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Ever since I can remember people have always fascinated me. I seemed to be very adept at solving people’s “life” problems and I never tired of the constant flow of friends asking for my help. I have always been a great listener and have a lot of patience and empathy for people and have written for advice columns in the past.
I am a Relationships Councillor and Life Coach and have a special aptitude with people. I have been active on this site for a number of years. I'm very much a positive thinker and hate being around negative people. Life is for living, it's too short to moan all the time. I'm determined, very spiritual, grounded, independent, strong willed and love life. Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.
If you realized just how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.
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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 May 2007: Tell him to move out, (sooner rather than later or it might be YOU he hits next time,) give him the divorce and let him see his son, he has that right (as long as he sees him sober.)
Eve... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 25 March 2007: You KNOW the answer, you said so yourself, you just need to put it into practise. For one, you admitted you have too much time on your hands and are bored. You're using this time to get on his bad side. I would advise you to find something to ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 March 2007: I would meet with him. When he does come to the house then let him know you're glad he wanted to talk because YOU wanted to talk too. Then let him know that you had already decided that him moving back was NOT going to happen. YOU had changed your ... (read in full...)
I'm confused by this man but I'm deeply in love with him and don't want to put pressure on him.
Q. i have been seeing a gorgeous man for a while now and i am deeply in love with him but i get confused by him one - minute he tells me he's in love with me and tells me I'm beautiful but then i get the feeling he doesn't want me around. I don't want ...
A. 8 March 2007: The best way to get him to want you more is to draw away from him and busy yourself more. Don't be so available to him. Is he actually married? If he's not married then it will be easier for him to break away from this other relationship, not so ... (read in full...)
I'm confused by this man but I'm deeply in love with him and don't want to put pressure on him.
Q. i have been seeing a gorgeous man for a while now and i am deeply in love with him but i get confused by him one - minute he tells me he's in love with me and tells me I'm beautiful but then i get the feeling he doesn't want me around. I don't want ...
A. 6 March 2007: You seem a bit insecure in yourself. You need to be more assertive and believe in yourself more. I don't mean for you to have a go at him when you ask him, be nice about it and just talk to him about it. Don't be a doormat to him though, have more ... (read in full...)
I am not interested in a relationship just now but there's one girl I just can't get out of my head. I've tried everything! How do I get past this?
Q. This problem may be differant to what you normally help with... I am 18 years old and have never been in a relationship. Now that isn't the problem, because I DON'T want to be in one (not just now, but ever... I wont talk about why, because it's ...
A. 6 March 2007: Okay, thanks for posting more information but I see you have emailed me about this too so I'll answer on there okay?
Eve... (read in full...)
Is it normal that I mis "her" more than my girlfriend?
Q. is it normal that i miss 'her' more than my gf, i talk to 'her' more than my gf, i want to have sex with 'her' more than my gf? i think i'm falling in love with her. help!!...
A. 6 March 2007: From the information you have given I take "her" to mean either an ex or someone else you have grown very fond of. Having these feelings for "her" is NOT being fair to your girlfriend so you either get "her" out of your head and continue with your ... (read in full...)
I'm confused by this man but I'm deeply in love with him and don't want to put pressure on him.
Q. i have been seeing a gorgeous man for a while now and i am deeply in love with him but i get confused by him one - minute he tells me he's in love with me and tells me I'm beautiful but then i get the feeling he doesn't want me around. I don't want ...
A. 6 March 2007: Then you need to talk with him and ask him why he keeps blowing hot and cold with you all the time. He either wants this relationship or he doesn't. YOU have the right to want to know where you stand too so be assertive and ask him. It could be ... (read in full...)
How can I deal with these feelings of depression and anxiety my girlfriend has? I love her to bits but it's making me suffer too.
Q. It has recently come to my attention that my girlfriend is depressed. I have felt our relationship strain in the past month, from being an open expressive loving one, to a noticably more distant one. I am in a long distance relationship and its been ...
A. 6 March 2007: You said her moods changed after flunking a major assignment and she was using the relationship as the excuse. This may have depressed her as she'll have to sit that again or it may be that she is, in fact fed up or bored with the relationship as ... (read in full...)
