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writes:Im 5’4’ and like a woman who is about 6'4" she has an athletic frame from sports and works out regularly. I can honestly say I like her figure and personality.im thinking about asking her out. Any advice for asking out a taller woman? Would a taller woman go out with a shorter guy? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2022): My husband and I have been married over forty years…he is much shorter than me.It does not matter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2022): Everyone is different but men tend to be more focused on and obsessed with looks and would be more likely to make a big issue out of this. Women tend to look at personality and brains, honesty etc first and looks later on. My guy is shorter than me. So what. What matters more is that he treats me well, is great company, smart, hard working, fair, reliable and loving. I've known guys to try it on with women and then say oh she did not want me because of.. .and then make excuses and blame something such as their height difference. Then they blame this "other thing" like the height difference when the truth was that he was much too old, they had nothing in common, she found him boring, he was a lazy good for nothing with debts, he was married or whatever. Ask yourself what you have going for you and what you have in common. Stop looking at that one thing that might put her off and look at the things that might make her keen on you. What are they? Don't say I am genuine. I have a great sense of humour. Anyone can say stuff like that
Specific, black and white things that not every man on the planet can claim to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2022): Sorry for my typo, I meant to say:
"Her answer has[to] be directly regarding you, your personality, and character; and rather or not she's attracted to you."
People make exceptions based on how they feel about you. There is no one-size fits-all answer to such a hypothetical question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2022): You would have to ask the particular taller-woman that you want to date. Her answer has be directly regarding you, your personality, and character; and rather or not she's attracted to you.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (29 January 2022):
 Its hard to answer that question, i don't think you will know anything until you ask her.
She might decide to go out with you, or she may decline your offer, but her declining your offer may not necessarily by anything to do with your height.
Bear in mind tho if she is 6'4, and you went out with her somewhere and she wore 4 inch heels she would be not far off of 7ft, would you be ok with this?.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 January 2022):
 Some would, some would not.
She might, she might not. Only way to know is to ask her out. If she declines it can be for MANY other reasons than your height.
Just accept a yes or a no gracefully and respectfully.
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