
A. 23 January 2009: oh i am sorry, you sound really nice, well my first opinion is yes you are being played for a fool sorry about that, but i really think that if shes the one then you need to fight for her, the best thing to do! send her this link!!! send her it, ... (read in full...)
Why is she lying about knowing him, he's on her facebook!
Q. Ok, so I have this dilemma that is just eating at me. Im with this girl, she says we're more then friends and she "thinks" of me like a b/f. Well i was messaging her through MSN one night... and she wouldn't answer, then after awhile... Some guy...
A. 23 January 2009: yeah, go ahead tell her how you feel and tell her that you didnt log out that you never intended on looking on her facebook untill you noticed the message, so you read it out of curiosity, just tell her what u told us or maybe even send her the ... (read in full...)
My best friend is pregnant at 15, refuses to tell her parents and plans an abortion. How can I help her get through this?
Q. Hey Evryone. Last Night, My Best Friend told me she was pregnant and she knows she is for certain because she took a pregnancy test. She told Me She didnt know what To Do Wether To Keep it or not.. So I Suggested She told her parents beacau...
A. 23 March 2008: right i can help i was pregnant i depended on my boyfriend it will throw away her life just be soo supportive thats what he done to me and my best friend well this is what i did in the chemists there should be leaflets about the EHC the morning ... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and PREGANANT!!!
Q. it all happened 1 week ago i was round my bfs freinds house and there were no adults so everyone started having sex and so me and my bf did to but he forgot to use a condom and now im pregnant should i get an abortion or not???...
A. 10 March 2008: Right babe I got pregnant i am 14 look you are young if u feel you cant tell your parents then dont worry about it really i no what u can do firstly go to a pharmacy and pick up a booklet about the ehc..(morning after pill) it has a number on it u... (read in full...)
My daughter thinks she is one week pregnant
Q. hi everyone, i need help, i need advice., my daughter was only 16 and i found out she is positive" she is 1 week pregnant" i can not accept it specialy she still in her high school so i told her i can not accept it and her boyfriend was only 17 ...
A. 16 January 2008: well this must be hard i no you will be dissapointed but this is harder for her then it is for you you need to tell her that you will be supportive with the abortion say to her that if she doesnt go through with it she wont be able to go out ... (read in full...)
Will we do it wrong?
Q. Hiya, This is two of us speaking we're 15 and 16. =] Okay, we're really confused about some sexual things so wondered if you could help us with our problems. 1. We're both thinking of going further with guys, that we like, but we're worried ...
A. 12 January 2008: guys do like dry i think boys like the little grinding part were you bend down slowly and then come back up while your bums grinding on there dick some girls do bleed during sex but not all i never did and i am young i never bleeded while playing ... (read in full...)
The second condom split but he did not ejaculate, does it still mean risk of pregnancy?
Q. i had sex with my boyfriend today the first time we did it he ejeculated and he changed the condom to a fresh 1 but when we started again he didnt ejeculate again but the condom split does that mean i can still get pregnant and would i need a ...
A. 7 January 2008: yes i definetly think you should get a morning after pill because pre come and sperm can get in seriousloy i would unless if you want the risk of getting pregnant xx... (read in full...)
Already a mother at 21, pregnant again, do I keep it?
Q. hi i have a 1 year old little girl with my parnter who i have been with for 3 years now im only 21 my self and i have fell pregnant again with the same man of couse im not sure what to do do i keep it or do i get rid of it my partner wants it...
A. 7 January 2008: well i think you should maye think of a termination wait till your little girls like 3 then maybe try for a baby i completely agree with ajjess on this one your girl will want a brother or sister to play with but im not sure right now because there ... (read in full...)
She consented to sex but is now crying rape
Q. My friend was telling me this story about him and it has made me a bit confused. He and his girlfriend had sex for the first time a few days ago. He asked her if she wanted to have sex (they were both sober) and asked her every now and then if ...
A. 7 January 2008: how old they because if she is younger then him he can be easily done for rape and so on if there both underage then maybe it wont be so harsh on the boy i think you should talk to the girl and say what you think of this if shes underage tell her ... (read in full...)
His urine has blood in it. What is wrong?
Q. my and my bf just have sex for about 5 minutues and he says he penis herts and he is pissing bloody do you know whats wrong with him?...
A. 6 January 2008: yeah he needs to get checked out did u use protection make him see a doctor seriously xx ... (read in full...)
I have had sex once but I don't wish to repeat the experience since I'm underage. What can I do to keep my bf interested?
Q. Hi, I Am 14 Years Old, And I Have Had Sex With My (Also 14 Years Old) Boyfriend. However, It Was The Once, And I Want To Keep It To The Once But He Wants It More Now. I Dont Want To Lose Him Becuase I Love Him But I Want To Wait Til I Am Legal (...