I was nasty and ignored him! Why cant I stop being scared and be nice to him?
Q. Why cant I be nice to someone I like? Met guy 2 yrs ago, went out for short time, he said one nite wanted something serious, etc., I didnt reply, next morning said couldnt handle it and that was it, he wouldnt talk to me, said didnt want to be...
A. 6 March 2007: He's with someone else now and as Pete says, if he REALLY wanted to be with you he wouldn't have jumped into another relationship so quickly. He should have been more sensitive to your feelings because of your past and hung in there, but he didn't ... (read in full...)
I've gone off sex and its killing my marriage can you help?
Q. I've gone off sex and its killing my marriage can you help?...
A. 6 March 2007: Why have you gone off sex? How long have you been feeling like this? How long have you been married? Is there someone else? Are there any other problems going on in the marriage that is making you feel like this? Do you have any children?
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I'm really worried that my relationship is waning badly... is he going off me?
Q. Hi im a twenty year old girl who has been seeing a guy for nearly ten months now, which is my longest relationship ever. We used to get on great and loved hanging out together (we're both at university) we would spend quite a lot of time together ...
A. 6 March 2007: This relationship sounds as if it's ran its course. He sounds bored. Why don't you suggest a break for a while and see what he says. If he said he doesn't think it would bother him and that he wouldn't miss you if you broke up I think that speaks ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend was in a car crash recently, she's very emotional all the time, what can I do to help her?
Q. My gf has recently been in a car crash, she didn't get a serious damage and neither did the driver only now shes been home for about a week now and shes extremely emotional and very vunerable she doesn't seem to want to go out as if she scared. ...
A. 6 March 2007: Why don't you send her a card saying how much you care for her, letting her know that you're so glad she came out of the crash unscathed, it made you realise just how much you DO feel for her. Bring her a big bunch of flowers the next time you go ... (read in full...)
She's just a friend but lately...she's been offering more lip than cheek, when we kiss! What's happening with this woman?
Q. I have a very good female friend who I see weekly. We are both married. A couple of months back I went to see her at her home and when we greeted she got more of my lips than my cheek. I dismissed it as simply a kiss between friends. Recently I lost ...
A. 6 March 2007: Yes, I agree, that does tell you she has feelings for you. It sounds more like a "goodbye" hug to me. She knows she's maybe came on too strong in the past and she knows now what she has to do. Jogging to the car, she'd have been upset and just ... (read in full...)
My wife keeps telling me they are "just friends", but I'm not sure that's all he wants!
Q. My wife keeps telling me they are "just friends", but I'm not sure that's all he wants. My wife has been hanging out with this guy for a little under a year now. They regularly hang out with a few other people on Thursday nights to watch TV/movie...
A. 6 March 2007: Watching a movie in his bedroom in the dark??? Jeeezus... what sort of signals is she sending him? Can she not see that? She is totally disrespecting you doing something like this, it is out of order... period!
You are right to have a talk wit... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 March 2007: I was shocked to hear how you just rolled over and let him back into your home so easily! Things OBVIOUSLY aren't going well with this other woman but do you really want him back in the house the way things stand? Do you realise the life you're ... (read in full...)
My wife keeps telling me they are "just friends", but I'm not sure that's all he wants!
Q. My wife keeps telling me they are "just friends", but I'm not sure that's all he wants. My wife has been hanging out with this guy for a little under a year now. They regularly hang out with a few other people on Thursday nights to watch TV/movie...
A. 6 March 2007: Your wife was there for him when he needed her, he had a bad relationship in the past and had self esteem issues. He doesn't NEED her any longer so she needs to withdraw from him a good bit and let him get on with his life now.
Be upfront ... (read in full...)
What should I do to help my husband learn how to not lie to me??
Q. What should I do to help my husband learn how to not lie to me!???? I have been married for almost 2 years now. I truely love my husband, although these days it is getting harder and harder for me to love him as a wife is to love her husband. I ...
A. 6 March 2007: Okay, I get the feeling your husband has had quite a sad childhood and lied to get attention. It may be he was from a large family and felt invisible and he's made up these lies because he sees it gets him attention or makes him feel important. ... (read in full...)
