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writes: So my fiance' works a lot. I mean... A lot. 80 hours this week. Just this week. He comes home and he is tired.. In which case I do understand. When we first met, I was 80 pounds heavier than I am now, and he says that he loves my body.. and maybe its just my self consciousness.. but I don't feel like I am all that appealing to him anymore. Is there any thoughts or ideas you guys have on what I can do to just absolutely "wow" him? Please don't be shy, I am open to anything. Thank you! (:
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reader, kairi3811 +, writes (29 July 2011):
kairi3811 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you. (: I have tried that before. When I first moved to Arkansas from Washington. Generally, when he comes home, he is tired. I don't blame him in the least. Maybe I can do that for him today. He got off work at 3 this morning and didn't go to bed until around 7. He is currently passed out in bed and I can't seem to sleep past 10:30 no matter what time I go to sleep. lol. But yes, thank you. I will try and find something to make him and do that for him either while he is on his game or watching his shows tonight. Thank you much. (: I do appreciate you taking the time to read and respond. I am open to any other advice you or anyone else may have. I love having options. (:
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (28 July 2011):
Maybe you could fix his favorite meal and have it waiting for him when he comes home. Or you could do that on a day he's off, so he has more time for you. But either way, you could cook his favorite dish and eat it with him when he comes home and have a romantic dinner. After that, you could give him a massage and lots of kisses while you massage him. And dress up for him, even though he may just be casual. Wear something sexy but beautiful, or whatever you feel he'll go crazy for. And then maybe you could cuddle and make love to each other, if he's up for it. And if he's not, then he'll still appreciate the effort you did to make him feel special. Hope this helps.
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