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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:okay so i have had the same best friend for 6 years and we are always together which means im mostly over her house, she has an older brother and we fight all the time, some say like a married couple, but she has said that she doesnt have friends that like her brother. we text all the time and even when i dont reply he sends something else trying to make conversation. do i go along with it and risk losing my bestfriend or do i let it go. Helpp? im so confused on what to do!
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reader, doublejack +, writes (27 July 2011):
Unfortunately, in many cases it is an either-or proposition. Either you protect your friendship with your bff and do not pursue anything with her brother, or you risk your friendship by trying out a relationship. It really comes down to a decision for you - how much do you value the friendship?
The safe thing to do in this situation is to let it go and keep your friendship. You are very young and there are a lot of single guys to choose from out there, but a good friend that you're close with is more difficult to find. It is ultimately your choice, though.
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