What is your definition of love?
Q. My question is short and concise; What is love? I know that there is no text book definition of love, and that there's no right or wrong answer to that. I've always wondering and was just thinking what everybody else here thought. Thanks. ...
A. 6 March 2007: To love a person, first and foremost you must KNOW them personally. Lots of teenagers say they "love" a celebrity or are "in love" with them but of course this can't be, they love the idea of who they are but if they've never met them then it's just ... (read in full...)
Are my friends right?
Q. me and my bf are planning to have sex in 2 weeks as he staying at mine. he a virgin and im far from being one (9 guys) he saying that even though ive been with that many guys in his eyes im still a virgin as i never loved those guys but i love him. ...
A. 6 March 2007: The reason your boyfriend is saying this to you is simple... it doesn't matter to him about your past, what matters to him is the here and now! He has a lot of feelings for you and cares for you very much. Forget about the past and concentrate on ... (read in full...)
How do I have sex with a girl and what do I have to do?
Q. I am bi sexual and i fancy a mate but i am not sure just how to have sex with a girl please help how do i have sex with a girl and what do i have to do?...
A. 6 March 2007: Come back here say 5 years from now and ask that question again and you'll get an answer. Sorry, but I have to agree with the other aunts, you are far too young to be even considering having sex with ANYONE!
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How do I stop thinking about someone from work?
Q. How do I stop thinking about someone at work. Once in a while I think she is interested in me, but then I convince myself it is my imagination. There is no real chance of any relationship because she is straight and living with the same guy for at ...
A. 5 March 2007: What is it exactly that you find so compelling about this woman? Is it her lifestyle, her looks, her dress sense, her assertiveness... what? Do you fantasise about her sexually?
I think you admire her more than anything else and all you are need... (read in full...)
I'm sure he cheats on me, he always hides his mobile and talks to loads of girls.
Q. I dont trust my boyfriend! Im sure he cheets on me he always hides his mobile, and talks to loads of girls over the net, (some who im sure he has met up with). I now find myself checking his phone and reading his emails, i have spoke to him about ...
A. 5 March 2007: Why are you even with this guy? You obviously have your reasons for thinking this. Ask him outright to let you see his mobile. He should do this gladly if he has nothing to hide. If he refuses, then that speaks for himself and you should kick ... (read in full...)
He sneered about some girl being a virgin, thing is I'm a virgin too. Now I don't know how to handle this...
Q. Hi, I'll try to keep this short. A few months ago I met a guy. Things seemed to be going well between us but all of a sudden they just seemed to stop (his decision not mine) Thing is he seems to have had second thoughts now and wants to see me in a ...
A. 5 March 2007: I'll tell you exactly how to play it. Enjoy his company but DON'T sleep with him! If you do you'll regret it. Remember, you haven't been with him for a while so build up that friendship again. If you invite him to your hotel room and sleep with ... (read in full...)
What is the best way to win your lover back?
Q. The other day i cheated on my boyfriend who i love so much! Hes given me another chance to make things straight but ive got a lot to make up for. what is the best way to win your lover back?...
A. 5 March 2007: Show him by your ACTIONS that you really care for him and that he is one of the most important people in your life. Drop him a casual text from time to time saying something complimentary to him, letting him know you miss him or are thinking of ... (read in full...)
I am not interested in a relationship just now but there's one girl I just can't get out of my head. I've tried everything! How do I get past this?
Q. This problem may be differant to what you normally help with... I am 18 years old and have never been in a relationship. Now that isn't the problem, because I DON'T want to be in one (not just now, but ever... I wont talk about why, because it's ...
A. 5 March 2007: What exactly ARE the feelings you have for her? What did she say when you told her how you felt? What is it about this girl that draws you... what is the pull? Why is it you don't ever want to be in a relationship? How did this come about?
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My ex is very unhappily married and wants to get back with me but I'm not interested.
Q. My ex boyfriend is married and very unhappy. He tells me his problem however, I tell him he needs to take it up with his wife. I mentioned to him if he strongly feels that way, sit her down and talk to her. Please keep me out of this. I am here ...
