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Hi,

Ever since I can remember people have always fascinated me. I seemed to be very adept at solving people’s “life” problems and I never tired of the constant flow of friends asking for my help. I have always been a great listener and have a lot of patience and empathy for people and have written for advice columns in the past.

I am a Relationships Councillor and Life Coach and have a special aptitude with people. I have been active on this site for a number of years. I'm very much a positive thinker and hate being around negative people. Life is for living, it's too short to moan all the time. I'm determined, very spiritual, grounded, independent, strong willed and love life. Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.

If you realized just how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.

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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   31 May 2007: Tell him to move out, (sooner rather than later or it might be YOU he hits next time,) give him the divorce and let him see his son, he has that right (as long as he sees him sober.) Eve... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   25 March 2007: You KNOW the answer, you said so yourself, you just need to put it into practise. For one, you admitted you have too much time on your hands and are bored. You're using this time to get on his bad side. I would advise you to find something to ... (read in full...)

How do I tell him I'm still a virgin at 21?

Q.   Here is my problem. I'm a 21 year old virgin. The fact i've remained so is a mystery even to me. Mostly it's because I never let guys get beyond the first few dates, I go out and lose interest. But my biggest problem is that all my friends and even ...

A.   12 March 2007: Ask him how old he was when he lost HIS virginity. Then, when he asks you, you can say... "I haven't lost mines yet, the right man just hasn't came along yet." I don't think he'll think you're a freak at all, I think he'll feel very proud of you ... (read in full...)

Do you think I should ask him to cheat on her with me again?

Q.   Hey, Im 14 and I really like this guy who's a year older than me. He went out with this girl a month or two ago but he really liked me and we were going to organise it so we could see each other without her knowing. Please don't tell me that was...

A.   11 March 2007: Why would you want to be with a guy who cheats on his girlfriend? If he cheats on her, do you think he'll be faithful to you? Would you not prefer to have a guy that likes you and you alone? Have a bit of respect for yourself and stop throwing ... (read in full...)

I think I just told my mate's boyfriend something I shouldn't have! Should I have kept my mouth shut?

Q.   omg i just told my mates boyfriend ( who's also my mate) that last night she went on msn and watched some 20 year old wank on webcam . do you think i did the rite thing , they might not break up over it , but it is possible ! x x ...

A.   10 March 2007: What on earth would you want to tell him something like that for? Whether she did or not, it was wrong for you to give this information to her boyfriend knowing it might cause an argument between them. What she gets up to is her own business and ... (read in full...)

what does it mean when a teacher strokes your hair and is always looking at you?

Q.   what does it mean when a teacher strokes your hair and is always looking at you? i'm a female high school student and that has happened to me. she is a female teacher. what does it mean when she does that? is she attracted to me?...

A.   10 March 2007: No, it doesn't necessarily mean she's attracted to you, she might just be admiring your hair or you might remind her of someone she knows, a neice for example. Women are full of emotions, I would just brush it off and think nothing more about it. ... (read in full...)

How do I tell him I'm still a virgin at 21?

Q.   Here is my problem. I'm a 21 year old virgin. The fact i've remained so is a mystery even to me. Mostly it's because I never let guys get beyond the first few dates, I go out and lose interest. But my biggest problem is that all my friends and even ...

A.   10 March 2007: Just take it one step at a time with this guy. I think he'll feel really good you haven't lost your virginity at 21. Don't feel embarrassed about it at all and don't make a big deal of it, just let things happen naturally when the time is right. ... (read in full...)

I feel as though I'm losing all my friends because they're "doing it" and I'm not...

Q.   Hi.. It seems as though all my friends are doing it and I'm not. We're all around 13/14 and the girls that have done it are slowly forming their own clique, becoming cool. I feel as though i'm losing all my friends! I'm wondering how to deal with ...

A.   10 March 2007: So you're now ready for sex... because all your friends are "doing it???" Come on, don't be pressured into thinking that having sex with a guy will make you cool, it won't! It will make you confused, vulnerable, emotional and even sore but it ... (read in full...)

I get unnerved and disturbed by the fact that someone finds me sexually attractive.

Q.   I get unnerved and disturbed by the fact that someone finds me sexually attractive. I start to form bad judgement about the person concerned. I am a single guy 25 yrs old. Please advice. ...

A.   10 March 2007: You sound as if you lack confidence and self esteem. Why do you find this so unnerving? Do YOU not see yourself that way? Eve... (read in full...)

