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writes:Hello :) Basically I really like this guy, but he's SO shy. I'm pretty shy too, but i like him so much that I've tried to just sort of go for it. I've dropped some hints so I'm sure he knows i like him, but I think he's too shy to make the first move, or to tell me to back off if he doesn't feel the same about me. Should I just straight out tell him I like him, or will it just freak him out? help - this crush is unbearable! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2011): Well either way one of you is going to have to step up and do something or nothing will ever happen.Since you are writing to this site im going to tell you to step up. I totally understand how difficult it is, but if you get him alone id say just go for it. Otherwise you will always be wondering what if...Just start off with small talk, to get a convo going then just drop in the fact that you really like him and you would like to get to know him better, even tell him your really shy and don't usually tell guys you like them. He could see it as something you both have in common and this would draw him closer to you.So if you don't go for it you'll never know.Good Luck.x
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reader, Emily Ophelia  +, writes (27 July 2011):
Hey :)A few years ago the same thing basically happened for me. And although you may be dropping hints like crazy, guys are blind. And maybe even a little stupid about that. If I were you I wouldn't be too sure if he really got it. Try smiling at him and saying hi. I guess he'll at least show some kind of response. Should, however, the crush become too unbearable, just ask him out. Ask him if he wants to hang out with you, getting to know each other... And don't be shy about being shy! I believe some boys think it's cute and it is even more impressive if you go ahead and give it a try! Well and if your attempt fails nontheless and he doesn't like you, you've at least overcome your fear of asking him out which might actually cheer you up a bit. So, good luck!!
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