A. 5 March 2007: You are right to tell him he needs to talk with his wife about it but you are also giving him hope here. He wants to get back together with you and what do you say...? "It's always possible!" Come on.... don't string the guy along! The best thing ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to get my ex out of my head! Help!!!
Q. i dont know how to get my ex out my head. we were only together for a few months, he broke up with me through my sister. he had no reason as far as i know. the day after he broke up with me he got with my sister they were seeing each other for about ...
A. 5 March 2007: He's definitely move on now and isn't interested any more. You could maybe say to your sister to let him know that you're not the horrible person that his sister's portrayed you to be. If anything, remain friends for now and if anything develops ... (read in full...)
I've been with my girlfriend for 19 months but I know she's not right for me yet I don't want to hurt her. What can I do about it?
Q. Well...here goes. I've been with my 18yo girlfriend for about 19 months we moved in together about 6 months ago and i think things aren't working out. It's the most bizzare feeling as i do still love her, i just know that despite this i don't want ...
A. 5 March 2007: I think you've pretty much made up your mind that this relationship isn't going anywhere. It's just HOW to tell her that you're worried about. When a relationships breaks up, whether you've been together for weeks or years, there is still going to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is talking to other men online saying how hot and sexy they look, when confronted he said he only wants friends for us to socialise with. How do I handle this?
Q. My bf of 11 months and I have been having many trust related problems since we met. I just discovered that 1 month ago he created an online profile looking for friends. It is on a website that caters to the specific type of men he is sexually ...
A. 5 March 2007: I would say to him if he wants to do this then let you in on it too. Both of you sit down together and chat. He should also let these guys know that he is actually WITH a partner at present and is online looking to meet new friends and hear about ... (read in full...)
He was my first boyfriend and I would love to get back with him, he says he likes me but as a friend for now. What do you think?
Q. Please somebody help me here! i am driving myself crazy!! I'm 15. This is the story and i will try shorten it as much as i can. I was dating a guy for 2 months, he dumped me a week before valentines day. i was sooo upset i literally felt l...
A. 5 March 2007: You were with him for a short time. He was your first love but it didn't work out. Forget him and move on. He's only keeping you hanging. If he needed space to think things over another chick should never have entered the scene. The bottom line ... (read in full...)
How can I make my friend feel better about herself?
Q. Quick question: What do you say to a friend who has low self-esteem and thinks that the guy she's dating thinks you're prettier and sexier than she is? She's having a tough time with this relationship, this guy won't commit, and she says you've j...
A. 5 March 2007: Thanks for those kind words, I really appreciate it. Do keep me updated and let me know how it goes... and let me know if you enjoyed the movie and if it made a difference.
Eve... (read in full...)
I have been burned bad in my past relationships, how can I start trusting again?
Q. I have been burned real bad in my last past relationship and now I have met a new girl and have very strong feelings for her but I am not sure on how to trust her. How do I start trusting again?...
A. 5 March 2007: You need to remember that not everyone is the same. Just because you've been burned in the past doesn't mean that every girl you get with is going to cause you to distrust them. Take it slowly with this girl, get to know her first as a friend ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my fiancee and can't get over my guilt.
Q. I cheated on my fiancee.. I cheated on my fiancee, the woman I love and have been with for four years, with a girl I didn't even know. I have no idea why I did it. I was at a party drinking heavily and met this girl who started flirting...
A. 5 March 2007: Why do you suspect her of cheating on you? What makes you think this way? You seem genuinely sorry about this and I would usually say to come clean about it and be honest. But in this case I'm going to say the opposite. You were steaming drunk! ... (read in full...)
What does love actually mean... and is falling in love painful?
Q. hey guys just wanted to know, what does love actually mean???? and is falling in love painful???...
A. 4 March 2007: To love a person, first and foremost you must KNOW them personally. Lots of teenagers say they "love" a celebrity or are "in love" with them but of course this can't be, they love the idea of who they are but if they've never met them then it's just ... (read in full...)
She's going through a lot and won't tell me her feelings! How do I cope with this?
