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I'm 16, dating a 20 year old with a baby?

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Question - (1 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 April 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *he vampire lestat writes:

hi my name is brian and i am 16 going on 17 i have a 20 year old girlfriend and my question is .. should i be dating her if she's 20 and has a baby boy?... and yet i still love her and her son?... so i am asking for your opinions so please send me your replies thank you

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (7 April 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntMarried too, yeah that's BIG part. So not only is she breaking the law having sex with you she is breaking her marriage vows as well. In your other post you say she is going into the army and will be gone 5 1/2 months. Great! Use that time to get your head screwed on right.

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A male reader, the vampire lestat United States +, writes (7 April 2009):

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the vampire lestat agony auntthank you for giving me your opinions but i forgot one big part shes married and we are having sex now the question is the same but with something i forgot to put in 2 my question when i 1st posted it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009):

Nope, she wont go to prison if your dating is not sexual. You can choose to wait until you turn 18, to take ur relationship to sexual level. Personally I believe that this statutory rape thing is ridiculous and it takes the seriousness out of the word "rape." Uninformed consent to sex can never be equal to the horror of a rape. But we cant argue with law. As long as it is there, we are obliged to obey it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009):

No you shouldn't be dating her. She can go to prison for statutory rape.

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A female reader, pinktink1 United Kingdom +, writes (1 April 2009):

If ur happy then thats all that matters!!! only u can decide if its right for u or not. Good luck and i hope it works out 4 u x

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