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writes:omg i just told my mates boyfriend ( who's also my mate) that last night she went on msn and watched some 20 year old wank on webcam . do you think i did the rite thing , they might not break up over it , but it is possible ! x x
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reader, TakeItOrLeaveIt  +, writes (12 March 2007):
 ok that was really dumb! why would u wanna do that???? are you jealous of their relationship? Yes your friend was very wrong, but its none of your business!!!You can definitely tell her you think she was very wrong by doin that.. but what good did u expect from telling him that? I mean.. you know that he can only be upset be upset about it and why would u want to ruin your friends realtionship with her boyfriend. Next time keep your mouth shut! mind your own business! i know you were trying to be a good friend. but while being good to one, you are bad to the other. Worry bout your own problems:D i think u shud apologise 2 your friend! I hope everything works out! your frendships with these people and their relationship. oh well. good luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut i just feel that she shouldnt of done somthing like that , and he is one of my friends !
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reader, Farris +, writes (11 March 2007):
 What possible good did you think will come of this? Not only is it possible that they'll break up, but you're also liable to lose a friend (You snitched on her). I won't get into the many different layers of why this whole fiasco is wrong, but I don't need to.
It's not really any of your business, because even though you're friends with both of them, you're not involved. In future, just stay out of it.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (11 March 2007):
 Yes, you're a trouble maker. Big mistake. Ask yourself why you did that.....
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reader, cd206 +, writes (11 March 2007):
 I'm not sure why you would possibly think this was a good idea unless you're trying to break up your friend and her boyfriend so you can have him for yourself. The most important thing about friendship is loyalty and keeping each others' secrets and you've blown that. I only hope she doesn't have any dirt on you that she can spread around. I think the only way you can salvage this is to tell your friend what you did before he does. Sure she'll be angry and she may well be for a very long time but she'll probably be grateful that you told her instead of having to find out via her boyfriend. Your friend probably feels bad enough about watching that guy anyhow but only she was in the position to tell him. You did something that wasn't yours to do. You need to hope really hard that your friend can forgive you and then work on forgiving yourself.
CD
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (11 March 2007):
 Well yeah you should've kept your mouth shut. But its too late to do anything about it now but to let this train wreck crash and burn. Who knows, everyone might still be alive at the end of it. But probably not. From a personal point of view, I dont think you should say you was winding him up. Firstly, its seriously unlikely he'll believe you and secondly, if that happened to me, I'd sure as hell would want to know, no matter where the info came from. But thats my opinion, feel free to follow what you think is best
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reader, AskEve +, writes (10 March 2007):
 What on earth would you want to tell him something like that for? Whether she did or not, it was wrong for you to give this information to her boyfriend knowing it might cause an argument between them. What she gets up to is her own business and was definitely not right for you to go and blab it to her boyfriend. I would let your friend know you said this, you just didn't think but will tell him you were only pulling his leg. Then let him know you were only winding him up and hope he believes you and in the future, don't gossip!!!
Eve
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