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writes: Me and My boyfriend of 8 months decided to have sex for the first time last week. It was both of our first times and i enjoyed it but i feel that i have let him down as he is 2 years older than me. I feel that i have ruined it for him but he says 'It was good'But is that good enough? He said the other day that it was how he expected it and becoz it was with me he said it was defo how he expected. Also since, i feel a wet sensation and look in my knickers and i have wet myself only a little bit though. Does this mean i am pregnant?x Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): Well, piss can be anywhere between clear and green, with yellow the average. All depends on how dehydrated you are. Then more dehydrated, the darker it gets.
Any idea which hole it's coming out of? That would be useful information.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont know what it could be but it is yellow, what is it?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 April 2008):
Without birth control you could be pregnant and STILL pissed yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): Well in that case you're not pregnant - you've only pissed yourself!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe wetness, im not sure, i think it is urine
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (13 April 2008):
Hun, he enjoyed it lol.
the wetness could be because you think of sex and become aroused, therefore are wet x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): The wetness is probably either residual drips of semen, or maybe you're sexual appetite has been whetted and you're getting wet at the thought of having sex.
For a man, to put it bluntly, any fuck is a good fuck, irrespective of the ages of the participants.
Pregnancy? Possible. If you don't want to be, go and get the morning after pill from the chemists shop - and get yourself on the pill or make sure he uses a condom in future.
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reader, MissKin +, writes (13 April 2008):
Don't worry about if it was good or not. He enjoyed it. you enjoyed it. it takes practice - the more you obsess the worse off you'll be. just enjoy it and be open to learning. You can't expect to be amazing and perfect from the very start, your boyfriend knows this.
What do you mean you have 'wet' yourself a little? Is it urine? Or something else?
This wetness doesn't necessarily mean you're pregnant (depending on what it is) - it could just be natural juices from your vagina and is completely normal.
As for pregnancy? Did you use a condom? Are you on the pill? If you didn't use a condom or the pill - you cud be pregnant. You could also have a sexually transmitted infection or disease. Also, condoms aren't always affective so you could still be pregnant.
If you're worried simply take a test.
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