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I'm a 20 year old female and live in East Yorkshire (UK) area. Currently taking a gap year from education and should be heading for university this year to study Social Work :) Until recently, I was a part-time carer for my grandmother who suffered from Alzheimer's Disease.
I consider myself to be a caring individual and it gives me great satisfaction to help others in any way I can. This is why I love this website, it allows me to be my true self through offering advice that I feel would be most efficient for that particular person. I'm empathetic and non-judgemental, so I would recommend myself if you're looking for some guidance (without sounding big-headed lol). So do feel free to personal message me and I will be sure to get back to you asap. |
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I'm a shy, quiet person and wonder what volunteer or other opportunities I should explore?
Q. I am on Jobseeker's Allowance, which are benefits that we have here in the UK. I get these benefits from the jobcentre. I have been told my advisor at the jobcentre that I have to do some voluntary work soon. She said that I can choose where to ...
A. 25 April 2014: I do Befriending and I'm a fairly quiet person too. I really enjoy it and feel that i'm really making a difference to my friend's life.
Likewise with any new job opportunity, it is going to be anxiety-provoking to begin with. But sometime... (read in full...)
Should I tell him or wait?
Q. Hello, My boyfriend and I have know each other for two months now and have been together for one. We are perfect together. I know his the one. I wanted to tell him that I love him. I'm a little scared not because he doesn't feel that same I ...
A. 25 April 2014: If you're unsure whether to say those big three words, then don't. When the time is right you will know!
In the meantime though, you can SHOW him how you feel. Small, kind gestures go a long way :)
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Is telling him I love him a bad idea?
Q. I've liked a guy for about a year now and I'm starting to think I might be in 'love' but I've seen so many of my friends feel the same and get their hearts broken. I haven't told him about my feelings because I don't think he likes me, he's never in ...
A. 27 August 2011: Hey, I personally think this is a decision that only you can make for yourself. You have to weigh up whether admitting your feelings to this guy is worth the risk? You say you don't think he feels the same way, so before making any declaration ... (read in full...)
It's amazing when I'm with him but I don't want my heart broken
Q. About a month ago I was set up with my friends brother. He,s funny, cute and really romantic. we,ve been meeting up every other day and when i,m with him i feel amazing. You see i never had a proper relationship before and even though we,re not ...
A. 12 August 2011: People will often try to interfere where relationships are concerned. It's really immature, I've had it done to me and it really screwed up my chances with someone I was infatuated with. So what I would say is, unless this information has ... (read in full...)
What body type do ladies find attractive?
Q. Everyone will have a different answer, I know, but... what type of body do you girls like in an 18 year old lad? As in skinny, slim and toned, bulky or lots of softness? I'm doing a bit of weight training to get biger and just wondered what people ...
A. 12 August 2011: Me personally, I prefer a man to have broad shoulders and be fairly toned.
But to be honest, there is no need to change your appearance for the sake of attracting women! Be happy as you are :) ... (read in full...)
We broke up, I'm miserable, want him back, any suggestions??
Q. Me and my bf of 6 months broke up 2months ago and im still madly inlove with him i cant get him out my head im absolutely crazy about him He wont talk to me at all im running after him like a puppy dog text after text etc i know i shouldnt but i ca...
A. 8 August 2011: Hey again :) I don't know why but my response was has been altered slightly, you know towards the end where it refers to MY ex? lol. Not sure what's gone on there! But anyway... I really do think distancing yourself from him will do the world of ... (read in full...)
We broke up, I'm miserable, want him back, any suggestions??
Q. Me and my bf of 6 months broke up 2months ago and im still madly inlove with him i cant get him out my head im absolutely crazy about him He wont talk to me at all im running after him like a puppy dog text after text etc i know i shouldnt but i ca...
A. 7 August 2011: Breaking up with a man you love is never easy. I wanted my ex back for many months, I was devastated but within time it got easier and now I have met someone else. However, my situation is different because I was the one who got finished with! Fo... (read in full...)
