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This is the first time I've been in a relationship. How can I make this relationship work?

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Question - (9 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2007)
A male Nigeria age 30-35, *asqie writes:

i have a girlfriend who is older than i and this is my first time in a relationship. i need some tips on how to make the relationship work i also need to know how a girl feels when she is in love

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (9 March 2007):

AskEve agony auntYou just need to be yourself. Ask her about herself and be a good listener as women love to talk. Always be one step ahead and surprise her when she least expects it. Never pull her down in company and never laugh at her expense.

Look after yourself physically and smell nice. Always be punctual, always see her home and ALWAYS be a gentleman! If you follow these basic steps then you can't go wrong.

Falling in love with someone doesn't happen overnight. It takes time to build up trust and get to know one another but if she's into you then she'll call and text you and just enjoy always being in your company. One final word on this... don't always seem too keen to be in touch with her, give her some space so that she misses you, then when you DO call her she'll look forward to talking to you all the more.

Eve

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A female reader, Bella55 South Africa +, writes (9 March 2007):

We cant give you all the right answers mostly because every girl is different. We are also human you know. A girl likes a man with gentleman manners. Open the door for her, let her walk through the door first etc. It shows respect. Dont swear and act like a rough boy infront of her. Females are very sensitive and we like guys who give us the right attention. Dont act like anybody else but yourself. Do what you feel is good manners and as you go out with more woman you will start to understand them more and more.

Goodluck!!

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