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Ever since I can remember people have always fascinated me. I seemed to be very adept at solving people’s “life” problems and I never tired of the constant flow of friends asking for my help. I have always been a great listener and have a lot of patience and empathy for people and have written for advice columns in the past.
I am a Relationships Councillor and Life Coach and have a special aptitude with people. I have been active on this site for a number of years. I'm very much a positive thinker and hate being around negative people. Life is for living, it's too short to moan all the time. I'm determined, very spiritual, grounded, independent, strong willed and love life. Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.
If you realized just how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.
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20 questions to ask someone on a date!
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Why do you think marriages break up more now than in the past?
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16 October 2008: Do you remember years ago when families used to sit in at nights? They had no TV, no computer games, no telephones, no DVD's, no video recorders etc etc. They had one another! They had TIME to get to know one another, to BE with one another to ...
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Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college
Q. Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...
A. 21 March 2007: I would just go with the flow Jules, like you said he'll be leaving soon so it might be nice to give him something to remember you by. Have a great time whatever you decide.
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Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college
Q. Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...
A. 20 March 2007: Well you are certainly thinking more positive Jules so that's great! And yes, if you don't run after him and he's interested then he WILL make contact. Did you manage to have a look at that movie I recommended?
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How do I tell him I'm still a virgin at 21?
Q. Here is my problem. I'm a 21 year old virgin. The fact i've remained so is a mystery even to me. Mostly it's because I never let guys get beyond the first few dates, I go out and lose interest. But my biggest problem is that all my friends and even ...
A. 12 March 2007: Ask him how old he was when he lost HIS virginity. Then, when he asks you, you can say... "I haven't lost mines yet, the right man just hasn't came along yet." I don't think he'll think you're a freak at all, I think he'll feel very proud of you ... (read in full...)
How can I help my friend when she gets angry like this?
Q. how do u deal with ur best firned who is extremely upset a lot of the time and is getting angry and flipping out at people when they annoy her very easily. Especially when they are doing it to you even though they have said they don't mean to they ...
A. 12 March 2007: Hello again, I just read the reason for her anger. She just lost a family member. That explains it then.... she's taking her anger for their loss out on everyone else as a way of dealing with her pain. She hasn't been able to grieve properly, she ... (read in full...)
How can I help my friend when she gets angry like this?
Q. how do u deal with ur best firned who is extremely upset a lot of the time and is getting angry and flipping out at people when they annoy her very easily. Especially when they are doing it to you even though they have said they don't mean to they ...
A. 12 March 2007: There's a reason for her anger and if you sit with her and probe deep enough then you'll find it. It may be something that's happening at home that is causing her anger to swell. It may be that she doesn't feel good about herself in some way, ... (read in full...)
I think I'm too small and I'm worried she might want to do stuff!
Q. hello im 13 and i think i am too small i am about 3 inch when not erect and about 4-5 wen erect i am seeing someone who i have been with 2 mnths and im worried she is going to want to start doing stuf but im scared i will put her off me if she ...
A. 12 March 2007: You're not too small YOU'RE TOO YOUNG and not fully developed yet. WAIT WAIT WAIT!!!!! Give it another five years or so and then you'll see the difference.
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I believe he truly cares for me but still my life feels like it revolves around his and waiting for him.
Q. My relationship has undergone lots of ups and downs and if I am honest, I have never been able to figure out if it has moments of control/abuse within it. I have suffered from anxiety and agoraphobia for a number of years but with determin...
A. 12 March 2007: I couldn't have put it better than the anonymous reader myself. Listen to her advice, it's excellent!
Eve... (read in full...)
I want to give him the gift of my virginity!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend now for 10 months. i love him so so much. we spend most days together. we cant get enough of each other. He's sweet, caring, funny, and responcable. He's almost 16 and im 14.He works on saturdays so we ...
A. 12 March 2007: If you love one another so much then a silly argument will not cause you both to break up. You are only 14 years old and no where near ready for such a big step. I know this is not what you want to hear but if your boyfriend loves you as much as ... (read in full...)
I want to repay her by making her cum, any tips?
Q. I have been goin out with ma girl now for 10 months n i love her loads. she's ace..shes not like any other girl...shes the real thing u know. She has made me orgasm bout 3 times now as we have been experimenting a bit. She has had it rough in the ...
A. 12 March 2007: Telling her you want to repay her by giving her an orgasm IS putting pressure on her! She isn't ready to have sex yet so I would leave well alone. If she wants to pleasure you then fine, but leave it at that. When she wants you to go further then ... (read in full...)
