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writes:I was tidying the house earlier this week, and was surprised to find my hubby's mobile phone had fell down the back of the sofa.It wasn't the phone that shocked me, but what was on it that did - a picture of my dad in his undies flashed up on the phone screen.When he came home from work, I confronted him with the evidence and tried to find out why he had the photo, asking him, but he just wouldn't discuss it. He said "it's nothing to do with you".I don't get it. It makes me shudder just thinking about it.The situation's getting me stressed and upset, and communication between us just isn't happening - how do I get him to discuss the issue?Something's going on, I can feel it, but I don't know what exactly.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 I hope he doesn't punch your hubby in the nose for taking the picture...wait a minute...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): Ginalolabrigda,
the photo didn't look posed, it looked more like he didn't even notice it.
Astonishingly they seem to behave as normal towards each other, if there is even such a thing as normal.
I will try and discuss this with my dad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): something is going on with your hubby, and yes it has everything to do with you.
from now on be more observant regarding hubby and your dad. are they too friendly or are they deliberately keeping their distance from each other, any strange looks bet them??? You just have to sure that there is nothing really going on bet them.
whether the photo is posed or not, there is a bad element surrounding this situation. somehow you have to tackle your hubby and get to the bottom of this.
Good luck.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 April 2009):
I wouldn't talk to Dad if it looks like it was taken without his knowledge. Boy this is a toughy, I guess I would just table this for awhile but keep my eyes open. It's too bad he won't talk to you about this. Perhaps it's a harmless albeit creepy fantasy. Is your marriage pretty solid otherwise?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): I saw the photo, it didn't look posed. My husband's never shown any gay/bisexual inclinations, so I've no idea why he's doing this.
I would speak to my dad about it, but he would be embarrassed if he knew about it. I don't know how to broach the topic with him.
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reader, Macker  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 hey
if you cannot confront your other half maybe you should speak to your father. as hurtful as the situation maay be and you may hear things you dont want to. you need piece of mind and you deserve an explanation. your husband is being quite weird and selfish.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 April 2009):
Yikes, that's weird! Does it look like your Dad posed for the picture or does it look like maybe your hubby snapped it without your Dad knowing? If it looks posed then ask your Dad what's going on, you may or may not get an answer but I agree something is going on here. Has your husband ever given you any vibes that he may be Bi or Gay?
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