We've been online dating for 2 years but have never met in person once....
Q. How long is too long for a no-contact LDR? When I say no contact, I mean no physical contact. At all. We've been 'dating' online for over 2 years and through that whole time we've never met in person once. I've tried, I've made trips to see him...
A. 7 August 2011: Two years is far too long, there comes a point where you need to draw the line. And you don't seem to mention how you feel about the guy? could it perhaps just be an infatuation rather than true love?
As other posters have said, this guy does not ... (read in full...)
Is he stringing me along?
Q. ok so i met this guy online in the beginning of the year he lives ina complete different state i started dating somebody else but as time went on i realized the more me and this lnog distance guy talked the more i liked him and developed feelings i ...
A. 7 August 2011: Hey there, I'm involved in a long distance too! We're not official, but are in love with each other.
As the previous poster expressed, being in love with someone you have never met is absolutely possible! If anyone tells you otherwise then take no n... (read in full...)
He broke up with me and I really want him back
Q. Okay so i have a really complicated situation.. a month ago my boyfriend (18) broke up with me (16) because i got 'too close' to another guy who just happens to be one of my good friends. I tried to explain to him that nothing happened but he said ...
A. 25 August 2010: Don't blame your boyfriend for breaking up with you, he had every reason to. I know it doesn't seem fair on your part because the close friendship you have with the other guy is purely innocent! But just look at the situation from your boyfriend's ... (read in full...)
What should I wear on my first date in 6 years!!?
Q. I need some style advice on what to wear on a first date (my first one in 6 years!). We're going out for lunch, just to a cafe...I'm thinking tshirt and jeans? But what do you think? Thanks :)...
A. 25 August 2010: Hello there!
My advice would be to wear something which makes you feel confident about yourself. Alot of people tend to go OTT when it comes to dates, such as wearing short mini skirts, high heels and tons of make-up... personally I think those peop... (read in full...)
If you love someone but don't have a clue wether they feel the same or not should you tell them.
Q. Hi, if you love someone but don't have a clue wether they feel the same or not should you tell them. What if the guy just freaks out? would telling him reduce your chances of ever being together? Please let me know what you think. what advantag...
A. 5 August 2010: I agree with CaringGuy, it is worth the risk.
Just don't come across too strongly because it could freak him out!
Best of luck xx... (read in full...)
Date for the first time - what to do
Q. Hey guys, just a quick question. I'm meeting this guy for the first time tomorrow and I have NO idea what to do. I don't know what to talk about - we've been texting a lot already so I know we do have quite a lot in common already but still - and I ...
A. 3 August 2010: Sometimes meeting someone for the first time is a really calming experience!!
I went on a date with a guy who i've been messaging for about 3 months and who I had never met before.
I was nervous beforehand, but when we met up - we just clicked!... (read in full...)
The guy I liked asked me out on a date to my total surprise but nerves have taken over, how can I calm down?
Q. ive been crazy about this one guy at school for a while now. hes gorgeous and everyone wants him but no one ever seems good enough for him and no one asks him out cos most people assume hes taken. he knows i like him but for a while he didnt seem ...
A. 28 July 2010: Oh, I know the feeling love.
I'm the same whenever I go on a date! I can't offer you a solution, but I find that it helps to exercise before you go on your date, which will release your nervous energy and make you feel calmer. A fast paced walk usua... (read in full...)
She won't have sex till she knows me better?
Q. Hello just a quick question, what does it mean when a girl says that she won't have sex with me untill she knows me better? does this imply she's after something deeper then just a 'one night of naughtiness?' or does it mean something else?...
A. 20 July 2010: Some girls prefer sex to be a 'meaningful act' with someone whom they have feelings for and know very well. It's a good thing - Make sure you respect her for it! ... (read in full...)
Do most girls shave down there? And how do you do it anyway?
