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writes:Hello, I am wondering if you could help me. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and things have started to get a bit 'bumpy'. We are sort of together at the moment but sort of not. There is this other girl who i really like and get on well with but im ot sure what to do. Pursue the new girl or stick to my girlfriend.If you could please advice it would be most appreciated.Yours, D Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve +, writes (9 March 2007):
 You're young and will go through a few girlfriends before you settle down with the right one. If you still have feelings for your girlfriend and she doesn't annoy you too much then stick with her. If you're a bit bored with the girlfriend and find you're arguing too much then call time and move on.
Start as friends with this other girl though, don't just jump from one to another as this won't look good and will help your (ex) girlfriend save face a bit.
Eve
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (8 March 2007):
 You must decide which one you really want to be with and stick to your decision.
It is not fair on any of you to carry on this way.
If your relationship is not working out and you did try to improve it with your partner then you must break up before getting involved with another.
Hope things work out for you.
Angel of Love
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 I think you should tell your girlfriend its over and go after this girl you really like. Everyone wants to be happy and if this girl can do that then go for it. Let your girlfriend know its over before you go after this other girl as she deserves that. You never know maybe she has had enough of the relationship as well.
Good luck
Aunty t
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reader, Bling  +, writes (8 March 2007):
Stick to your girlfriend you know.You might choose the other new girl and regret it. Can`t leave sure for unsure.
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reader, kenny +, writes (8 March 2007):
 Ok so you have been with you current girlfriend for two years and things are getting a little bumpy. If you really like this other girl, which it sounds like you do, finish it with your girlfriend before you make any moves with this other girl. Going on what you have writen i would say go after the other girl, but make sure you are upfront and honest with you current girlfriend, don't string her along or think about two timing her.
Good luck
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