I think she's wanting sex but we've only been going out for a month. I think this is way too fast but how do I tell her without losing her?

Q.   Yo...ive been dating this girl for about a month and i think she wants to have sex and ive been in a relationship where we moved too fast and it tore us apart ....i really like this girl and i dont want to lose her....i want to tell her but i dont ...

A.   10 March 2007: Be honest with her! Let her know you think she's moving way too fast (you don't need to mention past relationships if you don't feel comfortable doing that.) Be assertive and say to her you want to get to know her better before you rush into ... (read in full...)

After 3 years she said she needs a break, 2 days later and she sleeps with another guy! How can I get her back again?

Q.   i was seeing a girl for 3 years and one day she says she needs a break. then she sleeps with another guy two days later. Its been 3 weeks now and i still love and miss her what can i do to get her back? if anything?...

A.   10 March 2007: She's told you she needed a break but I bet she's been wanting to say that to you for ages? Seems to me, this relationship has run it's course I'm afraid. She may even have been seeing this other man while you were together and only now after the ... (read in full...)

What do I do to make her feel more comfortable with me and not feel smothered?

Q.   I have been raised to treat women with care and respect. I show it all the time and she says she feel smothered in my Love what do I need to do to make her feel more comfortable with me and not feel like that with me, we eventually want to get ...

A.   10 March 2007: Women like a bit of a challenge, I would back off a little bit, don't be the first to contact her, let HER contact you! Have opinions and don't ask her what she wants to do all the time. Sometimes a guy can be too nice. Next time she calls you up ... (read in full...)

He keeps blowing hot and cold all the time, does he want to be with me or not?

Q.   mixed signals, my friend split up with this guy, who i really like. he started to text me flirty texts n says he likes me. i asked him out, and he said that he needed time to sort his head out. so i left it a few days n text him, he was back to ...

A.   10 March 2007: I think he's enjoying the attention from you but doesn't want to take it further. He's not long out of a relationship so he may just want to play the field for a while. However he knows you like him, back off for a bit now and let him sort himself ... (read in full...)

I dreamed my bf was stroking another girl's hair! What does it mean?

Q.   hi! i had a dream about my bf last night. (we have been together for 2 and a half months and are both 16). the dream was of him stroking this girl from my schools, hair. she is very popular and would never take any interest in my bf (no offence to ...

A.   10 March 2007: To see hair in your dream usually signifies sexual virility, seduction, sensuality, vanity, and health. It is indicative of your attitudes. Her hair was knotted or tangled, then it is symbolising uncertainty and confusion in your life. You may be ... (read in full...)

What jealousy like?

Q.   hi what are the reasons to getting jealous of your ex-boyfriend?? any ideas?? what is jealousy like?...

A.   9 March 2007: Feelings such as jealousy are based on fear and do not come from love at all, we say we feel like this BECAUSE we love the person but this isn't the case at all. Jealousy comes from wanting to possess and wanting to own or have. One cannot own ... (read in full...)

I pay for everything, he has no qualms spending my money, my mum disapproves, will he change ?

Q.   I met a guy while I was in the West Indies on holiday through my aunt. he bascially is a taxi driver but he close to my Aunt.feelings started to happen when we spent a day together.On my return i rang as I could not get him out of my head.He was ...

A.   9 March 2007: Nothing is going to come out of this relationship. He is using you love. Yes, he calls you from time to time, if he doesn't show a little bit of interest then he won't get paid will he? I think you are mad to go all that way, whether he pays the ... (read in full...)

I dont want to get rejected, can you tell by eye contact if she likes you!?

Q.   i really like this girl. sometimes i feel like asking her out, but i'm not sure if she likes me. i dont wanna get rejected! i want to go somewhere with, she will bring her mate along. but dunno how to ask. we barely talk in school but talk fine on ...

A.   9 March 2007: The thing about MSN is you CAN'T have eye contact with them and they can tell you or be anything online. The best thing to do is to hang around with her for a little while. Eye contact is a way to know if she likes you, if you go up and say hi ... (read in full...)

Is he the right guy for me? He seems to show some interest, but not sure exactly.

Q.   Hello - I wonder if somone can advise me: I have recently started some dance classes. At the beginning the thought of getting into a relationship with the teacher there did not cross my mind. However I am now getting distint vibes that he likes me...

A.   9 March 2007: Is he married at all? What kind of references does he make about being gay? Eve... (read in full...)

Should I follow my heart or move on?