We hug all the time but have only kissed once, we've been together 2 and a half months. Do I have a guy who respects me here?
Q. hi i have a bf that i have been with for about 2 and a half months. we hug all the time and have only kissed once! do you think he wants to do more, example, get off with me, do sexual things etc? cos he doesnt try anything like that. he d...
A. 12 March 2007: He's not gay at all and it looks like he DOES respect you. You are both very young and he's enjoying your company and getting to know you, it's only been just over two months after all so your relationship is still very new. Don't put pressure on ... (read in full...)
I am not prepared to throw eleven years of my life away. Help!
Q. can anyone help my husband left me two weeks ago saying he didnt no what he wonts anymore and when i asked he said he didnt wont to come home i have tryed every thing i can am not prapered to throw eleven years of my life away help...
A. 12 March 2007: There's always two sides to a story and you aren't even giving us your side. Why does he want out? What is causing him to feel this way and why doesn't he want to come home? What is so bad that he wants to stay away? There must be some reason ... (read in full...)
What do i do, finish with my boyfriend and forget everything and move on, or remain depressed?
Q. iv been with my boyfriend for nearly 10 months and he has already proposed. weve not been getting on very well and were always arguing. but my ex boyfriend keeps coming round and telling me he still loves me and wants me back and that hes sorry for ...
A. 12 March 2007: You obviously have far more feelings for your ex than you do for your boyfriend and that's the reason your relationship with him isn't going very well at the moment. He can see your mind is elsewhere, he can see there's something wrong (your mind ... (read in full...)
I want to go the full way with my boyfriend but if I do I'm scared he'll cheat on me.
Q. i really wanna go the full way with my bf but im worried that once we do it he will go an cheat on me as all the other guys ive been with have. he says he loves me and we have been waiting and he said he wait more. my body and hearts says express my ...
A. 12 March 2007: Go with your brain and WAIT! Don't let him pressure you into it, and think of what happened from past experiences. If you want to remain with this guy then wait for as long as it takes. 6 months, a year even, only do it when YOU feel comfortable ... (read in full...)
He just wants to be friends but I would so love to go out with him, can someone help me here...?
Q. Well I love this boy a lot since about the 8th grade (last year) and I can't seem to get over him, I'm really hoping I can get some advice so please help me someone. I really do still love him a lot but he just wants us to be really good friends ...
A. 12 March 2007: Guys like the chase so don't seem too "needy" or desperate around him. Let him see YOU only look to him as a friend too. Don't let him think he's the centre of your world or you'll never get him. Play a little harder to get. Don't be in his ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl. How can I catch her attention when I'm around my friends all the time?
Q. how do i get her attention or act kinda cool? there's this girl i really like, well at lunch i'm always in my group of friends, i joke all the time so everyone's always laughin at my jokes etc. i see her lurkin near us with her friends etc. s...
A. 12 March 2007: Sure, you could try that. Or you could let someone else take the lead in the conversation when you see her close by and excuse yourself for a few minutes and go up to her and say hi! You don't sound like the kind of person who's stuck for words so ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy but one minute he's nice to me the next minute he's really horrible.
Q. hey, i met this guy a few months ago and we get on really well, we have slept together (it was a drunken mistake) and it doesnt bother either of us that its just casual, no string sex, but one minute hes all over me and the next hes bein quite ...
A. 12 March 2007: The guy is just using you. He has no respect for you whatsoever and this is why the mood swings happen. You don't put out, he's not happy about it hence the moods. Kick him to the kerb and have some respect for yourself. Find someone who you can ... (read in full...)
His mum hates me and my dad dislikes him. This is really putting a strain on our relationship, what can we do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for 3 years. i was there when his ex gave birth to his daughter and when he went to court to get access and he was there when my mum ran off and my dad nearly killed himself. He's just had to move ...
A. 12 March 2007: If you've been on and off together for 3 years then your parents have seen that the relationship is rocky. They only want what's best for you and they've seen when you've broken up and the pain it's caused you. You say you don't see him as often ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has had a lot more experience than I have in the whole relationship field and its just making me a bit wary of what she might think of me, is this normal?
Q. hello....im just a bit concerned...my girlfriend has had a lot more experience than i have in the whole relationship field and its just making me a bit wary of what she might think of me....is it normal to feel like this ...thank you...
A. 12 March 2007: Hey, I really wouldn't worry too much about this. Every relationship is different, although she may have more experience in relationships in general she no experience in a relationship with you. What she did in one she doesn't necessarily need to ... (read in full...)
