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writes:hey, im a guy, 15 yrs old. me and my girlfriend have been fighting a lot lately. i mean, im trying to be helpful and trying to help, but she is stubborn and doesnt think things can be fixed. i do though. and i dont want to lose her. she is the love of my life and i cant live with out her. she doesnt trust me, and im apologising more and more. i always try to fix things but i end up making things worse. please help, i dont know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, Xxblinded_in_chainsxX +, writes (9 March 2007):
Xxblinded_in_chainsxX is verified as being by the original poster of the question she told me last night that we will settle things at lunch today. thanks for all the help!
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reader, Bella55  +, writes (9 March 2007):
When someone asks for some space, you give them that space. They need time to sort out things. Everyone has problems and sometimes we need time to sort them out in our head. I dont think she is running from you, maybe she has issues at home, but you have your whole lives ahead of you. Get busy in your life and dont give her too much attention, it seems like youre suffocating her, and it will only make her run further. Dont blame yourself for anything, there are big changes in store for you too at your age. Remember that you are in the very beginning of your life, youve still got plenty of girls to meet and plenty of relationships to experience.
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reader, Xxblinded_in_chainsxX +, writes (9 March 2007):
Xxblinded_in_chainsxX is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwere trying to fix our relationship. she thinks it cant be done. i do. i broke a promise i made to her. i promised her that i wouldnt bugg her if she was upset. now shes beyond mad at me. im so scared im gonna loose her. i keep apologizing for breaking the promise, but she just tells me she doesnt care. im just so scared.
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reader, Xxblinded_in_chainsxX +, writes (9 March 2007):
Xxblinded_in_chainsxX is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe're trying to fix the problems we have. she dosent think they can be fixed. i broke a promise to her. i promised her i wouldn't bug the crap outa her whwn shes upset but i did. but only because i care so much about her. i swear that im sorry for breaking a promise, but she doesnt believe me.
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reader, onestarq +, writes (9 March 2007):
What are you trying to fix? Did someone cheat? You are so young and I know what it feels like to feel like you could not live without someone. Know that you CAN if it comes to breaking up. I would try to sit down with her and talk to her. Maybe you could talk with her in a public place so she can't blow up? Some women, love a chase. They love it so much! It's okay to chase, but know in the end that your heart, spirit and mind are much more important! Smiles and hugs!
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reader, Ask Heather +, writes (9 March 2007):
 What is that you`re trying to fix, and she dosn`t think can be fixed? What are you appologising for? Can you give us some more information, we`d like to help. Kind Regards, Heather.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 I would put your foot down here and be more assertive. Let her know you love her but if she feels she can't trust you then she might be better looking for someone else she thinks can! Don't be a doormat to her. Let her make the first moves with regards to calling you. You sit back and make her want you more. Women like a challenge so don't be so accommodating all the time.
Eve
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