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writes:im really lost right now. my bf an i jst split a week ago i cant believe its over. we wer deeply in love but had our fair share of arguments. we had an argument an he dumped me an said he had enough. he was also ment to meet me friday 4 a chat. he promised he would but i havent herad feom him since. i dont get it how can he look me in the eye an tell me he loves me an doesnt want anyone else an cud never b witout me an d next minute b gone. i have since heard hes leaving the country 4 a year r so 2 get over me. how cud he b so cruel. he didnt even tell me 2 my face im destroyed Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): im tim the orignal asker we argued over him movin in he has promised 2 move in all i had 2 do was ask when i did he said no i got upset an ot went frm there wer both stubborn an insecure but when it was great it was brilliant he promised he wud never leave r give up on us wer soulmates i have bein goin 2 counselin 4 my issues he hasnt i have 2 kids frm a previous bad relationship an he has hurt them 2 he didnt even say goodbye how could he do this
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): Hi Sweetheart
Im so sorry this has happened you are going to grieve hunny and if like you say he is going away to get over you then there are deep feelings there on both sides..Did you row often? And had this been going on for awhile? As you two were so close I ask this as its obviously not something that has happened for no reason whatsoever...I no there is absolutly nothing I can say to make your pain go away all I can do is try and understand, Im going to send you a link hunny.....
http://www.dating-advice.uk.com/articles1/getting-over-it.shtml
Its very soon hunny after your breakup and the way it has happened with you both meaning to meet on the friday and that not happening has made things worse as there was hope and now in your heart you are left with none, But you can get over this, It may seem there is no way on earth you can right now but believe me you can, The link I have sent will help read it when you need to love and its going to hurt alot at first ok, If you need a chat at anytime hunny please message me dont go throuigh this pain alone...PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOTS OF LOVE AND HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 Some people just don't know how to break off a relationship. He's one of them. Maybe he didn't mean to be so hurtful but there it is. Time to pick yourself up and dust yourself off. Good luck, give it time, you'll be just fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): He probably couldn't take the arguments. I don't know what sort of character he is, but I could only imagine he couldn't take the pain anymore, and is going away to get away from you to free himself from his own loss. He is probabli grieving about it as much as you are. He probably didn't tell you just because he doesn't want to see you again, and needs to get over you - if he doesn't go away, he might feel trapped.It's not your fault. It's neither of your faults - from my impression - but maybe this is your chance to get over him as well? If you still love him, tell him before he goes. He's in the process of 'freeing' himself from you.Sorry I can't help much,Dan
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