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writes:He says that i am forcing him to marry me. These are the words of a very strong man. Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 February 2008):
 Strong man indeed. How on earth in this day and age can you FORCE someone to marry? You live in good ole USA, for crying out loud and why would you even want to marry this guy anyway?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): It doesnt matter how strong he is, if he is not ready for marriage and you keep bringing it up then you are pressuring him. They are very strong words that suggest that at this point in time he simply doesnt want to marry you,
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 February 2008):
 He maybe strong physically but weak mentally. If you are coming on strongly , then you could appear to be forcing that issue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): Not much to go on here, but he sounds like he is feeding you a line of bs.....if he is a strong man you can't force him to marry you.....perhaps you would be best to hold off on the marriage talk and tell him you don't want to marry him, if ever, and ask him what it is he wants from you...perhaps he is afraid you only want the marriage and not HIM....ask him what he needs to feel safer in your relationship or ask him if he wants to be free...if he wants to be free then give him what he wants and dump him if you have gone through a lot of effort getting him to committ to you and been met with a whole lot of resistance.
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