A. 4 January 2008: well i think you should say what youve just told us really and be careful you can try foreplay and that and dirty talk he might like that but dont go other the top message me if you want to talk im 13 and ive had sex it was also a mistake so u can ... (read in full...)
Is there an age restriction for buying pregnancy test kits in Colorado?
Q. i need to know what the age restriction is for buying pregnancy tests in colorado is. my girlfried has been having stomach cramps which she says are normal a few weeks before her period as well as her breasts have been very tender for the l...
A. 4 January 2008: any age because its health and that prehaps ask someone to buy them for you if your shy but you can go see a doctor without parents its strictly confidentual i think you should go see a doctor but she might just be ok her body might be playing ... (read in full...)
It hurts when he enters me. Why?
Q. hi was wondering if anyone could help. when me and my bf have sex and he enters me i get like a sharp pain and ihave to suck my breath in. weve been having sex for over a yera so i cnt understnd whats wrong. we dont need any lubrication as im fine ...
A. 4 January 2008: i think it might just hurt you ask him to slow down a little and go softly and gentle while he enters or if that hurts go and get yourself checked thats the best thing to do xx... (read in full...)
Could these be signs my girlfriend is pregnant?
Q. Hi, I was wondering if you could help me? My girlfriend is going to the doctors on Monday as she has had heavy bleeding when she wasn't due on her period plus when she has come on her period, it's been heavy. She's also been feeling abit sick. Can ...
A. 4 January 2008: they are symptons yes and its good shes getting checked it is possible people have came on there period while being pregnant so that user is wrong above well for me i dont think she is but make sure you look after her while shes unwell but alot of ... (read in full...)
My mother controls me. How do I get her to stop doing this?
Q. Me and my ex have been talkin again and we want to get back together the only thing it long distance plus an age difference of 4 years and it only ended a month ago but my mum is refusing to let us get back together and wont let us to it till i'm ...
A. 4 January 2008: just say u need to grow up that you want to move on and be inderpendent xx... (read in full...)
She got her period a couple of hours after we had sex. Any chance she could be pregnant?
Q. Me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex a few nights ago, she got her period a couple of hours later and it ended roughly 96 hours later. Is there a chance she could get pregnant?...
A. 3 January 2008: you probably are just worried i would take a test anyway but i dont think that your girlfriend is pregnant but please be carefull and use a condom and if your not going to use one make sure your responsible enough to deal with the consequences xx ... (read in full...)
If I get pregnant, should I tell my mum or is it better having an abortion without telling her?
Q. Me and My Boyfriend Have Been Together For Over A Year and In September We Decided To Have Sex. Everything Was Fine When We Has Sex But The Other Day We Ran Out Of Condoms So We Had Sex But He Pulled Out When He Was About To Cum. The Only ...
A. 3 January 2008: well i completely 100% understand you i have been through that i think you need to wait till your period is due if it doesnt come have a couple of tests done if you are pregnant go to your doctor and have a word with them but if you are pregnant i ... (read in full...)
oil NO!!!!!!
Q. Hi all, I had a friend who was going through some sexual difficulties and wanted some advice on how to spice things up, so I told her to light some candles a few incense sticks, make it all sexy, lights down low and soft music... Dress wonderfu...
A. 3 January 2008: oh what a shame, hope the man is ok, that's a great thing to have posted so we're aware not to oil too much, it is a bit funny, it was very embaressing for the girl as well, oh well mistakes happen xx... (read in full...)
Should I try this during masturbation?
Q. I'm only fourteen and have experimented with my fingers rubbing my clit. But I'm scared it will hurt if I put my fingers in my vagina. Any suggestions?...
A. 3 January 2008: no it doesnt hurt but dont go fast or it may be a bit uncomfortable just slowly put one finger in im sure it will be better for you that way then wen your comfortable you will know what to do next xx hope this helps... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity last week - could I be pregnant?
Q. I lost my virginity last week and at one point my boyfriend entered me without a condom but only for about 15 seconds, he also came near my vagina but I dont think any wennt on it... now my breasts are starting to feel sore and I 'feel' pregnant, I ...
A. 3 January 2008: well i understand you im 13 this happened to me i felt like i was it might just be because your mind is playing tricks on you if you want to talk message me i have alot of experience i think your bodys playing tricks with you but go take a couple of ... (read in full...)
I've been asked to go swimming with his mum and dad. Is this a bit strange?
Q. hi im 18 an been with my boyfriend for nearly a year an a half. he recently asked if i would like to go swimming with him in the holidays and i said yes. now he tells me his mum and dad are coming too. is it just me or would anyone else find it awk...
