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writes:Do young woman say 25 to 35 usually find men say 50 to 58 old and sexually unattractive? I find myself interested in a woman 35 but am not sure if she really feels anything for me sexually or is just being nice as a friend? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 April 2008):
 Do you have a lot of money? That sure can grease the skids for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): Hi, i am dating a guy who is 61 i am 25 and our relationship is fantastic. Sex is great, he is great for his age and he is really good to me. If she is being nice to you, its possible that she is attracted to you, why not ask her out for lunch and go from there. I have always like much older men and i reckon you are in with a chance, there is no reason why she would not be attracted to you, whatever your age. good luck and let us know how you get on please x
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reader, Isabella1974  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 Every individual has there preferences, I have always like older men, i dated a guy before who was 30 years older than me, we have a nice time, however, i wanted children and he had already done all that in his lifetime so did not want anymore. She is probably a nice person, I dont believe in the the statement from polarkite that people are "nice" for a reason, why is it that some men think that just because a women is friendly or nice that they are looking for something??? Older men can be very attractive, age really should not be an issue...good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): It came as a shock to me several years ago to find I had been 'used' for sex by a woman 20 years my junior. It happened again more recently but this time the age gap was 32 years!!! Yes, I know I was a lucky bastard but it goes to show that a) we oldies certainly aint washed-up sexually and b) some women think like men inasmuch as they can separate sex from love. So yes, it is very possible your woman could well be interested in having a sexual relationship with you but don't assume that she considers you anything other than a sex buddy. Good luck.
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reader, polarkite +, writes (11 April 2008):
 It's unlikely, but it can happen. Watch the movie "As Good as it Gets."
You could just tell her how you feel and see what happens. She probably likes you on some level. Usually people are "nice" for a reason.
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 I am 40 years old and personally I go for guys between the ages of 29-42, because I am only attracted to guys of that age group.
Everybody has their personal preferences when it comes to age of their potential partner. What ever you do please do not freak this woman out and assume because she is nice to you that she wants to have sex with you. Get to know her as a person and I'm sure you will know in time whether she is attracted to you or not. Good luck, Dusky xxx.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (11 April 2008):
 As a 60-year-old man beginning to show the wear and tear of the years, I share your concern that much younger women generally dismiss us older guys quickly, and for me, it is okay because there are plenty of available women closer to my age. But if you fancy a 35-year-old, you should not assume that she would never consider romance with you if she is at least "being nice" to you. Dating can occur often between older men and even much younger women, but most are not very open minded or adventurous. Still, give it a chance but do not be the least bit depressed if it fizzles.
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