Q. do most girls shave down there? do guys like shaved or hairy or trimmed? how do you shave it, dont the hairs get caught in the shaver?...
A. 18 July 2010: It's a personal choice. Some girls like to be natural and hairy, some like to be tidy and just keep their pubic hair trimmed and others like to be completely bare down there. Just do whatever you are comfortable with. It doesn't matter what ever... (read in full...)
Shyness and how to get rid of it?
Q. What causes shyness and how do you get rid of it? thanks. x...
A. 18 July 2010: I don't think there's a particular cause of shyness. I believe it's just a part of your personality!
I'm a bit shy myself! however, I used to be REALLY shy. But over the years i've grown in confidence and i'm no-where near as shy as I used to be! ... (read in full...)
Does giving her space spell the end?
Q. A few weeks ago, out the blue my fiance broke up with me saying she "needs space". She has also said a few other reasons like we don't have enough sex. This is a problem I thought we could either solve on our own or possibly go to a relationship ...
A. 16 July 2010: My ex-boyfriend broke up with me because he wanted space. I kept my hopes up that we'd get back together, but he hasnt come back to me after 3 months so i've given up on him.
It's really sad, but it's just one of those things :(
However, ... (read in full...)
Is he too old for me or should I continue to pursue him?
Q. Hi, I'm 14 in May and i really really like this guy in my school but he's 18 in August so there's four years between us, plus he's leaving school soon. I asked him out once and he said he would - IF i was his age. We're really good friends already ...
A. 26 March 2010: Hunni, at the age of 14... an 18 year old is definately too old for you! He is an adult and you are a still a child. I'm 18 and I wouldn't dream of dating a 14 year old, it just isn't right!
My boyfriend is 24, so there's a 6 year age gap betw... (read in full...)
I'm considering cancelling our date for fear of screwing things up, I'm so nervious! Help!
Q. what do i do?!? Ive just started dating a guy in college with me and hes the first real boyfriend Ive had to be honest. anyway he asked me to go out on a date with him on sunday but im worried i wont know how to act or what to say. im becomin...
A. 10 February 2010: it won't be as bad as you think :) I have some tips for you, to help with the nerves: - Try not to over think your date. Over thinking what you think will happen on your date will just lead you to become more nervous - Go for a jog beforehand. If... (read in full...)
Should I email him my feelings?
Q. I have recently noticed that I only have a few more months until I graduate from high school and my high school years come to a close. For those four years, I have had an obsessive crush on one of my teachers. I have thought of him every single day; ...
A. 10 February 2010: Oh god! you remind me SO much of me.
I beg of you not to do this, I made the biggest mistake of my life by telling a teacher how I felt, through a letter. I had the same thoughts as you, that it would give me some closure and help me to get over... (read in full...)
I need tips for first date conversations
Q. hi im going on a first date tomorrow we are both shy people with out alcohol and have only met face to face after a drink. please give me some tips and topics to talk about but nothing to cheesy as i am 18. i now i must be myself but what else wi...
A. 9 February 2010: If you're both shy then it is a necessity to prepare yourself a few topics to talk about to avoid those awkward silences. So you have done the right thing by asking this question :)
I'll tell you a bit about my first-date experience. I am quite sh... (read in full...)
Do women like ass hair? Need an answer for tonight!
Q. My question is for the woman out there. When your having sex with a man do you like it if they have ass hair or do you like it more when there is none? A quick answer would be good since i need a answer for tonight thanks....
A. 8 February 2010: It really depends on the individual, we all have our own preferences.
Personally, I really like hair on a man. As Griffo stated, body hair makes a man appear more masculin and this is something that turns alot of women on :) There is nothing ... (read in full...)
She says I am the best at eating her out but I want her to return the favour!
Q. I have been dating my girl for 10 months and she still refuses to give me a blow job, I mean she says I am the best at eating her out but I want her to return the favour. ...
A. 8 February 2010: Okay, I can see how unfair this may seem on you. You are giving her oral sexual pleasure and she refuses to return the favour!
