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writes:Um, I'm just worried, I touch myself quite a lot and I know that's not really a bad thing, is it?But I just wondered, I'm a virgin but when I have sex for the first time will the guy be able to tell that I touched myself? Reply to this Question
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (11 February 2008):
 any boy who thinks bad because of that, he is a hippocryt.
Personally i dont see why girls are so secrative about it, we sure arnt, it doesnt bother us.
Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): No way, you will be fine. He may get turned on in the future when you tell him about what you did to yourself.Stop worrying and enjoy life and your future.take carexx
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (11 February 2008):
 I don't think you have a firm enough grasp of human reproduction to be considering having sex just yet. You need to read up on the matter. Once informed you will know that there is no way a man could ever tell if a woman has ever masturbated or "touched" herself.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (11 February 2008):
 Hi
Nah i doubt it! But guys kinda go for that so i wouldnt worry! It certainly shouldnt bother them anyway.
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): No honey they won't be able to tell. And touching yourself a lot isn't a bad thing, as long as it doesn't over rule a relationship you might have in the future. Guys might get a little uncomfortable if they think what they do is exactly the same as what you do to yourself. They need to be able to make your orgasms special, and not just another thing that you feel all the time. So if you do get into a serious relationship, try and cut down on it, and save it all for him!
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reader, MissKin +, writes (11 February 2008):
 Hmm, im not sure. I guess if you finger yourself or do other such things you may be a bit looser and your hymen (if it wasn't broken before and if you even had one) may be broken, but guys DON'T really notice that. My boyfriend finds it a turn on to know that i masturbate a lot but it makes no real difference in that area. I don't think you have any need to worry. if they can tell it won't be a big deal i promise.
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