Q. ok, me and my gf have been goin out for quite a while now and have been best mates for years. Although we've known each other all our lives i thought i could go through everything with her. But she lost her cousin a few days back, she died of cancer ...
A. 3 March 2007: Your girlfriend lost her cousin only a few days ago so she will still be in shock about it all. She needs time to grieve and get her head around it all. Be there for your girlfriend, you don't need to say anything at this point, there's nothing ... (read in full...)
Married to an abused woman for 21 years and now our sex life is gone! What can I do?
Q. i have been married for 21 years to an abused woman. Our sex live is non going. now that her 3 children are over the age of 18 it has got a lot worse even after all the promises, i feel (selfishy) that life would get better (after promises) but in ...
A. 3 March 2007: In what way was your wife abused? Has she spoken to you at length about her past? Has she always found sex difficult with you? Has she promised you it would get better? How is it getting worse? Do you have a successful marriage apart from the ... (read in full...)
She seems apprehensive--do you think things can progress if I dont put pressure on her by telling her how I feel?
Q. i am a lone parent of three teenagers, i have fallen head over heels for another lone parent, she has one child , we have been seeing each other now for two months, she says she cares for me a lot , but doesnt feel the same way towards me as i do ...
A. 3 March 2007: She already KNOWS how you feel and she has told you she doesn't feel the same way. Now this may be because of her past relationships and she's setting herself up NOT to be hurt again and it may not. You need to decide and find out which!
Take ... (read in full...)
How do I remove this yearning I have for an ex-girlfriend? Any advice?
Q. Hi, I am just hoping that someone can offer me some advice on how to remove the yearning I have for an ex-girlfriend. We were with each other for 10 years but broke up a year and a half ago after the relationship went a bit sour after too many arg...
A. 3 March 2007: The reason we enter into a relationship is to see if we're compatible with the other person. You, after a year together with your current girlfriend have realised that you are not compatible. You get along okay but she's definitely not the one for ... (read in full...)
When is the right time to make out with my gf?
Q. how do i make out with my girlfriend? i dont know how to and how will i know when the time is right?...
A. 3 March 2007: There are no right ways or wrong ways to "make out." It's all about feelings, mutual feelings for one another. First of all she must be at least 16 years of age or having sex with her is illegal. You also need to prepare beforehand and talk about ... (read in full...)
My ex was in an accident and I'm very upset! I am so confused all the old feelings are coming back. Are these feelings of love or just shock?
Q. I've been with S for almost 2 years and we are really happy together. Before we got together i had another guy in my life, I. We were together for about 5 months and when it ended it was messy,confusing. We remained close friends and he's never had ...
A. 3 March 2007: You are fond of your ex and seeing him so helpless in this way has confused your emotions. You probably were shocked to see him lying there helpless and wanted to cuddle him and let him know everything's going to be all right. You have to sit down ... (read in full...)
The spark is gone and now I am seeing other men! How do I not hurt my bf?
Q. I am 19 in a relationship but the spark has gone we don't have sex anymore and I am seeing other men but I don't want to hurt my other half like this...
A. 3 March 2007: You're going to hurt him MORE if he finds out you're being unfaithful to him. Do the right thing by him and tell him that although you really like him, you feel it's not working out between both of you and would prefer to remain friends. At least ... (read in full...)
He's 5 years older,so does the age gap really matter as my friend thinks it does?
Q. I am a teenage girl in a bit of a predicament. In the last few days I have learnt a friend of mine has developed a fancy towards me. I never really considered him before, as he is five years my senior, but now find I find I share the same feelings ...
A. 3 March 2007: Does he know how old you are? Pursue this relationship by all means but if you're sensible you'll take it very slowly and keep it light with NO sex until you're 16. If you can both handle this and he respects you then he'll not try to pressure you ... (read in full...)
I am 14 and he's 18! What do you all think of this?
Q. i'm 14...he's 18...we both feel the same way...what do you think?...
A. 3 March 2007: Does he know how old you are? Pursue this relationship by all means but if you're sensible you'll take it very slowly and keep it light with NO sex until you're 16. If you can both handle this and he respects you then he'll not try to pressure you ... (read in full...)