I think you need to talk to her and ask her to reason why she won't give you a blowjob. Don't just accept the situatio... (read in full...)
Is feeling pregnant and bloated a good enough reason to ask for a test?
Q. i have a worrying problem...i think i might be pregnant. i am still having my periods but i feel as though i look pregnant. i havent had unprotected sex and i have taken a pregnancy test which was negative. i can't tell by my periods beca...
A. 7 February 2010: No-one will laugh at you, you are only being precautious. If you feel that there is any possible chance you could be pregnant then GO to the family planning centre, you can never be too careful! xxx... (read in full...)
He scares me with the things he says about sex!
Q. ok soo imm going to be 16 in 2 months. the guy im talking to will be 19 in 5 days. we have been talking on the phone and texting for about 2 months now. we`ve hung out 3 times. once in a group, once on our own, and then he came to watch me cheer one ...
A. 7 February 2010: He sounds like a psycho!!! He could very well be exagerating, it seems to me that he is bigging himself up so that you will have sex with him. I wouldn't be so concerned about the messages he's been texting you, they are not important compar... (read in full...)
How can I break up with him?
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months and at first it was great and I really liked him He kept telling me that I was his soul mate and he really loved me it was sweet at first but now its Starting to get annoying he wants to be with...
A. 21 January 2010: Firstly take a few deep breaths, it's never as bad as you think it will be!
I know the idea of breaking up with him appears scary but if you have decided that this is the right thing to do, then don't back out.
My situation was to similar to yours... (read in full...)
Is it ok to not have a boyfriend at 14? A friend in my class has had 45!
Q. Just wondering if its normal to be kinda frigid at 14? It's just that I have seen girls my age who have gone past the whole "shy" thing and are dating boys whenever they feel like.Theres a girl in my year who' had over 45 boyfriends. I ha...
A. 21 January 2010: You are not behind and it's absolutely fine not to have a boyfriend at your age, there is nothing to worry about.
Life isn't all about boys. I didn't even get my real first kiss until I was 16!
This friend of yours is not one to be inspired... (read in full...)
How old do you have to be before age doesn't matter?
Q. How old do you have to be before age doesnt matter? Im 22years old and i really like a girl who is only 17, 5years is a big difference at this age i think, although she doesnt act or look 17, i feel as though we are the same age but i know when we ...
A. 20 January 2010: Age is just a number, and in my opinion this age gap is absolutely fine!
But I think you should consider her parents feelings towards their daughter having a relationship with an older man like yourself. Make sure she talks to them about you, as i... (read in full...)
Am I too young to have a baby?
Q. Can I have some advice please. i'm 16 and with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. I have thought this through 100 times and all the aspects that need to be covered. I am also a trainee hairdresser, but I really want a baby. so does my boyfriend, ...
A. 11 January 2010: you're not too young hunny, but you've got your whole life ahead of you. Have you considered how much of your time will be consumed on raising your own child? as much as you would love your child and enjoy bonding with him/her, you want to live your ... (read in full...)
Attracted to another guy, but I love my boyfriend, help!
Q. I need help. I have a boyfriend who i have been dating for 11 months. i love him so much and i really don't want to lose him but a few days ago i went to my friends birthday party and there was this boy there who i have met a few times and have ...
A. 31 December 2009: To be attracted to someone else is okay, you're entitled to find other guys attractive. However, this attraction to the other guy could be an indication that you are not satisfied with your current relationship. Ask yourself if you are genuinel... (read in full...)
Why was my best mate saying horrible stuff about me?
Q. A while ago I moved, so I didn't know anyone. Then my sort of mate seemed to help me a little so then we became best mates, or at least that's what she called it. I never trusted her because of how two faced she is. In the past she's slept with 4 of ...
