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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi there, i am a 21 year old female student.basically, i find myself attracted to older men. i mean i have a limit. but i find that i find men older than 30 most attractive.and i don't just mean lookswise but also i find them a whole lot easier to talk to.i have tried getting to know younger guys of my own age but just don't feel like i clicked with them.i don't see anything wrong with this but a lot of my friends and family disagree with me dating older men but i can't help who i am attracted to i guess.i just wanted to know if any of you out there think there's anything wrong in this?i just can't understand why people see it as being so wrong. to me as long as two people get along and are attracted to each other then thats what should matter.what do you guys out there think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2011): Never mind what other people think! Different strokes for different folks, and you're right, all that matters is how the two people involved feel about each other. Chances are you're advanced for your age if it's not as easy for you to find common ground with younger men. Not to mention it takes maturity to go against social norms (i.e.: a general preference for smaller age gaps). Fall for whoever you feel connected with and attracted to, and anybody who doesn't like it can lump it :) Good luck and take care x
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