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writes:What to think?...been together 4 yrs, having a crazy day and I was just getting ready for bed and he knows I have had a pinched nerve for a couple of days - I just asked him kindly could you please rub my neck for a few minutes and he says sorry and goes in the other room ... I'm at a loss -- "what a jerk!" is what I want to say but (Mod's note: OP did not post any more.) Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball +, writes (5 May 2010):
 I had a GF who always wanted backrubs and massages. Because it's a hobby of mine, I'd gladly oblige. One day, I had a really bad neck ache, the kind that burns like crazy when you even turn your head. I asked if she could give me a little neck rub and the answer I got was "nope." Just like that. "Lets go to dinner" was the next line out of her mouth. I think it was at that point I realized just how selfish she was. I started making note of all the selfish things she did. Guess what, we're not together anymore.
Relationships can't be one sided. He may have been having a bad day, and it could be innocent. It may be an indicator of a bigger problem. You need to ask yourself if this is a trend, or was it just a rare occurance.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 May 2010):
 That is just unloving and uncaring. You will have the chance to pay him back.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 May 2010):
 I'd get an electric heating pad if I were you, they work great on pinched nerves.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2010): Maybe he also had a crazy couple of days??? Just a thought. I mean just coz we ask nicely doesn't mean we have to always get what we want...
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