A. 3 January 2008: i think its a bit awkward but i would go you can trust your boyfriend right and im sure i would be able to trust his parents i fink he might just want use lot to get closer and things he might be planning something you never no something good so i ... (read in full...)
My mother controls me. How do I get her to stop doing this?
Q. Me and my ex have been talkin again and we want to get back together the only thing it long distance plus an age difference of 4 years and it only ended a month ago but my mum is refusing to let us get back together and wont let us to it till i'm ...
A. 3 January 2008: well basically you are over 16 you can do what you like with a boy just tel her straight you love him and your going to get back with him but say you dont want her stressing or being mad over your choices just say mum im almost 18 i will be able to ... (read in full...)
How should I tell my mother he proposed to me?
Q. I am 15 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 2 years. he is 13. We now know that we ant to be together forever. Just the other day he purposed to me and i said yes. My mom doesnt know. I want to tell her but dont know how. WHAT ...
A. 3 January 2008: well as much as he probably wants to marry you i think he might be playing a game he is not legal to marry you your not legal to marry him (would be seen as rong as u are 1 year away from the age consent of sex) he is not and he isnt age of ... (read in full...)
Why is it that I never want the ones who like me, and the ones I do like always just want to be friends??
Q. I have this friend that likes me only i don't like her. at the same time i have a friend that i really like. this isn't the first time this happens. why is it that the friends i'm not interested in like me but the ones i like just wanna be friends? ...
A. 2 January 2008: alot of reasons your hormones are going crazy maybe you dont find them attractive maybe they dont find you attractive but everyone is diffrent in the inside if someones ugly in the inside i bet ther lovely dont turn down a girl if shes lovely it ... (read in full...)
I started having spontaneous erections, will I start having spontaneous ejaculations too??
Q. im just wondering, i have spontaneous erections and i no that is normal, but i am just wondering when i will start having ejaculations when i get erections - if i will ejaculate at all - and how to deal with the sperm when that comes out when i do ...
A. 2 January 2008: well it could happen but quite unlikely i dont think you will ejaculate like that something will have to make you either you think that someones hot or someone flirting with you you usually ejaculate at night (wet dreams) so i dont think it will ... (read in full...)
What do you think he means when he says he loves me?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl and this boy flirts with me. He also tells me he loves me. And when tells me it, he laughs because he is nervous and shy. One time he asked me If I loved him back. I shrugged and looked away because he made me feel shy. What ...
A. 2 January 2008: well boys can say this word alot of times to alot of people really at your age he could be using u and everything i love you is a powerful word and alot of girls get happy and emotional wen a boy says it i think he really likes you but theres not ... (read in full...)
He is my teacher, but I have really strong feelings for him and now I don't know what to do with it?
Q. Ive suddenly fallen for my maths tutor, i'm not the sort of girl who normally lusts after older men but i really like this guy, i think he's about 20 years older than me and im 17 now...im not stupid, i m trying to ignore my feelings for him but i ...
A. 2 January 2008: well i dont think theres anything wrong with the age gap yes its a bit much but if your in love your in love its just a number it dont mean a thing atleast your mature enough to know wat your doing (over 16) i am 13 but i am really mature so coming ... (read in full...)
Could he get into trouble for doing this?
Q. my frend was abused as a child by his father and his father was charged and the report was put into the local paper some years back. my friend would now like revenge on his father and has got a copy of the newspaper report and would like to go and ...
A. 2 January 2008: no he couldnt but i think it would be pointless ,why do that, he's done his charge, let him move on and forget about it, that's selfish enough, people hate him already, i don't think he would want to lose his mates, i'm not picking the fathers side, ... (read in full...)
I am a good mother, but since my ex upset my kids they've distanced themselves from me. Is there anything I can do to get things back how they were?
Q. i have 5 daughters i have been a good mother. I met a man who upset them and was rude we have now finished but now the family have distanced themselves i have tried to be nice and friendly but i am disabled and no one visits me and i am ...
A. 2 January 2008: well i think you should organise a get together and have a really good time and actually have a say do say that you miss you and talk how its not easy for you to visit them and call them so ask if more communication can be done and i think you ... (read in full...)
How do you have cyber sex?!
Q. How EXACTLY do you have cyber sex? Becuase i've been going out with this girl for a while now over the net and she's implied she would like to do it... but i'm not sure if i want to..... ...
A. 2 January 2008: yes well its just dirty talking its normal for things like this dont get to carried away by use to both saying that your gonna actually have sex (if thats the case)because of your age so dont get to carried away do if your comfortable ok xx... (read in full...)
