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writes:i am in a relationship wih this guy and i really like him we started dating after me and my ex broke up because my ex cheated on me and had 2 kids by 2 different girls during our relationship. the only thing is i have been secrectly seeing my ex and i think i am falling for him again, and i don't know what to do because we still really have love for each other and i feel really good when i am with him. the only thing is i am afraid that if i try to make it work again i am going to end up back in the same situation that i was in when we were together, and also i really love who i am with now because he is the father to my child.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (4 May 2010):
 You are messing with fire.
Go ahead and touch it, but you will get burned.
You are only asking for trouble getting involved with your ex. I bet you are bored in your current relationship and looking for some excitement. Well, look elsewhere.
He will only hurt you and leave you in tears.
Leave this guy alone. Be happy and grateful for what you have now.
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reader, tb4 +, writes (3 May 2010):
Your ex will hurt you again. Do not fall for it, 2kids with 2 different women he does not respect you. Stay in the relationship are in now. You have a child think about your child future. Make your relationship woek with the guy you are withe now. Your Ex do not worth your child loosing a father. Good Luck.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 May 2010):
You're cheating with the guy who has cheated on your TWICE and fathered TWO OTHER CHILDREN WHILE YOU WERE TOGETHER! He doesn't love you at all. Not one little bit. You're just being used AGAIN as you were before, and he's taking pleasure in it. Stop with this ex and start focusing on what matters here, because you are going to wind up with nothing at this rate except for a child who one day is going to be asking questions about why you left its Dad only to end up with another guy who then left you. No disrespect, but wake up and start looking at your ex for what he is. A cheat who will cheat again. Get back to your relationship, cut all contact with your ex and move on. Because if you don't, you'll lose your current boyfriend who will hate you, you'll then lose this worthless, useless ex of yours because he will cheat, and your child will one day turn against you because you can be sure that your current boyfriend will tell it the truth. You're on a losing battle here, and you will wind up with nothing but a bad reputation and everyone around you saying they told you so. Get away from this cheating ex.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 May 2010):
 How many times did you have to touch a hot stove before you realized it would burn you?
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reader, raiders +, writes (3 May 2010):
 You are cheating with a cheater. You have to stop and think how bad it hurt when you found out that your ex was cheating on you because this is exactly the pain you are going to cause your now boyfriend. Your cheating because you don't truly love your boyfriend and this is the reason why your ex boyfriend cheated on you because he really didn't love you. Are you willing to leave your baby daddy to be with this guy, Stop think and compare what your going to be loosing and what are you going to gain if you were to leave your faithful boyfriend to be with the cheater. And I also think you should be honest with your man and tell him what you been doing behind his back and maybe he will make the decision for you, and leave you so you can live freely with the other man.
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