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writes: *OP`s own title* I am a 18 years old gay and I want to have a relationship. The problem is that I got turn off to a guy when i found out he's gay, specially i can easily detect a guy who is gay...the thing is that, I have so girlish attitude, but the weird thing is, I want boys stuff like playing computer games like Warcraft and online games and stuffs like that, I even have more straight guy friends and love to hang out with them just for fun not because they're hot but the reason that they are fun to hang out with than girls. Is just that, when it comes to "love" relationship thing, i want a straight guy, not gay guy (its freaking me out). But i know that it is impossible to have a straight guy fall in love with me. So i try a "she-male" like personality. I have my hair longed and comes to the point that I look like girl, if my pennis is gone then i would probably be one. After my girl looks, many of the guys ask me out, but because i was so girlish and shy I just refuse. I think to my self that "Hey, i look like a girl but now I'm starting to act like one". Well my point in denying their offers is that i want to find Mr. Right. I even did not believe that my crush want to have sex with me and just dump him (dunno why?).The question is that, how can i over come this girlish attitude, I once attracted to a gay guy but I often seeing my self flirting to straight guys. Please give me some advice.PS. I always think of having sex with guys but if someone ask me to, i refuse it. (I'm still a virgin) but want to be veginated . tooo confusing ????????
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reader, AvgGuy1  +, writes (7 May 2010):
 OK... Look. ALL gays are NOT nelly queens. You just need to find someone that's essentially hyper-masculine and gay. You might be looking in the wrong places.EyesWideOpen is right. You need to get out and experience more. And by all means - stop turning down the offers. You'll never find what you're really looking for... if you keep just window shopping. You're developing what could potentially become an unhealthy idealism of what you want in a guy and if you get to a point where you can't compromise (accept little defects - cause NO ONE is perfect - EVER) then you're only going to make yourself miserable in the long run.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010): read more gay romance manga.
it will help!!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 May 2010):
 Definitely too confusing. I think you need to find a "gay coach", you know someone who's gay and can show you the ropes so to speak.
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