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writes:hi all im really stuck me and this guy a few months ago meet up and talked and seemed to get on well , we met up a few times and drank and chat and become mates , but after a few meets we ended up having sex and we still decided to stay mates so anyway i wanted more and he agreed at first then changed his mind saying he met someone in birmingham and could be seriouse , but we can be mates . i told him i cant be mates as i liked you more then a mate . and he said ok bye but the only thing is i really miss him as a mate , now should i text him again although its been a month saying that i want to be mates with him or should i try and forget him
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 I dont think that texting him will do any good. He has moved on and met someone else. I think that you should do the same especially as you have such strong feeling for him. I know you miss him terribly but in time you will get over him.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (9 March 2007):
 MOVE FORWARD! Never move backwards in life, always move forwards. You have more feelings for him than he has for you, he'd only hurt you. If you want to be hurt then text him but I say forget him love and move on!
Eve
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (8 March 2007):
 Don't hope for something that isn't there.
You could end up getting hurt. You maybe missing the intimate side more than the friendship.
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reader, JnikkiM  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 Its only been a month since you wanted more in the relationship. It sounds to me as if you are missing him in general and are hoping for more. I wouldn't advise to text him only because if he cared that much about the friendship he wouldn't have been able to just walk away from it that fast. If he does care he will contact u. Leave it until then.
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reader, chachacha +, writes (8 March 2007):
The question is: are you sure you just want to be mates? Only a month ago you (very honestly) said that you couldn't be mates with someone that you had those kind of feelings for. Have your deep feelings disappeared so quickly?
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reader, cd206 +, writes (8 March 2007):
 Do you still like him as more than a mate? I'm guessing the answer to that question is yes. Therefore if you see him you'll only be raking up old feelings and all the pain again. Give yourself a break and move on with life. If you two have a future then you'll find your way back to each other when the time is right.
CD
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