A. 23 December 2009: God, this girl has got serious issues. I had a friend like this, and i ditched her about 5 years ago. she had the nerve to start off a pathetic rumour about me and somehow got everyone to believe it; which resulted in me being 'made fun of' for many... (read in full...)
I haven't had my period since xmas...and I can't be pregant...is there something wrong?
Q. I dont really know how to say this.. im not really good at telling people things so here it goes... every girl is ment to get their periods monthly right? well thats wat someone told me... i havnt gotten mine since just after christmas. i thoug...
A. 1 September 2009: My friend was in this situation, she was very concerned so went to a GP and had a blood test. Turns out she has PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome) - type it into google for more info, but thankfully it isn't too serious apart from the risk of ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and might be pregnant! Help!!
Q. Ok. Im 14. And maybe pregnant. So i have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We are really in love and i know he's the one. My mom and dad both know we are having sex so they put me on the pill and got condoms. So almost a month ago now me and ...
A. 1 September 2009: Listen, you need to stop jumping to conclusions. I had nearly every pregnancy symptom that existed but it turned out to be pregnancy anxiety, where i was thinking about it so much that my body was reacting to the idea!! By each day i was more and... (read in full...)
I'm missing something during sex!
Q. My girlfriend is very sensitive about her body. I have managed to raise her confidence and she says during sex she is more open than with exes, but sill i´m missing something during sex. I have a few questions. She doesn´t want me to pleasure her ...
A. 6 August 2009: I suggest you just talk to her about this. Ask her what she likes, tell her what turns you on.
Sex is not only physical, it requires conversation. If you feel you're missing out on something then talk about it to her or you won't get anywhere with... (read in full...)
He says he likes me only as a friend, but he flirts with other girls who are only friends! So why not me?
Q. Hola :D So one of my best guy friends is a REAL BIG flirt. He flirts with every single girl 24/7. Although he doesn't flirt with me, he told me he thought I was cute once and on occasions he pinches my cheeks and tells me I'm funny, but he does it ...
A. 6 August 2009: I agree with what most posters have said; it would be unfair for him to flirt with you because it would mess with your emotions and he would be leading you on.
However, you could consider the possibility that he may not have you liked you back the... (read in full...)
Only a 3 day period-Could be pregnant?
Q. i always get my period at the first of every month, but in june i had a normal period but then on the 26 of june i had a three day period, am i pregnant, i have been experience uncomfortable sex, eating alot more, and the veins in my breast are now ...
A. 19 July 2009: Hmmmm it's not clear whether you're pregnant or not, as 'Starlights' stated it could just be your hormones.
Here is a website which gives a list of 10 top signs and symtpoms of pregnancy, see if you have any of them. http://w... (read in full...)
The first time....
Q. hi, i'm a virgin and i was just wondering how much blood there is when you have sex for the first time and does it come out during or after the event. ...
A. 16 July 2009: As already been stated; everyone is different.
In my experience; i bled (alot) during intercourse, and quite a bit afterwards too. It was the reason of bleeding that we stopped our sexual act on this occasion as it was quite a shock to see so much... (read in full...)
He's been seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant!
Q. I am in a relationship with a well known Scottish Football player. When I started the relationship I knew that he had a girlfriend but he said that he was going to split up with her which he did. I found it in October that he was seeing her again. ...
A. 16 July 2009: Don't feel any pressure to abort, you could be a great single mum. Obviously i advise that you have nothing to do with the father of the child, he has been dishonest and unfaithful to you and you deserve much better, he needs to be well and truly ... (read in full...)
Vomiting phobia.
Q. i am so terrified of being sick or seeing someone else sick. i have such a phobia of vomiting i cant take it anymore! out of everyone i know, im the one whos always feeling sick. helpppp! what can i do?? i need as many answers as possible. thanks....
A. 13 July 2009: i have this phobia too :/ i wish i could give you advice but i need it myself lol once my friend felt really ill at school so i left her standing on her own because i was scared she was going to be sick! how mean am I? lol but answers would be n... (read in full...)
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