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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 2years and we live together. We will be completely happy and then he will out of the blue comment that he finds my company boring and that its an issue, but if I suggest doing things he doesn't want to. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2013): Dump him, find someone who will appreciate being with you.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (4 September 2013):
 What a cheeky b*****d! He's chopping you down by calling you boring, lowering your self esteem. I'd say what So_Very_Confused suggests. Stand up to this rude idiot!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2013): He's the boring one! Why don't you tell him to give his stupid whimging a rest and get a hobby?! Other than saying hurtful and untrue things to his gf...
You're not boring... He wouldn't be sticking around if he truely tought that, he'd be making up some half arsed excuse to break up... Who's the one that NEVER does anything other than tell you how boring you are??
- amd who's the one who WANTS to do new things. That's the opposite of boring... the opposite of him!
Get rid of this melt, what a sad small individual... You don't need him 100%
Trust us!
Take care xx
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reader, shrodingerscat  +, writes (4 September 2013):
 Find a better boyfriend?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 September 2013):
 Tell him that only boring people get bored.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 September 2013):
 he says it's an issue. I'd ask him if it's a deal breaker.
if he says no tell him, 'well since you want to complain about it, and it's NOT a deal breaker, the next time you feel the need to complain about it you can go live somewhere else with someone less boring because your complaining about something but not wanting or trying to fix it is a deal breaker for me."
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