Q.   Today i almost got killed when i was at work. the only thing that i could think of was my ex girlfriend. we broke up 5 weeks ago and ive been thinking about trying to get back together with her before this happened. and now i dont know if i should ...

A.   9 March 2007: I agree with Pete here, make sure it's not the shock of the accident that made you feel this way. Let a few days pass then if you still want to, call her and let her know what happened. Let her know you were thinking of her and just wanted to know ... (read in full...)

Im 17 have a 12month old and am 5 Months pregnant, I love my fiance, but cant get over my childhood sweetheart!!

Q.   hi im 17 i have a 12 month old daughter and im 5 months pregnant im engaged to a wonderful man but im still in love with my childhood sweetheart of 2 years we split up because i moved but we still keep in touch and i love still love him. i also love ...

A.   9 March 2007: If I were you I'd stay in the relationship you're in. You have a responsibilities just now as a mother and your fiancee. At least give it a try, you said you loved him so put this other boy out of your head. If you don't you're going to end up ... (read in full...)

How do I get to know the guy I like better??

Q.   I'm 15 and i don't have any experience with guys, except friendships. since i'm quiet, i don't really talk to people except when i have to. I also feel worthless and overweight. However, my family and friends say that i'm mature, responsi...

A.   9 March 2007: Continue being friends with him and ask him casually if he fancies going to the squash, badminton (or whatever you like to do sports wise) together? Take it slowly and just get to know him better. Doing sporting activities together will help you ... (read in full...)

I cheated on my guy of 4years, I dont want to leave him, but I want to be with the other guy too!!

Q.   hey i cheated on my bf of four years recently with a man that ive been in love w/ for almost 10 years. me and the other man had gone out off and on for a long time then we lost touch and got back together. he has a gf too. i don't feel guilty e...

A.   9 March 2007: Okay, you stay with your boyfriend and hurt him like hell! Either that or you tell him you would like to continue seeing him but you want to see other people too and he is free to do the same. Tell him you want an open relationship. Eve... (read in full...)

Shes avoiding me and I dont know why, should I try and talk to her again !?

Q.   Hi, There's this girl that I've liked for a while, but never had the guts to talk to her...until recently. She's a shy girl just like I thought, and I'm a pretty shy guy too =/ Nonetheless, I atleast got her name and got to know her a bit better...

A.   9 March 2007: If she's avoiding you and you're not finding her in the same places I take it she's trying to tell you "nicely" she just doesn't fancy you so I would leave it. Try again in a couple of years time once you assert yourself more. Eve... (read in full...)

My husband doesn't support my business, nor does he does anything at home either!

Q.   My husband does not support me. I am starting a business for our family to be self-sufficient and he does not want to have anything to do with it. He does not want to talk about it with me or comment. He just does not seem to care. This really ...

A.   9 March 2007: Does he hold a full time job at the moment? How old are your kids? How long have you both been married? Eve... (read in full...)

How do you break up with someone without hurting them ?

Q.   How do you break up with someone, after being in love, without destroying them? They still feel it for you as strong as ever, and you still love and care about them, and don't want to hurt them...? TaMuch...

A.   9 March 2007: Then tell her that. "Things have change, WE'VE changed, we're not the same people any more." That is one of the reasons we go into a relationship with someone, to find out if we're compatible and with time, you've obviously seen that although ... (read in full...)

We're much better off now but I still act as if we're living on a shoe string budget. How can I stop feeling like this?

Q.   Hi. I'll try to make this breif :) My fiancee and I live together, and thus we share the finances. He recently got a new job and a promotion to Case Manager, which means he makes 14$ an hour. He works 30-40 hours overtime also, and so is bringing h...

A.   9 March 2007: Just enjoy being able to splash out once in a while but still keep an eye on things. Now that he's earning more money it might be a good idea to have a savings account of your own so that you can put money away for emergencies. That way if there ... (read in full...)

She still wants to be friends but still wants to be single... how do I cope with this?

Q.   my x girlfriend says she still has feelings for me but wants to be single i told her i couldnt be her friend ave invited her to mine on tue should i tell her that i want her back at the risk of her saying no she still wants to be single but she ...

A.   9 March 2007: If you've told her you feel you can't just be friends with her then why on earth have you invited her over to your house on Tuesday? You obviously want to ask her back but you're only going to end up with egg on your face as she's already told you ... (read in full...)

How can i let a friend whose just admitted their feelings towards me down gently without hurting them or ruining our friendship?

