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*n_love004
writes:Me and boyfriend recently broke-up because of the fact that he thinks he might be bi-sexual. We dated for a year and he was my high school sweetheart, he says that he's been physically and emotionally sick since the breakup but reassures me that the breakup is for the best. He also said that he will continue to fight being bi-sexual so that he can be with me becuase he really loved me and couldn't see life without me. The problem is I think that he has already made his decision to be bi-sexual. Should I wait around for him or just keep moving? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 May 2010):
 I don't think you should wait around for him. Go on with your life, hang out with friends, go on dates, just enjoy your youth. I hope he realizes that his bisexuality doesn't mean he can have a boyfriend and a girl simultaneously, cause it doesn't work that way.
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reader, rcn +, writes (5 May 2010):
 That would be up to you, and if you trust his love over this mixed sexual identity and if you love him as well. This may be a phase he's in, but who knows. I'd recommend counseling, not to condemn his bi-sexuality, but to sort out why he may be straight, then seeing the possibility of being bi-sexual.
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