How do you rebuild TRUST once it has been broken?
Q. How do you rebuild trust once it has been broken?...
A. 12 March 2007: TRUST has to be earned. If you have done something to lose someone's trust then you need to show them by your actions that you are really sorry and prove to them by these actions that it will never happen again. This can take weeks, months or even ... (read in full...)
We're on a break because he needs time to rethink his feelings for me, I text him and he didn't reply, he always replies. Now I'm even more confused!
Q. I'm confused about my feelings for some guy. I mean, I like him....I really do but there's this part of me that doesn't want to be with him and doesn't want to feel these feelings for him. We're in a break because he needed time to rethink his ...
A. 12 March 2007: Firstly, you contradicted yourself. You said you're letting things go at their own pace but haven't. You text him and boy what a text! That text is enough to make any guy run 100 miles in the opposite direction! No wonder he didn't text you ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but his hygiene and house are such a disaster! HELP!!!
Q. My boyfriend is 28, loving, caring and kind. The twist? he is the most unclean, un kept, does not show and has no idea of what the idea of putting laundry, food away after making something to eat; do I need to go on? I love him and I am trying, ...
A. 12 March 2007: Okay, you've tried the nice approach, now you need to get serious with him! You need to have a talk with him, a serious talk and let him know that the way he lives is really putting you off him. You love him to bits but can't go on like this. Let ... (read in full...)
I've found out she's cheating on me, we live together and she's just had major surgery but I want to throw her out, what can I do???
Q. I found out that my gf has been cheating on me with someone she has never met in another country(saw the steamy e-mails) and confirmed. We live together and the apartment is mine. I want so bad to kick her out but she just had major surgery and is ...
A. 12 March 2007: Confront her and let her know you know. Then tell her that from now on she sleeps on the sofa/spare room and no arguments! As soon as she is well enough she has to look for another place as it's finished between you!
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I know he likes me, but erm... why did he stick his middle finger up at me?
Q. Ok here is my question There is this guy I like and I know he likes me the other day he stuck up his middle finger at me I was just wanting to know, What is the meaning of a guy sticking his middle finger up at a girl he likes?...
A. 12 March 2007: How do you know he likes you? If someone stuck their middle finger up at me I certainly wouldn't think they liked me. Nice gesture to give someone you like, ie "up you!" I think I might have been just a little offended at that! He sure has a ... (read in full...)
Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college
Q. Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...
A. 11 March 2007: Hi Jules,
He will pay for you to go over as long as you have sex with him! Hmmmm this puts a whole different light on things. I would still go over but go over with your own money and still go for your dream! The Secret is about the Law of Attra... (read in full...)
What were these dreams about and why did I have them?
Q. hey! im 16 and i had a really disturbing dream last night. it was a sexual one and in my dream i was in a room and i was naked. my grandpa was in the room aswell and i was getting turned on and was moving closer to him. then i sat right next to ...
A. 11 March 2007: To dream that you are naked, denotes the fear of being found out and exposed about your activities and misjudgment. Dreaming of your grandpa denotes protection, love and security. Have you done something recently that you're not proud of and you're ... (read in full...)
I had a dream about my boyfriends friends (x and y) shagging in a plastic bag in my cupboard! Anyone know what the heck this means???
Q. ok this is soo weird. I had a dream about my boyfriends friends (x and y) shagging in a plastic bag in my cupboard! i hate them and they hate me but i keep dreaming of them like every night! and is starting to disturb me! anyone know what this ...
A. 11 March 2007: To see a cupboard in your dream denotes secrecy of some kind and to see anything plastic in a dream (ie plastic bag) denotes something artificial or fake. This dream is telling you that these two people are maybe withholding something back from you ... (read in full...)
I have been married for 8 years and want out!!!
Q. I have been married for 8 years and am so sick of his moods. My husband has turned into a miserable old man, constantly moaning about how rubbish his life is, I'm sure he's going through the male menopause. I really think it's time to get out, I ...
A. 11 March 2007: First of all do you still love your husband? Why is HE so miserable all the time? Relationships need to be worked at and neither of you seem to be pulling your weight here. Moving in with your daughter and her partner and your 17 year old son ... (read in full...)
Would a man ever look twice at someone 10 years younger?
Q. Hey, I don't know where else to turn, or ask for an outsider's opinion. I have a crush on a man 10 years my elder. I'm not too fussed about age, but it seems ridiculous. Would a man ever look twice at someone 10 years younger? We get on well ...