Q.   how can i let a friend whose just admitted their feelings towards me down gently without hurting them or ruining our friendship?...

A.   9 March 2007: Let him know that you really value his friendship but you can honestly never see each other as more than friends, you just don't have feelings for him as a lover, but more like a brother and a best mate and that's why you love his friendship so ... (read in full...)

This is the first time I've been in a relationship. How can I make this relationship work?

Q.   i have a girlfriend who is older than i and this is my first time in a relationship. i need some tips on how to make the relationship work i also need to know how a girl feels when she is in love ...

A.   9 March 2007: You just need to be yourself. Ask her about herself and be a good listener as women love to talk. Always be one step ahead and surprise her when she least expects it. Never pull her down in company and never laugh at her expense. Look after yo... (read in full...)

Can you give me some tips to get over this girl once and for all?

Q.   AA Scenario: i was been going out with this girl for 2 years. 6 months ago she went on holiday and had a bit of a holiday romance wiv anutha guy. i was devastated, but eventually got over it and got back together with her. in january i introd...

A.   9 March 2007: Time is the best healer here. Just keep yourself busy and put her out of your mind. She wasn't right for you, she was a liar and a cheat, it would never have worked out, she had no respect for you or she'd never have cheated. When you confronted ... (read in full...)

My ex and I share the same friends and now he's with someone else. Should I ask my friends about her?

Q.   Please help. My boyfriend dumped me just before christmas after two and a half years. It was horrendous, but I got on with it and feel better about things now. We were long distance, but met through his best friend, who is married to my best frien...

A.   9 March 2007: Hearing that he's with someone else now just brought it home to you that your relationship is in fact, finally over so it's normal for you to feel the way you did. Let your friends know that you hope he'll be happy with her and that you've long ... (read in full...)

Am I being selfish wanting to wait or is she trying to control my life?

Q.   I am 21 and this is my 2nd real relationship the last one lasted 5 years before we sort of moved apart (they were a lot older then me). i was in love and we had a great time, we were committed but i always enjoyed freedom to spend with other friends ...

A.   9 March 2007: You're not being unreasonable wanting to go this holiday with your friend whether it's been paid for or not. She IS trying to control you here, she's also jealous of you and your friend and she wants to be first in your life. You need to sit down ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   9 March 2007: I would meet with him. When he does come to the house then let him know you're glad he wanted to talk because YOU wanted to talk too. Then let him know that you had already decided that him moving back was NOT going to happen. YOU had changed your ... (read in full...)

How do you break up with someone without hurting them ?

Q.   How do you break up with someone, after being in love, without destroying them? They still feel it for you as strong as ever, and you still love and care about them, and don't want to hurt them...? TaMuch...

A.   9 March 2007: The best thing to do is sit down and talk to them. Tell them that you like and respect them as a person but it just isn't working out, you see them more as a friend that a lover. Here is a link that will help you too. h... (read in full...)

My gf and I are sort of together, but I get on well with another. Should I pursue her instead?

Q.   Hello, I am wondering if you could help me. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and things have started to get a bit 'bumpy'. We are sort of together at the moment but sort of not. There is this other girl who i really like and ...

A.   9 March 2007: You're young and will go through a few girlfriends before you settle down with the right one. If you still have feelings for your girlfriend and she doesn't annoy you too much then stick with her. If you're a bit bored with the girlfriend and find ... (read in full...)

I have so many questions here. Thank you for reading and answering them.

Q.   Hi all. sorry is i've been asking SOO many questions latly, but this site is the only place i can talk 2. look at my other questions before reading this. and about the jealousy of my brother being cooler that me, well now it's driving me insne...

A.   9 March 2007: Wow! An old head on young shoulders or what? Your brother is making you paranoid here saying he's cool and you're not. You sound a lovely guy and you certainly don't seem to be stuck for words! lol So what if you like computers, that makes yo... (read in full...)

My bf wants to try bondage. What do you all think?

Q.   My boyfriend wants to try bondage and im a bit nervous. What do you lot think about it? how do i really start it off? do i have to get into charcter? sorry i aint got a clue....

A.   9 March 2007: My advice to you would be to sit with him first of all and ask him exactly what he expects of these bondage sessions. Don't just jump in there. Talk about it first. Go on the net together and let him show you the kind of things he means. Ask him ... (read in full...)

He can never say no to this guy, how can I get him to spend some time with me?

