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reader, onlyavamp  +, writes (9 September 2008):
it depends. if u think he'd b into "rougher" sex then hold him a little tighter...go faster it uslaly speeds him up...because usualy fast cumming is bad...but after a while ur arm hurts. but w/e
he wont b disapointed he'll b estatic at the fact that ur even trying
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (15 April 2008):
 I agree, no sex tips to children.
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reader, BigSis  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 I'd be more than happy to tell you exactly how to do it.......in a couple of years.
Until then, you take care.
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (15 April 2008):
 Hiya
I dont think there are any tricks to the trade. As my husband says yeah giving himself a handjob is good but it always feels better if someone else is doing it for you.
Its a hard one really and in a way can seem boring after all your just moving your hand up and down. So why not invl=olve other parts of your body to it. Your breasts, clit alothough not entering as intercourse. Try when giving him a hand job to rub the end of his penis on the tip of your nipple.
All you have to do is use your imagination.
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reader, sarahisgreat123 +, writes (15 April 2008):
sarahisgreat123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok that sort of helps... i mean i think my main worry is that he probably knows how to do it to himself best bcuz he has plenty of practice and i will just be a dissapointment... are there any tricks to the trade?
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (12 April 2008):
There is no right and wrong way to give a hand job. Its a case of trying out somthings and seeing how your partner reacts to them. Holding to tight can be a problem. I generally find it best to hold it so that it can move up and down the shaft with ease but also with a little pressure. Most people go from top to bottom. If your partner has a foreskin the thing to remember is that the whole process is about rubbing the head. With the foreskin pulling back and then back over the head its causing a pressure a little like intercourse on the head of the penis this is what generally turns them on.
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