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| | * might be a girl but i can help's profile:hi my name is nicole i might only be 17 but i love givin people advice my friends come me 4 advice and im happy 2 help. im also using this to see whats its like im hoping to become a counsellor or a pschologist.
im in a relationship at the moment and enjoying the fun we are having..
but i will love to help people as best as possible even if i am young and maybe need to have more experience but i feel i have had some experiences in my life and i feel very connected to those i help.
I live with my mum, brother, and my step-dad my real dad lives up north. My real dad kind of slept with my nan and than run off with the baby sitter and i now have a half brother oooooo joy. i have been in the church but left because the people made me feel traped and i wanted to experiences things, and as im not that rich most of the members loved to rub it in that they were.
i have a job and go to school try and have a social life and on dear cupid wen i can.
i love music, i love reading, helping people, being with my friends and family is the best time for me. when i come home from school and work and my dog comes and says hello and makes a big fuss over me makes me know i have somethin to come to. I love just sitting there with either my friends or my family especially with my mum and just sit there watchin chick flicks or a scary flim with some of my friends is just somethin i enjoy doing. drinkin alchole is not somethin i like doing that much i have had bad things happen to me and its put me off.
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16 July 2007: love what is love? No matter what life throws at you stand strong and fight back you are better than anyone else. don't worry about what over people think they are just jelious and just bullies. BEAT BULLYING follow the campagin. I have ...
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27 June 2007: ok i might just be seventeen years old but i have had some bad experiences in my life and i wish to share it with you. I was born on Monday 25 th june 1990 my real biological father didn't believe i was his so he had a bloo test it was proven i ...
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A. 12 October 2007: i believe that too, thank you for sharing your beliefs xxxxxxxxxx everyone needs a push forward and this is it. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
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