Q.   i have been dating a man for 2yrs. and 3 months. a relative of his is always asking him to go fishing with him. i don't mind the fishing but i do mind when its anywhere from 3 nights to 7 nights that he is gonel his relative has been married for ...

A.   9 March 2007: If his friend ever asks him to go fishing again then tell him to say he'll let him know but wants to run it past you first just in case you had anything planned. Let him know you don't mind him going every now and again but you feel invisible to ... (read in full...)

Should i text him again although its been a month saying that i want to be mates with him or should i try and forget him?

Q.   hi all im really stuck me and this guy a few months ago meet up and talked and seemed to get on well , we met up a few times and drank and chat and become mates , but after a few meets we ended up having sex and we still decided to stay mates ...

A.   9 March 2007: MOVE FORWARD! Never move backwards in life, always move forwards. You have more feelings for him than he has for you, he'd only hurt you. If you want to be hurt then text him but I say forget him love and move on! Eve... (read in full...)

How do you know when someone is right for you?

Q.   How do you know when you are right for each other? This is just a general question to see what other people's experiences and advice has to offer. I don't believe in "soul mates" at all and I do think that there can be more than one person who i...

A.   9 March 2007: If you are right for one another then you respect them for who they are, warts and all. You want to look after them and protect them, you look out for them and put them first. You feel happy and content in their company and enjoy being together. ... (read in full...)

We've been fighting a lot lately, how can I stand up to her?

Q.   hey, im a guy, 15 yrs old. me and my girlfriend have been fighting a lot lately. i mean, im trying to be helpful and trying to help, but she is stubborn and doesnt think things can be fixed. i do though. and i dont want to lose her. she is the love ...

A.   9 March 2007: I would put your foot down here and be more assertive. Let her know you love her but if she feels she can't trust you then she might be better looking for someone else she thinks can! Don't be a doormat to her. Let her make the first moves with ... (read in full...)

Should I ask her out? Do you think she would say yes?

Q.   I like this girl she is in the eighth grade I am in the Ninth and I really like her in fact I think she is the hottest girl on earth and I am afriad I am to ugly for her.I have some acne and a little chubby ...

A.   8 March 2007: As long as you have a nice personality and are friendly then that's the main thing. I suggest you try and become friends with her first. You never know, you might not like HER once you get to know her a bit better. Start off as friends and see ... (read in full...)

He is 7 years older than me and I like him a lot but my parents don't like him, should I go out with him?

Q.   hy my question is what should i do if my boydriend is 7 years older than me and my parents dont like him should i go out with him even though i love him a lot....

A.   8 March 2007: Your parents are only trying to protect you love. You are still a child and your parents know what boys of 17 can be like! I suggest you listen to your parents and do the normal things that girls your age do. Go out with your friends, have fun ... (read in full...)

He has so many issues I don't know if he's sincere or not... what do you reckon?

Q.   I have been seeing a man for almost 3 years, he tells me he loves me but I just don't feel it. I also found dating sites he has been on. I really love him and keep thinking that he loves me too. I just feel like he is hanging on to me until he ...

A.   8 March 2007: Why would you even consider settling down with this man when he has as you said "so many issues?" In my opinion this man is holding you back. You are at the prime of your life just now and could be doing something with your life, finding yourself ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   6 March 2007: I was shocked to hear how you just rolled over and let him back into your home so easily! Things OBVIOUSLY aren't going well with this other woman but do you really want him back in the house the way things stand? Do you realise the life you're ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   21 February 2007: Keep yourself looking your best, go out and meet other people (like your city friend) it will keep your confidence boosted and that's what you need right now. Continue to let your ex husband see that there is more to life than HIM! Try and ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   18 February 2007: Hey if you want this to work you need to listen to my advice! How many times did I tell you to play it cool with him, being friendly without being needy! The minute you get by yourself you call him and ask him over????? Jeeeeeeeeeeze.... wake up ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   12 February 2007: Oh dear, what a weekend you had. Nothing worse than being with someone you want so much and them to treat you this way. You have to resort to the fact he's made his mind up. "You can take a horse to the water but you can't make it drink." You've ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   9 February 2007: I think you're doing great! You could have flown at him a number of times yet you've kept it together EVEN with your cold so well done there! DON'T ask him to stay over. When he comes to visit be friendly and pleasant. Remember, the plan is to ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   31 January 2007: Next time he comes over tell you you're sorry for being such a bitch to him and if you could turn the clock back you would. For the sake of your son though you want to be able to be friends with him and hope he agrees. If you prove by your ACTIONS ... (read in full...)

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