A. 11 March 2007: The answer to your question is yes, men would look twice at someone 10 years younger than them. You are very young though so I would find out exactly his situation before I dove in there. Is he married or in a relationship? If he's single, what ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him I like him when I'm just a shy wimp?
Q. at school theres a boy called Grant and i really like him i have went out with him before 3 times but we didnt last! =( he went out with my best mate not long ago but he dumped her i dont know if he likes me and i really want to find out! but how ...
A. 11 March 2007: You've been out with him 3 times already. Why didn't it work out? He may like you as a friend but you've given the boyfriend/girlfriend thing a go and it didn't work out. Just be happy to remain a friend.
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How can I get rid of my damn shy morale?
Q. hi, I've some problems with myself and my morale. I am a shy person and every time that I want to open the friendship door with a girl I can't and because of this problem I have to ignore to speak with this girl. Please guide me how I can get ri...
A. 11 March 2007: Morale: spirit or attitude. I don't think it is your morale that needs boosted, I think it's your self confidence. You need to assert yourself more and believe in yourself. Here are a couple of links to help you do this -
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We are soulmates! Is it wrong to have these feelings for someone else, yet still be in love with our spouses as well?
Q. "I found my soul mate 3 years ago,but were both married" Hi everyone,I'm just new to this forum,I was so surprised to read a forum letter and its replies about soulmates, I was never looking or in search for my soulmate, but our lives crossed 3 ...
A. 11 March 2007: Okay, here is MY definition of a soul mate -
Your soul mate is a person with whom from the outset, you have a special connection. He or she is someone to whom you are profoundly drawn. On first meeting your soul mate you will find that you inst... (read in full...)
I'm going to tell my best friend how I feel about her! Any tips?
Q. hi, i wrote up yesteday asking for advice on whether to tell my best friend how i felt about her. Well i'm stopping over there tonight and i've decided i'm going to. Could you give me some advice on how to bring the subject up, i don't just want to ...
A. 11 March 2007: I would ask her if she ever sees you as being MORE than just a friend? Let her answer, if she says "why do you ask" reply "I just wondered." Leave her hanging, if she's interested you can bet she'll carry on with that conversation for sure!
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Should I break it off? I do believe I love her with all my heart!
Q. Hi im 17 and my girlfreinds 16, after about 2 months of dating, we fell in love it was her first relationship in 2 years, i took her virginity, and im the first serious releationship shes ever had. at about the 3 month mark i went over to this girls ...
A. 11 March 2007: Okay you asked what do you do to stop her behaving this way and want you more? DON'T SLEEP WITH HER! Let her see you like her, but don't have a physical relationship with her, keep it platonic. Another thing you're doing very wrong is pouring ... (read in full...)
We broke up for a week and now he's with someone else and I don't know what to do...?
Q. Me and my Ex boyfriend have been dating on and off...at first we were goin out then we broke up...during the break up we went out and did things a couple would do but never claimed ourselves as one...i have been ignoring him because i feel that hes ...
A. 11 March 2007: The best thing to do next time he texts you something like that is reply... "Sorry, but I think you're texting the wrong person here." Talk to him briefly and assertively and let him know you don't want to be with him any more, especially with ... (read in full...)
Our sex life is almost non existent, he says he's "going through something", I can't handle it much longer...
Q. I am 21 and my boyfriend is 32, we have been together for almost 2 yrs., lately our sexual activities have been few and far between. He says its because he is "going through something", I guess like a midlife crisis. But, its been like this for ...
A. 11 March 2007: Is it only your sex life with him that's suffering or are other avenues in your relationship suffering too? Okay, let's look at the possibilities - It may be he's seeing someone else and is getting it from her so doesn't need or want it from you. ... (read in full...)
Who do I choose? The guy who treats me like a queen or the one I love deeply?
Q. WHAT SHOULD I SETTLE FOR, TREATMENT OR FEELINGS? I have to choose between two guys,there is one i love most and another who treats me like a QUEEN. Guy1 treats me well he gives me everything but i just dont feel for him that much but i am afraid ...
A. 11 March 2007: You've just answered your own question... THE ONE I LOVE DEEPLY! Enough said!
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We met online but she is 22 years older than me (40) do you think this relationship could work?
Q. Hi Im 18 and recently went on a few dates with a 40 year old women, after meating her online, i think it went really well, but do you think we will get a lot o trouble becuase of the 22year age gap? And is anyone else in a similar situation. ...
A. 11 March 2007: It depends just how mature you are for your age. This might all seem exciting just now but in months to come you might get bored. I would take things very slowly and see how the relationship develops. You'll probably get a lot of flack from your ... (read in full...)