He wants to be with me but doesn't want to hurt his new gf! What do I do?
Q. me and my boyfriend split up a month ago, recently we have been meeting up with our friends and just hanging out. 2 weeks ofter we broke up he got together with one of his mates (they have been together 2 weeks now) last week, i was round my friend ...
A. 3 March 2007: The ball lies in his court here. It's up to him to let his girlfriend down gently. He should let her know that as much as he likes her, he doesn't think their relationship is working and thinks it would be best just to remain friends rather than ... (read in full...)
Need to advise my friend about her LD relationship. What can I tell her?
Q. hey! i really need someones advice. My best friend lives in Chester, England nd she rly likes a guy who lives in Scotland. She is absolutley mad about him and i truly believe that he likes her back. I dont think she'll be happy till shes going ou...
A. 3 March 2007: How did she meet him? She needs to continue to get to know him then maybe ask him down to see her. Scotland to chester is only 5 miles by car or 3 miles by train so it isn't that long. If he's keen he'll want to come and see her and if they still ... (read in full...)
Been with the same guy for 15 years, I love him, but I also love someone else!!!
Q. what do i do i have been with the same man for 15 years i do love him, but i am in love with another man i don't know what to do.they are both great men i don't see how i could choose between them.i have a 14 year old boy with the man i been with ...
A. 3 March 2007: There is a big difference between loving someone and being IN LOVE with someone. You say you love your partner but you're "in love" with this other man. 15 years is a long time to be with someone. You really need to ask yourself some very ... (read in full...)
She's just a friend but lately...she's been offering more lip than cheek, when we kiss! What's happening with this woman?
Q. I have a very good female friend who I see weekly. We are both married. A couple of months back I went to see her at her home and when we greeted she got more of my lips than my cheek. I dismissed it as simply a kiss between friends. Recently I lost ...
A. 25 February 2007: If you feel you are in control of the situation then there's no harm in meeting with her but if you're not 100 per cent sure about how you feel about her ie platonic friend only then I would put a bit of space between you both for now.
Eve... (read in full...)
She's just a friend but lately...she's been offering more lip than cheek, when we kiss! What's happening with this woman?
Q. I have a very good female friend who I see weekly. We are both married. A couple of months back I went to see her at her home and when we greeted she got more of my lips than my cheek. I dismissed it as simply a kiss between friends. Recently I lost ...
A. 24 February 2007: You put her firmly in her place that's what you do! Tell her you like her as a friend but nothing more. You love your wife and value your marriage and have no intentions of having anything more than a platonic friendship with her.
Does your wif... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 21 February 2007: Keep yourself looking your best, go out and meet other people (like your city friend) it will keep your confidence boosted and that's what you need right now. Continue to let your ex husband see that there is more to life than HIM! Try and ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 18 February 2007: Hey if you want this to work you need to listen to my advice! How many times did I tell you to play it cool with him, being friendly without being needy! The minute you get by yourself you call him and ask him over????? Jeeeeeeeeeeze.... wake up ... (read in full...)
How can I make my friend feel better about herself?
Q. Quick question: What do you say to a friend who has low self-esteem and thinks that the guy she's dating thinks you're prettier and sexier than she is? She's having a tough time with this relationship, this guy won't commit, and she says you've j...
A. 18 February 2007: Go over to her house one night or invite her to your house and watch a movie called "The Secret!" It will cost you $4.95 to watch from your PC but you can watch it instantly! It will change her whole life and whole way of thinking. She is ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 February 2007: Oh dear, what a weekend you had. Nothing worse than being with someone you want so much and them to treat you this way. You have to resort to the fact he's made his mind up. "You can take a horse to the water but you can't make it drink." You've ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2007: I think you're doing great! You could have flown at him a number of times yet you've kept it together EVEN with your cold so well done there! DON'T ask him to stay over. When he comes to visit be friendly and pleasant. Remember, the plan is to ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 January 2007: Next time he comes over tell you you're sorry for being such a bitch to him and if you could turn the clock back you would. For the sake of your son though you want to be able to be friends with him and hope he agrees. If you prove by your ACTIONS ... (read in full...)
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