How can I bring up the issue of birth control with my Mom without her getting the wrong idea?
Q. I want to go on birth control, but I don't know how to ask my mom. I'm afraid she's going to think that I'm going off and having sex with all the boys I hang out with. Really, I just want to be safe, just in case! Any ideas on how I can bring this ...
A. 2 January 2008: yes i agree with starfiary shes gave you good advice just tell your mum you want to be safe and that your not planning on sex you just want to be protecected say your mature enough and that you want to be prepaired and yes its better to be safe then ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and a porn addict
Q. I really need help. I'm a porn adict and i cant steam to stop watching it. I'm 13 and i was exposed to it as a young girl. My mom has been suspecting it but i really want to stop do you people have any suggestions?...
A. 2 January 2008: well i used to like porn and i am 13 but i never wanted to watch it i just felt i had too but then i sed to myself this is dangerous files and viruses can happen and i will be in trouble if a man/women gets my identity and location i could be in ... (read in full...)
My partner hit me, and I'm 10 weeks pregnant with his child. I'm confused...
Q. i am 10 weeks pregnant and have a child already to the same guy, he argued with me because he wanted the house tidying and because i said i was changing my daughter he cme up to my face and threw a tea towel at me in my face so i went in to his face ...
A. 2 January 2008: yes i agree with tellulah i think you need to tell him straight he is not a child and should not be like this to you especially your pregnant and infront of a child anyway so i think you need to tell him i hope for the best because you will need his ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 with a baby and pregnant again, the father has left me, please help!
Q. Hey there, this is a pretty big question and i know you will think im stupid when you hear the first bit but if you can help me at all i would appreciate it. OKay im 16 and have been with my boyfriend since we were 13, However we only beca...
A. 2 January 2008: well done for getting this far but i think he isnt realising what hes doing did he drink a bit? he might of been angry but talk to him and say you need him tel him about work problems im sure he loves you alot maybe you can have a talk and he might ... (read in full...)
There is violence within my family and I'm scared. Help me!
Q. Im 12 years old. My parents and my sister and always fighting and my dad has often been close to becoming violent on my sister and Im scared my parents will start fighting with me! Any ideas on how I can stop that happening (other than doing as...
A. 2 January 2008: well if theres an argument going on you can ask your parents to stop and ask your sister for help or something and maybe she will just ignore her parents and go to her own room maybe have a chat with your mum or dad whoever your closer too and ask ... (read in full...)
Stay with the man I love or follow my dreams??!!
Q. Hay there aunts and uncles. Hope you can help! So the story is - ive recently got back with an ex b'f of mine but having doubts about the relationship, not because I don't love him because i do but because i want to travel abroad. My wh...
A. 2 January 2008: well i think you should maybe ask him if he wants to go with you tell him its an ambition a dream and he might go with you and if he does im sure you both will get more attracted and into a deeper relationship but i think if thats not possible then ... (read in full...)
My mother does not let me see this boy because "the apple doesn't go far from the tree" (she dislikes his father.) Suggestions?
Q. dear cupid, theres a boy that i love very much but my parents will not let me see him outside of school and its really taking a toll on our relationship. they wont let me see him because he has a father (in which he never sees) that my mother d...
A. 1 January 2008: yes your mum's just looking out for you wen your like 13 - 14 she will lighten up she's just scared of you doing silly things your only young mums no best just talk to him and tell him about your situation hope this helps x... (read in full...)
Do condoms really work?
Q. Okay so im really in love with my boyfriend and we want to have sex. Im scared the condom may break and so is he. He has everything going for him amaazing soccer player, super hot, and smart. He feels like it would be one of those " he had ...
A. 1 January 2008: it is safe but not completely the main reason why the condoms brake is because
1) you havent holded the top of the condom while you were puttiing it on to get rid of air bubbles
2) making a hole in it with nails
condoms have never broke from... (read in full...)
I'm not gay, I have a girlfriend, but I'm turned on by gay men, why is that?
Q. I am a 14 year old boy and I am "turned on by gay things". I dont want to be gay I have had a girl we have been going out for over a month and she wants to have sex so do I but im scared i want be preparied for....
A. 1 January 2008: yes i agree with others dont have sex if your not prepaired and it is a bad idea but if you are make sure your using protection and that well as for the gay part dont worry its just hormones if you dont want to be gay then simply dont go through ... (read in full...)
I'm going through puberty but I can't ejaculate, why??
Q. I can't ejaculate yet im already growing pubes though And I'm 15 How much longer will it take do y'all think?...
A. 1 January 2008: maybe nothing turns you on or something have you tried masturbating for longer maybe you should talk to your dad or an older brother about this xx... (read in full...)
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