Do you think it's possible for someone to learn to find someone attractive?
Q. Do you think its possible for someone to learn to find someone attractive? I work with this guy who I really like personality wise but im just not physically attracted to him. The other day he told me he fancies me like crazy but I didnt know what ...
A. 11 March 2007: If you're not sure of your feelings for him then I would play safe and remain as good friends. Remember, friends grow on you and you'll be surprised at maybe how much you'll feel you miss him as your friendship flourishes. Let him know that you ... (read in full...)
Been with him 5 years and I'm feeling he doesn't love me as much anymore. Any advice?
Q. Been with my partner for 5 years nearly. It's been a rocky ride as this is 2nd time round for both of us, I have 3 kids and him 1. His ex was his first love and she had messed him around a few times yet he never gave up, It was only when she said ...
A. 11 March 2007: Unfortunately they're still going to have some form of communication because of the child they had together. She's with someone else now and even has a child with this person so I really don't think you have anything to worry about on that score.
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How do I get out of this hell while avoiding a big mistake?
Q. Hi, please can someone help as I am going crazy! Been seeing a girl for almost 3 years. We've recently bought a house togther and I am so confused as I don't think I love her anymore. I'm scared to let it go on any further but scared to stop it ...
A. 11 March 2007: You have to really decide whether or not you want out of this relationship or not. Could it be the pressure of having a house together that is putting you off her? Has she changed since you moved in together? You say you don't THINK you love her ... (read in full...)
I cheated on him and told him, then he cheated on me. Now it's even do you think we can make a go of this relationship?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. After about 2 weeks of dating him I cheated on him. I was truly sorry. I wish I could turn back time. But I can't. Maybe about 6 months after I confessed to him because it was eating me inside. ...
A. 11 March 2007: You cheated on him 2 weeks into the relationship, hardly even a relationship then was it? The fact he is continually cheating on you is bang out of order. He has got into a bad habit! Him saying he WANTS to forgive you is just his card to ... (read in full...)
Now he just wants to be my friend. What do I do?
Q. I'm seeing a guy with two other girlfriends even though i know the situation and am quite secure enough to be able to handle the lack of monogomy, he decided to break up as he "cares" to much to lose me from his life. He wants to remain close ...
A. 11 March 2007: What an excuse to give you! lmao I hope you didn't fall for it? He can't handle 3 of you so the last one needs to go... that's you! You don't need a user like this in your life, don't fall for his smooth talk. He wants you to decide what you ... (read in full...)
Do you think I should ask him to cheat on her with me again?
Q. Hey, Im 14 and I really like this guy who's a year older than me. He went out with this girl a month or two ago but he really liked me and we were going to organise it so we could see each other without her knowing. Please don't tell me that was...
A. 11 March 2007: Why would you want to be with a guy who cheats on his girlfriend? If he cheats on her, do you think he'll be faithful to you? Would you not prefer to have a guy that likes you and you alone? Have a bit of respect for yourself and stop throwing ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I'm still a virgin at 21?
Q. Here is my problem. I'm a 21 year old virgin. The fact i've remained so is a mystery even to me. Mostly it's because I never let guys get beyond the first few dates, I go out and lose interest. But my biggest problem is that all my friends and even ...
A. 10 March 2007: Just take it one step at a time with this guy. I think he'll feel really good you haven't lost your virginity at 21. Don't feel embarrassed about it at all and don't make a big deal of it, just let things happen naturally when the time is right. ... (read in full...)
Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college
Q. Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...
A. 3 March 2007: Watch this movie! It's called "The Secret" It is $4.95 (3.75 euros) to watch immediately from your PC.
http://thesecret.tv/home.html
Trust me here and watch it, then come back to me and tell me if you still feel the same way!
Eve ... (read in full...)
Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college
Q. Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...
A. 3 March 2007: I think this woman is WRONG! Very wrong! You sounded so full of enthusiasm when we last spoke, now you are thinking negatively because of the negative thoughts she's put into your head. You will be distracted because it takes so long to settle ... (read in full...)
Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college
Q. Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...
A. 28 February 2007: I WOULD see him before he goes, there's nothing wrong with that, you are still good friends and you'll also be able to see by his body language how he feels about you. I do think you're right not to sleep with him. That will only cloud your ... (read in full...)
Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college
Q. Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...
A. 25 February 2007: You said your passion is painting so I would pick up where you left off there and concentrate on that first and foremost in order to get your MA.
He made you take a look at yourself once and put you on the right road, maybe him going to London i... (read in full...)
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